Dilshad needs to ask Tanveer to leave - Page 3

Originally posted by: Asyaforever

Candy i soo love you for creating this post and i agree with you 110%

It would really be an insult to Zoya if Tanu continues living in that house and Zoya is the one to leave then it shows that they don't care for Zoya's feelings at all(if you know what i mean) and if not Dilshad i want Asad to ask her to leave as she has done enough damage as it is 😊

Originally posted by: cclove

Not kicking her out would be so contradictory and hypocritical 🤔

Originally posted by: cclove

Definitely Lee, to let Tanveer stay would be so illogical. It makes no sense. When Najma, Dilshad and Asad look at her Dilshad would see the reason her son didn't get married and Zoya left. Najma would see the woman who ruined their familial relationship and Asad would see the woman who drove his love away. Although I'm expecting Asad to be self-deprecating and not blame Tanveer at all.

If he doesn't question her . . .ugh! It would truly be an insult to Zoya to allow Tanveer to stay. They can't let her stay because she and Asad were "intimate" (oh please that didn't happen). She is "married" as she told them all. Asad owes her nothing since she was a willing participant. And Dilshad sure as hell owes her nothing. Zoya will leave all of them because of Asad AND Tanveer. I really hope they realize that Asad isn't the only one at fault and Dilshad tears into Tanveer too.

Originally posted by: Asyaforever

Exactly!! i wouldn't wanna live in a family like that and she would be insulted more than she was by Razia everyday does that makes sense?? Nope it does!! If Tanu thinks Zoya would leave and Asad would marry her she is still dreaming cuz that move she just did made her look like a wh**e and even if Zoya leaves...Dilshad would not speak to Asad and he would have to go and repent for his sins and find Zoya which would mean Tanu won't get her way again...I also think Asad won't question Tanu cuz he thinks he was wrong but Asad didn't question if she was raped why was she still there when he woke up and why wasn't she saying Asad stay away from her and be scared of him soo that means and clearly shows she was willing into what happened and she is equally to be blamed

Originally posted by: cclove

I know, the way they walked in with their heads bowed in shame. Asad's reactions weren't what I expected either. He didn't react the way I expected finding himself in bed with his so-called BFF.

Mona, I may be wrong but I think in one of your posts you said that maybe there is something bet Asad and Billi. Was it your post? If it wasn't I'm sorry. But the TM talked about how Asad didn't really react when tanveer said Zoya wouldn't understand. Understand what exactly? The unspoken feelings between them? 🤢 This is not my post, as far as I remember I mean, I did mention this incident but differently. I think he gave her a disgusted look. But in my post I do mention this as to the fact that when she says this... again its a big hint that he should question her tehzeeb ka tokra... the question, is will he? because, as you say, why would she say it? she is married, and once dilshaad said that kuchh bhi ho jae, tanveer ke daaman pe daag nahi aasakta, but what happened today? someone should question her... because after all zoya asked everyone tanveer kahan hai, and then the call came... if not anything zoya should not leave without hinting something. but now i am like done stating my thoughts again and again, lol. I will try not to think about QH tomorrow. TRY is the key word here. You should see all my posts today. Baat ki khaal udhed di hai maine...

It is very troubling thinking about that. I mean as that TM said, Asad never discouraged Tanveer's touchy-feely behaviour. That scene in the car wasn't best friends. I have guy friends and I would never be so touchy with them. This is definitely me. He has been hypocritical to some extent. Judging Zoya by clothes, but not judging Tanveer by actions. I agree she is his best friend. I agree it his nature to trust and trust for life. I agree that Zoya never was able to prove her accusations. But, he was getting married to Zoya for God sake...He loved her. He should distance himself from Tanu, specially after knowing that Zoya disliked it... I know its fun to make your lover jealous, but as much as he wanted Zoya to accept his friend, did he ever try to ease the friction by being respectful of what Zoya wants. Zoya said during the skirt issue, will he ever not do something just because she does not like it? The scene in the car was more EW than the SR for me...because Asad was in senses at that time, and he let Tanveer behave like his ex or something...Friendships change after marriage and I have made comments about it to my own guy friends... but never ever in this way. More so in zest. And if seriously, more like remebering good times, and how things will change in the future due to the very rightly changing priorities... not like, today with an over extended hug. She said, ab se aap pe kisi aur ka haque ho jaega, he should have said, nahi tanveer, ye haque to kab se zoya ka hi... because the haque does not have to wait till the formal nikaah, but from the time you commit your love... to someone. its called morals in my book.

He always looked uncomfortable but never discouraged her so she took it as a green light.