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Posted: 12 years ago
Hi,

It's Shazia again..after a very long time..

I am so sorry that I haven't updated for a very long time.. things have been really crazy and hectic..

Honestly speaking..I don't know when you guys will be hearing back from Ruksar...and maybe you may never hear back from her or get her posts on IF anymore.

After she came out of the coma her life just to a big spiral downwards.

Her brother told her ex-fiance and her ex -fiance paid her a visit in the hospital at night time when no one else was present at the hospital...that night she had forced us all to go home and sleep..her parents got a call at 3 in the morning and told her that she had lost consciousness and they needed them to come to the hospital immediately. her mom called me and we all went and the doctor told us what happened...she was to weak to hand the news and she went into a kind of shock they said and then the next couple days later she went into a much bigger shock because her Mama passed away and her and her mama were really close he was like a second father to her.

don't judge but she couldn't handle eveyrhting this time but shes depressed and tried killing herself in the hospital after her ex paid her a visit again.. things got bad we had to get a restraining order and right now shes a little better but shes in full blown shock shes barely eating she doesnt talk at all she just sits around quietly the whole day on the bed..we really don't know what to do..

her ex really did destroy her life there was more to the picture between them that I didnt know and now that i do know everything that happened i really hate that man and wish that ruksar never ever in her entire life ever meet him. but its been really long and i am sorry for a very late update but its been crazy..

I will keep you posted if you guys want...

sorry just pray Ruksar can pull through with this one..

Shazia
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Posted: 12 years ago
Aww hun. Give her time. At least physically she's recovered. Maybe this was the wake up call to get this guy out of her life for good. I believe she'll pull through. If she was strong enough to fight to stay alive, she can get through this depression. I have faith in her and in God. Everything happens for a reason. I know its hard seeing her like this, and it really is sad that she lost her mom. But support her. Be positive around her. I have a gut feeling, a hunch, i don't know what else to call, that she will get through this. We're all here for her.

And forget the updates and stories. Her well being and health are more important. <3 thanks for keeping us updated. She's really lucky to have a friend like you.
Edited by mochhug - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: rockstarrfn786

Hi,


It's Shazia again..after a very long time..

I am so sorry that I haven't updated for a very long time.. things have been really crazy and hectic..

Honestly speaking..I don't know when you guys will be hearing back from Ruksar...and maybe you may never hear back from her or get her posts on IF anymore.

After she came out of the coma her life just to a big spiral downwards.

Her brother told her ex-fiance and her ex -fiance paid her a visit in the hospital at night time when no one else was present at the hospital...that night she had forced us all to go home and sleep..her parents got a call at 3 in the morning and told her that she had lost consciousness and they needed them to come to the hospital immediately. her mom called me and we all went and the doctor told us what happened...she was to weak to hand the news and she went into a kind of shock they said and then the next couple days later she went into a much bigger shock because her Mama passed away and her and her mama were really close he was like a second father to her.

don't judge but she couldn't handle eveyrhting this time but shes depressed and tried killing herself in the hospital after her ex paid her a visit again.. things got bad we had to get a restraining order and right now shes a little better but shes in full blown shock shes barely eating she doesnt talk at all she just sits around quietly the whole day on the bed..we really don't know what to do..

her ex really did destroy her life there was more to the picture between them that I didnt know and now that i do know everything that happened i really hate that man and wish that ruksar never ever in her entire life ever meet him. but its been really long and i am sorry for a very late update but its been crazy..

I will keep you posted if you guys want...

sorry just pray Ruksar can pull through with this one..

Shazia







Thank you for your support I really appreciate it I see you constiently commenting and I'm happy to see so many people care for her it's good to see she has friends on here that are truly concerned for her well being.
A little mistake I just want to clarify mama is actually her uncle.. it's her moms brother so she called him mama he was like a second father to her. so the shock with that and her ex fiance really took a big toll on her mentally and physically. physically she's so weak she's already lost 30 pounds cause she's barely eating and plus the heat she's already passed out many times due to dehydration.

An thank you for you belief in this Insha Allah she gets better soon I was hoping she would pick up before Roza starts cause then she'll start fasting and won't listen to anyone and the hours will be very long and cause of that her health can pick up but then Roza starts next Tuesday so Im just praying for her very quick recovery.
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Posted: 12 years ago
Oh god! What's wrong with that man?! He'll surely go to hell. I'll pray that ruksar is back to her normal self soon. Plz update us with her condition.
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Posted: 12 years ago
Please show mercy on her and take care of your child ...
Babaji, Allah miyya, Jesus Christ please save her... Don't worry we will pray for her and she will become alright...
Edited by VindhyaMounika - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
please take care of her! god bless her!
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Posted: 12 years ago
InshaAllah she'll pull through this too! our prayers are with her.
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Posted: 12 years ago
Hi,

It's Shazia again.

It's been a while since I updated about Ruksar on here. She's been doing better. She's been released from the hospital and her health is really picking up. She's still slightly depressed but she's getting slightly better. She's not talking to anyone at all doesn't even communicate to her family at all. She's always locked up in her room.

I have no idea what's going through her head but I'm trying hard to get through to her. But she's really not responsive to me or anyone.

I have no idea when you guys will be hearing from her or if you will be hearing from her again. Since today for us it was the first day of Ramadan so she's been busy with praying, reading the Qur'an and fasting. So all her time is gone in there you may here from her maybe not or maybe you will hear back from her after Ramadan is over.

But also people have requested and asked about what happened between Ruksar and her ex-fianc I will update that by tomorrow or whenever I get time.

Also I will only update about Ruksar if people do request it so please do let me know if you do or not.

Shazia
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: rockstarrfn786

Hi,


It's Shazia again.

It's been a while since I updated about Ruksar on here. She's been doing better. She's been released from the hospital and her health is really picking up. She's still slightly depressed but she's getting slightly better. She's not talking to anyone at all doesn't even communicate to her family at all. She's always locked up in her room.

I have no idea what's going through her head but I'm trying hard to get through to her. But she's really not responsive to me or anyone.

I have no idea when you guys will be hearing from her or if you will be hearing from her again. Since today for us it was the first day of Ramadan so she's been busy with praying, reading the Qur'an and fasting. So all her time is gone in there you may here from her maybe not or maybe you will hear back from her after Ramadan is over.

But also people have requested and asked about what happened between Ruksar and her ex-fianc I will update that by tomorrow or whenever I get time.

Also I will only update about Ruksar if people do request it so please do let me know if you do or not.

Shazia



Thank god she's home. I'm sorry to hear that she's still under a little depression, but I still feel she'll pull through.

Also sorry about the mix up between her Mama and her mom. My bad. Sucks either way, but I'm glad you cleared that out.

As for her being not responsive, give her time. Ramadan couldn't have come at a better time. From what you're telling me she's very devoted and believes strongly in Allah. So I'm sure that all that praying, all her devotion and participation in Ramadan will help her. She'll find peace. I'm sure of it.

Considering all she's been through, and what might happen when she does finally get in touch with us (I still feel she will, maybe not soon, but she will 😊), we should be prepared and know how to deal with whatever she says. So I guess, now, yeah I would like to know what that doorknob did to someone as sweet and beautiful as Ruksar.

I repeat, you're an amazing friend. I'm sure your presence and help will go a long way in helping her recover fully from all this.

Have faith hun. Thing will work out.
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Posted: 12 years ago
so nice to know she's getting better! 😊
InshaAllah Ramadhan will be a really good time for her to just rebuild herself... she'll surely get through it!

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