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Some of you have read my posts before and probably have noticed that I never really write topics about actors personal life--because it's none of my business; also because these kinda topics are likely to create unhealthy environment on the forum.
I actually try to not even read the posts that are controversial--I generally stay out of all this kinda stuff but yesterday I ended up reading a few posts about KaJen/Karan and Surbhi on IF which I shouldn't have (Jennifer coming to QH sets/Karan rating himself).
India forum is like a family to me.. I know that sounds weird...don't know about y'all but I am usually checking IF every few minutes on my phone--I spend so much time on this forum that it has become a part of my daily life...So much negativity on this forum, members writing harsh comments--insulting each other, making fun of the actors--it all really bugs me!
I was so hurt when I read a few posts about Jennifer..totally broke my heart. IF ladies (my family members of the forum) had written such rude comments about another lady (Jennifer). I just couldn't understand how some women can talk about another woman in such disrespectful way. I was shocked, hurt, disappointed, heartbroken. Actually I felt sorry for the ladies who wrote dirty comments--so much growing up to do!!! There were some comments on Karan's past too and a few comments on Karan and Surbhi together!
After reading all the comments yesterday, I was compelled to write on this topic. Not totally aware of the rules--but I seriously have to let this out and at least try to get my message across..maybe someone might benefit from it!
Before I go any further, I just want to REQUEST that after reading my post if you disagree with anything that I am writing, PLEASE don't comment--not because I have any problem with you writing anything negative or not agreeing to what I am writing but because I don't want any arguments here. And if you still wanna comment and state your disagreement, I request the ladies who are in AGREEMENT with what I am writing..PLEASE avoid replying to those negative comments because the last thing I want is to have another post where we all are killing each other with our words--that would totally destroy the purpose of my post.
There were some ladies who opened Karan's book like they have never sinned in their life before.
"...but let the one who has never sinned throw the first stone!" (John 8:7)
We all make mistakes, we learn from them and move on. Since God doesn't keep any record of our wrong doings, shouldn't we at least try to not keep bringing up Karan's past? If someone had Cancer and got healed of Cancer, we don't keep calling that person a "Cancer patient" the rest of his or her life. At the end of the day, we have absolutely no right to judge anyone.
"Don't pick on people, jump on their failures, criticize their faults— unless, of course, you want the same treatment. That critical spirit has a way of boomeranging. It's easy to see a smudge on your neighbor's face and be oblivious to the ugly sneer on your own. Do you have the nerve to say, 'Let me wash your face for you,' when your own face is distorted by contempt? It's this whole traveling road-show mentality all over again, playing a holier-than-thou part instead of just living your part. Wipe that ugly sneer off your own face, and you might be fit to offer a washcloth to your neighbor." (Matthew 7:1-5)
I love Surbhi so much that I never ever want anyone to link her up with Karan. Surbhi fans, don't you think that she deserves better? Surbhi doesn't deserve a title of a home wrecker or someone that Karan left his wife for--this is Surbhi insult! If you truly love Surbhi, you would always acknowledge her wonderful friendship with Karan and that's about it.
Personally, I don't even like to use the title "KaBhi" because it puts both of them together. I have no problem with AsYa obviously--but don't like to refer Karan and Surbhi as KaBhi.
Yes, I love Karan and Surbhi offscreen. I watch Qubool Hai only and only because of them. I just want to advise all Karan and Surbhi fans to just be grateful for the fact that Karan and Surbhi get along so well on the sets because that's what makes AsYa so believable!!! We as fans tend to assume friendship between co-stars more than what it really is. I truly believe that Karan and Surbhi are just friends and the fans should realize that if they link up Karan and Surbhi, they are insulting Karan and Surbhi because Karan is a married man..so it's NOT your love-- you are unintentionally pointing fingers at their character. Starting rumors, gossiping about Karan and Surbhi doesn't show your love for them.
I doubt this would ever happen because Karan and Surbhi understand the dynamics of being public figures, but would you like Karan and Surbhi to start keeping a distance from each other because of the rumors that will eventually reach their ears?
"...gossip separates the best of friends." (Proverbs 16:28)
Marriage is so important to God. The world started with the union of Adam and Eve. Marriage is one of God's master-plans! You are mocking God when you desire a marriage to be broken or make fun of marriage--Marriage is sacred! Love it or hate it, Karan is happily married to Jennifer. If you don't like them as a couple, please keep your thoughts to yourself instead of trying to make everyone else dislike them also by writing junk about them as a couple. And if you truly love Karan, you will at least respect Jennifer-just because she means the world to Karan!
FYI: I am not writing this post because I support a certain fan group--I didn't even watch DMG until October 2012--just happened to come across some YouTube videos of DMG!!! The reason I am telling you this is to let you know that I am NOT here to go "Hail KaJen" but writing this post only because I want no future "words war" on this forum!
Hopefully I have made my point without hurting anyone's feelings or attacking anyone!!!
Love y'all! Have a great weak!
P.S. I hope this post doesn't get closed because I am not discussing actors personal life but actually trying to help so no topics are made on actors in the future--I hope I am making sense!
Some of you have read my posts before and probably have noticed that I never really write topics about actors personal life--because it's none of my business; also because these kinda topics are likely to create unhealthy environment on the forum.
I actually try to not even read the posts that are controversial--I generally stay out of all this kinda stuff but yesterday I ended up reading a few posts about KaJen/Karan and Surbhi on IF which I shouldn't have (Jennifer coming to QH sets/Karan rating himself).
India forum is like a family to me.. I know that sounds weird...don't know about y'all but I am usually checking IF every few minutes on my phone--I spend so much time on this forum that it has become a part of my daily life...So much negativity on this forum, members writing harsh comments--insulting each other, making fun of the actors--it all really bugs me!
I was so hurt when I read a few posts about Jennifer..totally broke my heart. IF ladies (my family members of the forum) had written such rude comments about another lady (Jennifer). I just couldn't understand how some women can talk about another woman in such disrespectful way. I was shocked, hurt, disappointed, heartbroken. Actually I felt sorry for the ladies who wrote dirty comments--so much growing up to do!!! There were some comments on Karan's past too and a few comments on Karan and Surbhi together!
After reading all the comments yesterday, I was compelled to write on this topic. Not totally aware of the rules--but I seriously have to let this out and at least try to get my message across..maybe someone might benefit from it!
Before I go any further, I just want to REQUEST that after reading my post if you disagree with anything that I am writing, PLEASE don't comment--not because I have any problem with you writing anything negative or not agreeing to what I am writing but because I don't want any arguments here. And if you still wanna comment and state your disagreement, I request the ladies who are in AGREEMENT with what I am writing..PLEASE avoid replying to those negative comments because the last thing I want is to have another post where we all are killing each other with our words--that would totally destroy the purpose of my post.
There were some ladies who opened Karan's book like they have never sinned in their life before.
"...but let the one who has never sinned throw the first stone!" (John 8:7)
We all make mistakes, we learn from them and move on. Since God doesn't keep any record of our wrong doings, shouldn't we at least try to not keep bringing up Karan's past? If someone had Cancer and got healed of Cancer, we don't keep calling that person a "Cancer patient" the rest of his or her life. At the end of the day, we have absolutely no right to judge anyone.
"Don't pick on people, jump on their failures, criticize their faults— unless, of course, you want the same treatment. That critical spirit has a way of boomeranging. It's easy to see a smudge on your neighbor's face and be oblivious to the ugly sneer on your own. Do you have the nerve to say, 'Let me wash your face for you,' when your own face is distorted by contempt? It's this whole traveling road-show mentality all over again, playing a holier-than-thou part instead of just living your part. Wipe that ugly sneer off your own face, and you might be fit to offer a washcloth to your neighbor." (Matthew 7:1-5)
I love Surbhi so much that I never ever want anyone to link her up with Karan. Surbhi fans, don't you think that she deserves better? Surbhi doesn't deserve a title of a home wrecker or someone that Karan left his wife for--this is Surbhi insult! If you truly love Surbhi, you would always acknowledge her wonderful friendship with Karan and that's about it.
Personally, I don't even like to use the title "KaBhi" because it puts both of them together. I have no problem with AsYa obviously--but don't like to refer Karan and Surbhi as KaBhi.
Yes, I love Karan and Surbhi offscreen. I watch Qubool Hai only and only because of them. I just want to advise all Karan and Surbhi fans to just be grateful for the fact that Karan and Surbhi get along so well on the sets because that's what makes AsYa so believable!!! We as fans tend to assume friendship between co-stars more than what it really is. I truly believe that Karan and Surbhi are just friends and the fans should realize that if they link up Karan and Surbhi, they are insulting Karan and Surbhi because Karan is a married man..so it's NOT your love-- you are unintentionally pointing fingers at their character. Starting rumors, gossiping about Karan and Surbhi doesn't show your love for them.
I doubt this would ever happen because Karan and Surbhi understand the dynamics of being public figures, but would you like Karan and Surbhi to start keeping a distance from each other because of the rumors that will eventually reach their ears?
"...gossip separates the best of friends." (Proverbs 16:28)
Marriage is so important to God. The world started with the union of Adam and Eve. Marriage is one of God's master-plans! You are mocking God when you desire a marriage to be broken or make fun of marriage--Marriage is sacred! Love it or hate it, Karan is happily married to Jennifer. If you don't like them as a couple, please keep your thoughts to yourself instead of trying to make everyone else dislike them also by writing junk about them as a couple. And if you truly love Karan, you will at least respect Jennifer-just because she means the world to Karan!
FYI: I am not writing this post because I support a certain fan group--I didn't even watch DMG until October 2012--just happened to come across some YouTube videos of DMG!!! The reason I am telling you this is to let you know that I am NOT here to go "Hail KaJen" but writing this post only because I want no future "words war" on this forum!
Hopefully I have made my point without hurting anyone's feelings or attacking anyone!!!
Love y'all! Have a great weak!
P.S. I hope this post doesn't get closed because I am not discussing actors personal life but actually trying to help so no topics are made on actors in the future--I hope I am making sense!
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