Carpe Diem!

"Worry never robs tomorrow of its sorrow, it only saps today of its joy." ~Leo Buscaglia

"Carpe Diem" is what I have to remind myself all the time. It's a Latin phrase for "seize the moment"! And ever since I have heard of this phrase, it has been my motto for life. Many times I tend to focus so much on the past and the future that I miss out on the present. So just wanted to suggest y'all..PLEASE don't worry about the future!!!

I know that I should be writing about "Qubool Hai" and I am not directly writing anything about the show but India Forum is kinda like a family now so I thought about sharing with y'all a real life principle that can help y'all on daily basis. I have just noticed and felt the hurt that y'all are going through unnecessarily by living in the future.

I wanna quote a couple of scriptures from the Bible that can help you not just while watching Qubool Hai but in your life NOW and in the FUTURE...
Jesus says, "Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to his life?" (Matthew 6:27)
"So do not worry or be anxious about tomorrow, for tomorrow will have worries and anxieties of its own. Sufficient for each day is its own trouble." (Matthew 6:34)

Give your entire attention to what God is doing right now, and don't get worked up about what may or may not happen tomorrow. God will help you deal with whatever hard things come up when the time comes! :)

For a real life scenario, Carpe Diem doesn't mean that you don't plan for the future..yes, you need to plan for the future but don't start living there. You gotta live in the present and make the most of it.
In relation to Qubool Hai..you can't really plan the future..you can't really change anything..you are not the writer of the story..so what's the point of stressing out? Constantly thinking about what wrong can happen in the future is only spoiling your today, your mood, making you worried, giving you headaches, panic and anxiety attacks and you can't do anything about it...TV is for the entertainment..Yes, we do get involved with the characters, story, actors emotionally..I understand that..but don't let it effect your mind and soul so much that you are having problems with your health. I am not exaggerating..I read a few people mention that they are stressed out, frustrated, and even having blood pressure problems because of the show. How can you allow a TV show to have so much grip on you? Don't take me wrong, I have been a Karan Singh Grover fan since DMG and now an AsYa fan and I do get pretty attached to the characters too but friends..don't get so intense..life is much more than a TV soap..AsYa's love story is not the end of the world..You matter, your life matters, your health matters, your day matters, your mood matters..When you are having a rough day, it effects everyone around you..and some of you are having a rough weekend and its only because of a TV show..that's just sad! I am pretty sure that God has a better plan for your life than being depressed because of a TV show!!!

Friends, Carpe Diem, chillax, and get ready to enjoy the upcoming AsYa scene because KSG is gonna be at his romantic best! ;) and Mr. Asad Ahmed Khan who is super orthodox is gonna be as filmy as anyone can get and its gonna be EPIC!!! "Mitwa Ishq Pe Zor Nahin!"

Love y'all and have a wonderful week!

Agree with you! We should carpe diem! Sieze the moments we get of Asya and take the tension as they come.. stressing out before hand isnt gonna get us anything.. which is why i have decided to stop worrying as well!

@LoveRosh Thanks!!!! :) gotta live in the moment!!! Not gonna worry about what's gonna happen..Just looking forward to the airport scene!

@viya.mallik4eva Thanks dear! I just noticed a little too much of tension and worry on the forum..and I was genuinely concerned about all the fans of Qubool Hai who are having a very hard time because of the things that haven't even happened yet and very possibly may not even happen!!!

I totally agree! I will enjoy the each and every moment of QH because if there's one thing I'm positive about - it's that AsYa are endgame.

@KulfiBai Yep, you got it! It's only AsYa..I have absolutely no doubt about it!!! It's easier to enjoy the journey when you know where the story is going...so no matter what happens, it's only AsYa in the end! Even if they are not together right away, as long as their love grows..I am okay with a little bit of separation if needed for a good story..but I am sure that there won't be any marriage kinda separation..I mean..there's no way that I see Tanveer and Asad marriage/Zoya and Ayaan marriage..I am pretty sure that if marriage happens any time soon or later..it will only be Asad with Zoya!

Thanj you for this..,it is very much needed.

As much as I am obsessed with this show... I'm not afraid to admit it 😆...I will never let it affect my life or my health. I'm kind of worried for some on here. I think they may no longer see the show as fiction but real and so find it hard to take any advice telling them to relax, wait and watch. It really is sad when a TV show has so much control over you. Very nice post 😊

@-Racha- you are so welcome! :) I needed it too!!!! When I was writing this post..it was actually a reminder to me as well! We all need to learn to make the most of today, live in the present!!!

@Drea_QH1fan Thanks! :) I am totally in love with AsYa..emmm..well..I am gonna admit..I am also somewhat obsessed with AsYa..lol..But just like you said, there's no way that I can allow a TV show to impact me in any negative way. Love is beautiful..and us girls love watching love stories and we start to idealize the characters that create the magic (love onscreen)..but with daily soaps..we really have to make a conscious effort to draw a line of how much we can allow it to get a hold of us..Daily soaps obviously have tendency to keep us hooked and become a part of our lives deeply and that's because we watch them everyday unlike movies...we really have to guard our hearts or else we can definitely get a little too much attached with the show where it starts to hurt us in every way..emotionally and mentally!!!! Hopefully my post can help people look at the show a little differently and..the bigger picture..look at their lives a little differently and not worry!