~SUGGESTIONS CORNER~(To keep the forum active) - Page 2

Brilliant post di 👏

First of all, this is a great idea di :)

How about not bullying members (no names mentioned 😉) off this forum who write things with which you have issue with? Seriously, I have seen a lot of interesting writings leave this forum over the weeks. I like a difference of opinion - it leads to interesting conversations. There are only so many posts I want to read ooh and ahhing over the show. People need not get irritated over the slightest post that bothers them. THAT is how you keep a forum active - allowing EVERYONE to come and post a variety of views and opinions. Don't like a post or agree with it, ignore and go to the one you do.

Originally posted by: Laila2009

How about not bullying members (no names mentioned 😉) off this forum who write things with which you have issue with? Seriously, I have seen a lot of interesting writings leave this forum over the weeks. I like a difference of opinion - it leads to interesting conversations. There are only so many posts I want to read ooh and ahhing over the show. People need not get irritated over the slightest post that bothers them. THAT is how you keep a forum active - allowing EVERYONE to come and post a variety of views and opinions. Don't like a post or agree with it, ignore and go to the one you do.

Well, if difference of opinions leads to conflicts and bashings and is deliberately brought into the forum to create different POVS and eventually conflicts then I would not appreciate such posts.

If a POV is genuinely presented in the light of positive criticism instead of direct bashing on the actor or character or story, then such posts are really needed in the forum and I would request everyone to respect and appreciate such posts.

If I don't like a post,I would like to mention as to why I can't agree with it instead of being silent.
This has two advantages-first the activity of the forum increases with every single comment on a post and second, the post maker would see the topic of discussion in a different perspective as well.😆

Noone likes to bully anyone here coz noone owns this forum.😆
If one feels like he/she is being bullied here then I feel really sorry for him/her for underestimating his/her rights on the forum.

A very important and meaningful post indeed Laila.
You have raised a very important point as I've seen members making personal comments on each other during controversial posts.
I hope after reading ur post and my replies everyone would stop jumping at conclusions and attacking a thread maker on the spot without thinking twice.

Cool idea will surly be more active

Originally posted by: -Yaariyan-

Asma please pm this link to Jyo di to make it sticky and give my ITA,FOTY posts to unsticky so that it can be placed on sticky;

Yaari dear,your post needs to be there in the sticky as well.I've already pmed Jyoti about this thread.Let's see what's her reaction is. 😉

Thanks a lot people for your amazing reviews.
I would request you guys to kindly keep mentioning ur suggestions here time to time.

Originally posted by: crazy4KASH_AR

Well, if difference of opinions leads to conflicts and bashings and is deliberately brought into the forum to create different POVS and eventually conflicts then I would not appreciate such posts.

If a POV is genuinely presented in the light of positive criticism instead of direct bashing on the actor or character or story, then such posts are really needed in the forum and I would request everyone to respect and appreciate such posts.

If I don't like a post,I would like to mention as to why I can't agree with it instead of being silent.
This has two advantages-first the activity of the forum increases with every single comment on a post and second, the post maker would see the topic of discussion in a different perspective as well.😆

Noone likes to bully anyone here coz noone owns this forum.😆
If one feels like he/she is being bullied here then I feel really sorry for him/her for underestimating his/her rights on the forum.

A very important and meaningful post indeed Laila.
You have raised a very important point as I've seen members making personal comments on each other during controversial posts.
I hope after reading ur post and my replies everyone would stop jumping at conclusions and attacking a thread maker on the spot without thinking twice.

Originally posted by: Laila2009

You have too many conditions as to how a post should be and that in itself I find a big problem in encouraging diversity on this forum. I have seen many posts bringing in a viewpoint and termed as bashing because it riles up the sensitivities of someone. People really need to think twice about learning to tolerate different viewpoints. I agree; what disappointments me is when someone made an ugly comment about me as a person, you liked the post, so I don't know why you are saying these things but not practicing them as well.😉

You know what,sometimes I wonder if u really have a problem with me.I think this thread is about giving suggestions to keep the forum active.So plz stick to it.
I don't want u to carry ur motto of FREEDOM OF SPEECH here coz decorum of forum needs to be maintained in the light of freedom of speech.
This post is not about what u like or what u hate or what problems u have faced.
This post is about giving suggestions.IF u can't do that why don't u follow the advice u've stated in ur post post.IGNORE THIS THREAD KINDLY FOR THE SAKE OF PEACE ON THIS THREAD.I BEG THEE.
I'm sure u must be having hundreds of other imp posts which don't restrict ur freedom of speech.
I've not asked u to point out which posts I liked or not.So plz don't start personal issues here.
Take care
PS- If u continue to post conflicting posts here,trust me I'll report u n ur activities to the mods this time in a pm rather than just reporting the post coz I've started this thread to bring positivity in the forum and not have a debate in this suggestions corner.
Don't test my patient patience Laila.I request you.I sometimes wonder if u lve or have a habit of arguing with people.I don't understand the purpose of ur reply to my previous reply on ur post at all.I've mentioned it in the first post itself that bashing is not allowed n u indeed are heading in the way of negative criticism.First leanr the difference b/w negative criticism n freedom of speech and then come to preach me n others.I know I'm rude but then u called in for it..I'm sorry if it hurts this time.