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Posted: 12 years ago
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why not yarr???
well ager dakha jay tu kia karabi hai zoya main??
dono relatives hain
well educated hain
ek hi type ka social background hai
kisi qisim ka koi revenge wala backdrop nahi hai
dono familes main ek dosray k liay respect hai
bus thora sa nature different hai dono ka
but priorities same hai (families)
dard same hai
ek dosray ki care kartay hain etc etc
in short yah real life main bhi possible hai
aut tv show
aur production house ko tu choro 4 loin k shows main hi ajeb ajeb kam hota hai
ipkknd / geet dono main kia howa tha
dono shows main revenge ka prob tha aur love ho gia
kahin say kisi bhi angle say kuch nahi milta tha but ...
aur bhi bhoat saray shows main aysa hota raha hai
yahan tu phir koi logic hai, sub sakoon say chal raha hai
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Sure! Zoya's a very capitvating girl, I can see anyone falling for her.

Now Asad, on the other hand, is best left in fiction. Nobody in their right senses would try to be with a guy like him in real life if they didn't have the inclination to want to rip all their hair out at the end of the day. Guys like that never change.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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No dnt think a man like Asad wud fall fr sumone like Zoya in real. There's this term opposites attract ..bt thts wat it is .. attraction & nothin' else. In the long run two persons .. poles apart ...nvr work. U gt to 've sumthin' in common to atleast converse ... I mean hw cud u even talk if u 've nothin' in common ?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ruchi-interest

Have you ever heard opposites do attract.😳 People tend to want what they can't have what they know is wrong for them. People who are diabetic crave for sweets how much health conscious they show themselves to the world. Every demure person has a wild side its just that some get a chance to embrace it some throw it away in the superficial facade of misfitness.


As for Madhubala well she is sincere, sensible and all things you describe but she is a fiesty and fiery woman i think you forgot to mention so is Kumud. Both these women stand up and fight against wrong and against the chauvinists and cowards they have come to love. Just like Zoya

They may be alpha male who can conquer the world but they run like a drenched church mouses when matters of heart come before them. They cannot let a woman have a upper hand always there to prove the other sex wrong. Just like Asad.

As for whether men like Arnav or Asad can love women like Khushi and Zoya as I have said life gives everyone their chances its your call whether you embrace it or throw it. Arnav threw it at first but when he started healing from his past, his insecurities he embraced Khushi and Asad needs to do that too. He needs a counselling to listen to the voice of his heart and matters of heart do take time they don't happen overnight.


I really like your POV but in reality opposites do attract but they never go any further then that as the brain starts working and a guy like asad would probably just get married to who ever his mum chooses.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: chikara

What is the problem with zoya .she is sharp intelligent confident educated. She is a pro in techno world. She is no comparison to other heroines who are just meant to mouth dialogues. I mean she is real .
why wouldn't any person fall for her. She is relatable. But I doubt someones should fall for asad .
On the other note you are right Only MSK suits him.
Most of these msk are fake.

100% agree wit u regarding zoya
about asad ...no comment on who should/shouldn't fall 4r him
bt i think tat most of the people should n wil love 2 have a brother like him 😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Abaddon

No dnt think a man like Asad wud fall fr sumone like Zoya in real. There's this term opposites attract ..bt thts wat it is .. attraction & nothin' else. In the long run two persons .. poles apart ...nvr work. U gt to 've sumthin' in common to atleast converse ... I mean hw cud u even talk if u 've nothin' in common ?

Hey dead you dont have to only talk 😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: _Vikram_

Hey dead you dont have to only talk 😆

Sshhh mate ! make sure no one hears u ! LOL ! & Welcum to the forum ! hw 've u been ?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sanjana-ARMAAN

i think so person like asad fall for zoya but sometimes i feel only in serials such things wil happen i mean in real life handsome rich successful man cant fall in love with simple girl that much easily (khushi). but girl like zoya and man like asad can fall for each other


Arnav-Khushi.. I completely agree with you.. Infact, as harsh as it may sound.. I think in marriage (or serious flings the ultimate destination)..money, background plays an important role..

No matter how much people deny, but that is the truth..

So ya.. Arnav-Khushi.. too far fetched.. actually impossible..

Asad Zoya on other hand.. now these two people can come face to face in real life.. college/ workplace...

But I still wonder.. if someone like Asad would fall for Zoya..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: anoo67

no.men like asad do not fall in love in real life with girls like zoya.😊they would anyday prefer a suljhi hui ladki like madhubala or kumud.


Someone agrees with me that this has higher possibility ..

A relationship can't be based on attraction alone.. and love has various moods.. the biggest factor is being comfortable with each other..

And somehow, I doubt if Asad can fall for Zoya..

Zoya is great.. but too different to his taste
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ruchi-interest

Have you ever heard opposites do attract.😳 People tend to want what they can't have what they know is wrong for them. People who are diabetic crave for sweets how much health conscious they show themselves to the world. Every demure person has a wild side its just that some get a chance to embrace it some throw it away in the superficial facade of misfitness.


As for Madhubala well she is sincere, sensible and all things you describe but she is a fiesty and fiery woman i think you forgot to mention so is Kumud. Both these women stand up and fight against wrong and against the chauvinists and cowards they have come to love. Just like Zoya

They may be alpha male who can conquer the world but they run like a drenched church mouses when matters of heart come before them. They cannot let a woman have a upper hand always there to prove the other sex wrong. Just like Asad.

As for whether men like Arnav or Asad can love women like Khushi and Zoya as I have said life gives everyone their chances its your call whether you embrace it or throw it. Arnav threw it at first but when he started healing from his past, his insecurities he embraced Khushi and Asad needs to do that too. He needs a counselling to listen to the voice of his heart and matters of heart do take time they don't happen overnight.


Hmm..
Opposites Attract.. I haven't seen it work in real life much,.,

People may come together.. but eventually never works out..

People tend to want what they can't have.. but thats the point.. usually in such cases.. it becomes a quest, once won it loses it charms.. and not a love journey.. but that's my observation .. only in movies have I seen extremely opposite personalities coming together.. in real life.. the basic thought process is mostly same between partners

MB/Kumud/Zoya/Tanveer/Khushi- all of them are feisty, fiery .. that is their USP... I never said, demure shy girls is what guys fall for.. Na Na.. far from it..
As personalities.. all these women are charming and amazing in their own way..

But l am trying to wonder from Asad's PoV.. He is a successful man.. He is an achiever.. has been one throughout his life and has no airs abt it.. his entire personality speaks that he is absolutely secured which means he doesn't think there is anything missing or wrong in his life or way of living it.. A private person but not in a need of friend ( in real life.. such men are not aloof unlike serials.. they will have friends) ..

So where does Zoya fit??... Asad has a family he loves- secure home ( and in real life such men do not have to necessarily have broken homes or disturbed childhood), would have friends.. even in serial he has Ayaan .. when it comes to woman .. I honestly think with Zoya .. it can happen or initiation can happen only if she is extremely beautiful .. else at best they would be friends if she is truly as capitvating a personality as she appears to be..

Your last para- very nice..

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