Glad Zoya did not confide in Asad. - Page 3

Originally posted by: anoo67

of course zoya should not tell asad anything! who is he?he just happens to own the house where she is living as a guest.she has complete rights to call him a mental case make fun of him in front of his staff, interfere in his business affairs,tell him to get out of his own house come and go as and when she pleases, and put everybodys life in danger just because it is her right and she is so good at heart.come on anybody would do that in her place.dont you think you are taking your feministic sensibilities too far?it is easy to call asad a chauvinist and regressive.but havent you heard of the saying jaisa des vaisa bhes.in short you have to adjust your thinking according to your surroundings, she has no idea of the cultural scenario of the place she has come to and asad has been trying to make her see that, which she fails to understand.when she us living under someones roof she has no right to invite someone .she has no idea what danger she is putting asads family into, and the consequences may turn out to be grave.

Originally posted by: neenabinu

nice post...

they are two people on different wavelenghts...

Originally posted by: anoo67

hi, sorry dont know your name.yes the character of zoya does piss me off.by the way do you live in india?if you did you would know that there are some unspoken rules for guests like there are for hosts too.maybe zoyas behaviour would be considered delightful in new york(i dont know for sure) but it is totally inappropriate in india.if you notice it is made very clear that asad and not dilshad is the head of the familydo you piss off your host?secondly, dilshad does not have a problem with zoya because zoya does not create problems in her life.the phone incident imo was avoidable.you cannot make your host the butt of everybodys joke.and zoya did tell him to leave the house when he refused to let her apply the paste.he had to remind her that it is his house that she wants him to go away from.the problem is when people come from a different culture and refuse to accept that there is any other way of living.since she has got asad into trouble he has taken the pains to explain that to her.and if you think zoyas laughing it off is justified phir main kya bolun?i liked zoyas character when the show began, but now she just comes across as a very insensible person.i can understand thirteen year olds enjoying her behaviour but maybe iam too old to enjoy the same.i would have preferrad the female lead to be strong ,sensible.clumsy is fine,impulsive is ok , sometimes silly is also acceptable, but insensible, totally doesnt work for me.asads character ,though rigid, conservative,and judemental is preferable than zoya.i did not mean to offendyou and if i have iam sorry.

Very good analysis, you answered my questions, since I was wondering why Zoya didn't tell Asad anything 😲