Glad Zoya did not confide in Asad. - Page 2

Originally posted by: rajsuasrkian

Raj, Thanks for th ecomment. No, you have not hurt me.

The underlined part was a LOL bit- maane, 'giv ethe poor girl a break.' He knew she was listening to music. HE should have repeated the apology, which he never did. Hey, I am not taking sides here. She jumped the gun too. So, fair points to both!

Originally posted by: TanHa911

Ofcourse , she deserved a proper apology fo the Akram incident, which Asad did. But Zoya ka personal khunnas nikalne ke liye you humiliate someone in front of his colleagues and subordinates ... thats taking it a lil too far. I guess I just dont appove of people who don't know know where to draw the line. I like Zoya a lot more now.

Originally posted by: shaz2009

Great post with some valid points!I was expecting Asad to change his views on Zoya and soem of his male chauvinistic ways especially after that near death experience he saw Zoya go through as for me that would have been more heart felt and touching.It would have been more scope for us to emphasize with Asad's character and Zoya should have felt comfortable in telling him about Maryam as she should have been feeling that same comfort and security she felt back in Mangalpur just by his sheer presence.I Dnt think Asad would hand Maryam over after knowing what they had put her through and with the ordeal she's been through before and if they were to do that than I would be absolutely flabbergasted...this would really be bordering on butchering Asad's character and I dnt think they can afford to do that!

Originally posted by: rogerrocks

I do agree about Asad being judgmental and impulsive..But aren't we forgetting the most important fact that it is Asad's house and Zoya is a guest there? Is it fair to Asad that Zoya is indulging in something this dangerous in his house despite his repeated warnings? Dont u think there is a possibility of Dilshad and Tamatar's life being endangered if Mariam's dad gets to know this? I love Zoya and her selfless nature but she must not forget that there are certain lines which a guest should not encroach..If u think of it practically, any host will lose their calm in such a situation..

Originally posted by: rogerrocks

I respect your opinion but do you think its wrong to be selfish? Doesn't that how the world function? Its great that Zoya is selfless but isn't it a little too much to expect others to be like that as well..After witnessing first hand what Mariam's family is capable of, whats wrong if Asad is selfish enough to worry only about the safety of Zoya and his family? Am glad there is this tinge of realism they portray in Asad's character..Helping others is not wrong but not at the cost of endangering others' lives..Am sure Zoya knows how notorious Mariam's family is..Add to it the fact that she is living as a guest in someone's house..I understand where Zoya is coming from but i wouldn't fault Asad if he flips cos honestly, thats how i'l react if a guest does something similar at my place

Originally posted by: TanHa911

^ Exactly.

And I actually like Asad more for watching out for Zoya selfishly. Cuz thats what you do. You weren't born to save the world, no one is. Your protect what is yours, you stand up for family and those that you and it ends there. Maryam's bhaijan (the one who promised to take her to Dubai) is the one who should be making these efforts, not Zoya.

Roger and Tanha- first of all, thanks a lot for sharing your views.

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I think you got me wrong somewhere here- 'And I actually like Asad more for watching out for Zoya selfishly. Cuz thats what you do.' That is exactly what I said too- he is selfish. We are all selfish.😆

Just that, Zoya is not. Just like we wouldn't understand Zoya's POV, Zoya wouldn't understand ours.

But I do see where the thread-maker is coming from. One cannot be blamed for being fond of Zoya, woh hai hi itni bindaas and awesome. But Zoya just needs that lil edge of realism to her fancies so she doesnt do more harm than good when shez off trying to save the world in her own way. Hopefully Asad can fix that.