23rd Jan: Costly Denial? - Page 2

Originally posted by: Rockerchic

That poor soul.

She's going through hell. And there's no one to support her.

Her only solace lies with Asad and he's being a prick of the first order.

I think she'll leave the house. And possibly meet Ayaan on the way. He's probably running away from his forced engagement.

I am very curious to know how Gul plans to go about a love tringle.

Will it be unrequited love for Ayaan-?

Exactly. Isn't that pitiful? No one to talk to at all. No one to give her the closure she needs. She even denied a visit to the doctor. Api, Jiju are away and she won't dare tell them for the fear that they will call her back to NY immediately. Can't tell Dilshaad or Najma because Asad has closed that door for her. Can't go back to Asad coz, to put it honestly, he has turned into a (temporary) ka...I mean, meanie.

I strongly feel that it will be unrequited love for Ayaan. Her heart will always stay with Asad though she might feel affection and obligation towards Ayaan. Not ishq wala love but nibhaane wala, friendship wala love.

Great post, you're a good writer!!

Wow that's one hell of a creative mind you have!!! And quiet honestly they all seem plausible but every single one of the scenarios is so painful! Unfortunately the halalala seems the most plausible!!! :/ would hate to see them seperated!! But keepin the theme in mind "qubool hai" they will all have to accept some compromises along the way! Especially the good and the bad!!! 👏

What a wonderful analytical mind you have... I am hooked pain or no pain...

Originally posted by: shesherkobita

What a wonderful analytical mind you have... I am hooked pain or no pain...

this PH knows how to paint a a gothic hero... Why is he denying himself of love NOW? He has no issues right now...why cant he accept love?

Because this guy had decided to never fall in love even before he hit puberty. He has conditioned himself to believe that he is above the idea of love for almost 15 years.

All he knows, having watched his parents' painful love story, is that love can lead to pain. He does not want to have the potential to hurt a woman he loves. If he falls in love, if he allows himself to love, he will have the potential to turn into another Rashid, the man he despises above everything else. No love = no chance of hurting his beloved.

When he weighs the good and the bad that can come with love, the bad he sees is horrific enough that he is willing to forgo ever tasting the good.

Originally posted by: enigmatic_zephy

What's halala?

In Islam, if a husband divorces his wife, he cannot remarry her until she has married and divorced someone another man. If AsYa get a divorce, Zoya cannot go back to Asad until she has married and divorced another guy. The caveat is that the second marriage should not have been done with the intention of a divorce- that makes it invalid. But people ignore the caveat and treat his allowance as a checklist in getting back to husband #1.

This stipulation for remarriage is in place to discourage husbands from divorcing their wives on a whim or in thoughtless anger in the very first place. Every time a man thinks about divorce (which is very easy for husbands to get in Islam but hard for women) he has to think of the consequences. Getting her back won't be easy.

Halaala, strictly speaking, is an innovation because a halaala is done with the intention of ending the second marriage as part of the checklist before returning to husband #1. Any marriage, whether the first, second, third or nth, is valid only when done with the intention of maintaining it to the best of ability and limit of tolerance.

Originally posted by: shaz2009

Hi Princessjojo..can I call you that?Really lovedthe beautiful way in which you penned all that down.I knwo there is going to be battle for Aasd with his inner turmoil so that eh succeeds in distancing Zoya further away from him hence this leading to Aayan/Zoya marriage but the thought of Ayaan and Zoya is just nagging me!I really dnt want this happening at all as this move could possibly cause a big devide with the audience thus leading to more conflict plus for me personally it may personally kill the essence of Asya love story.

Hi Shaz! You can call me Jojo 😳 (Just One Jerk's Opinion 😆)

I don't mind Ayaan coming in between but I'll die an unpleasant viewer-death if Zoya ever falls in love or love-like feelings with Ayaan. And also, if Zoya ever marries Ayaan, when the show ends, I don't want a cheesy all-happy ending where Ayaan-Zoya-Asad are happy and normal and SIL-BIL with each other. I don't know about others but I'm the kind of viewer who does not need all loose ends tied (except the one between the lovers)- some relationships remain sour and awkward for life and that is okay. Ok I blabbered more than needed.

I'll also copy paste what I wrote in your thread: I'm fully with you on this!! I want this story to be epic. I hope it turns out so good that years from now I would rewatch the whole thing with equal enthusiasm. It has every potential to be that epic story- Zoya and Asad have dazzling chemistry, charming intensity, shared pain, and every ingredient to fulfill each other. Asad brings stability, balance and reality to the table and Zoya brings fun, optimism, expression and honesty. And both are full of integrity. Sigh. I really hope the story doesn't go awry and silly.

Zo ending up with Ayaan??? BLAH no way hozay!!! Dunno about anyone else but I would find that intolerable & totally unbearable to watch & I'm afraid I'd have to stop watching QH altogether!!! Plus going down the Ayaan-Zoya route would totally ruin Asya forever!!! Besides if as I suspect Zo ends up falling for Asad, being the independent gal she is I don't think she'd marry for anything but love otherwise she surely would've been married to that despicable whats-his-name by now!!! IMHO the only way I could see Zo agreeing to marry Ayaan is if Ayaan fell hard for Zo, Asad discovered it and sacrificed his own love for Zo for his bro & pushed Zo into a marriage with Ayaan!!! & even thats something I don't want to see happening as TBH I'm getting more than a little fed up of watching serials that have someone playing the sacrificing martyr & giving up on their love for the sake of someone else!!! Its time to start seeing couples fighting for their love through thick and thin & not just giving up on it at the first hurdle!!! Anyways fingers crossed CV's are not intending on going down the dreaded love triangle route...!!!!

Originally posted by: adeeti10

Thanks for your words! Loved the ideas and thoughts you added. 😃