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delena90

@delena90

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Posted: 12 years ago

Ok, let me start out by saying I really enjoyed today's show. It had high-intensity drama and the acting was superb. Coming to the point of this thread, the entire time I was watching the show I couldn't understand why Ayaan couldn't open his mouth and tell his family and everyone there what Feroz had been doing to him for the last couple of weeks. I mean what the heck would he have lost if he opened his mouth. Haseena was already creating a drama so why not at least create one by giving the right and truthful version? It galled watching Haseena "win" when what she has done is illegal!

I felt sorry for Nikhat but had to wonder why she didn't just stand up and say enough is enough. She has been insulted left and right by this woman and her so-called fiance never once stood up for her. Does she think so little of herself? She's a beautiful girl and she shouldn't let anyone including Razia tell her otherwise! Hopefully Nikhat becomes stronger after this and fights for her happiness.

And Rashid...man he makes my blood boil. Can he for once be a father and stand up for his children? Could he not have asked Ayaan what was going on? Argh!!

All in all QH does a great job portraying a family that seemingly has everything...wealth, a beautiful house and lovely children but still lack basic love and respect for it's members. In contrast despite Asad's orthodox tendencies Dilshaad, Najma and Asad have a home filled with love, laughter, tantrums and the small idiosyncrasies that make a house a home.

Hats off to the writers for bringing out the difference between the two families!

Side note: How dare Mammu threaten Dilshaad?😡😡😡

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Ranee Bhattacharya

@raneeb

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Posted: 12 years ago

Yes how dare he threaten Dilshad - she has been wronged and he still feels she needs to be controlled...arghhh

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P.D.S

@P.D.S

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Posted: 12 years ago

i agree with every word you said.
i was thinking the same, when spineless Rashid said he keeps no realtions with his otehr family, Ayaan looked away in disgust. why the hell couldn't he say anything?!
Bechari Nikhat, she looked a little mifted as well as broken so hopefully she doesn't begin to hate Asad or anything.
i initially thought that Mamujaan was just strict and isn't as khatarnak as Razia but today when i saw him threatening Dilshad i thought both are as bad as each other. i'm 100% sure now he has a major part in the separation of Rashid and Dilshad.

the whole episode made me 😡😡😡 but it was great entertainment.

Edited by *KT*~Lakshya* - 12 years ago

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nikolai_gogol

@nikolai_gogol

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

I guess you are right but it's not completely Ayaan's fault.

Ayaan is forbidden by the family to interact with Asad and he knew that his sister's engagement would be in danger if his dad's other marriage came out.

Firoz had been asking about the bike and his relation with Asad. Firoz's way was of course wrong but disclosing anything about Firoz to the family would have led Ayaan to confess of his interactions with Asad. I think Ayaan should now after knowing that Firoz is related to Haseena and knowing the kind of cruelty she is capable of, as a brother not push for Imran marrying Nikhat. Everybody else thinks Haseena is just greedy but Ayaan knows that she's this cruel as well.

But most probably Asad being the hero wil save the day. Convince Imram, Haseena to go ahead with the marriage Poor Nikhat. Shaitan ki khaala as MIL for life😭

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nikolai_gogol

@nikolai_gogol

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

And what kind of a world is this? Forget about the religion for a second. A man didnt get along with his wife for whatever reasons. Gave her divorce(talaq) and married again. Okay I can understand that having a relation with the ex- wife is disrespectful to his wife and ex- wife as well but why in the name of god he can't interact with his kids? and why cant half- siblings interact with each other? What is it to the MIL that her DIL interacts with her half- brother or her DIL's sibling interacts with his half- bro?

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GodhuliLogon

@GodhuliLogon

Inactive

+ 5

Posted: 12 years ago

ayaan could not speak as that time was so intense one sentence from him could make the situation worse ... he was not sure whether the elders could make it work for his sister .. thats why he was shut up..

i guess he will speak up later according to the spoiler pics..

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fee-fee

@fee-fee

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: delena90
Ok, let me start out by saying I really enjoyed today's show. It had high-intensity drama and the acting was superb. Coming to the point of this thread, the entire time I was watching the show I couldn't understand why Ayaan couldn't open his mouth and tell his family and everyone there what Feroz had been doing to him for the last couple of weeks. I mean what the heck would he have lost if he opened his mouth. Haseena was already creating a drama so why not at least create one by giving the right and truthful version? It galled watching Haseena "win" when what she has done is illegal!

I felt sorry for Nikhat but had to wonder why she didn't just stand up and say enough is enough. She has been insulted left and right by this woman and her so-called fiance never once stood up for her. Does she think so little of herself? She's a beautiful girl and she shouldn't let anyone including Razia tell her otherwise! Hopefully Nikhat becomes stronger after this and fights for her happiness.

And Rashid...man he makes my blood boil. Can he for once be a father and stand up for his children? Could he not have asked Ayaan what was going on? Argh!!

All in all QH does a great job portraying a family that seemingly has everything...wealth, a beautiful house and lovely children but still lack basic love and respect for it's members. In contrast despite Asad's orthodox tendencies Dilshaad, Najma and Asad have a home filled with love, laughter, tantrums and the small idiosyncrasies that make a house a home.

Hats off to the writers for bringing out the difference between the two families!

Side note: How dare Mammu threaten Dilshaad?😡😡😡

I agree with you completely. I mean regardless of the fact that Asad isn't as friendly, atleast hhis house is a home and he has a real family. I mean he would never have kept quiet in such a situation like Ayaan and everyone else. Really Good Post!

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fee-fee

@fee-fee

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: jane_doe
And what kind of a world is this? Forget about the religion for a second. A man didnt get along with his wife for whatever reasons. Gave her divorce(talaq) and married again. Okay I can understand that having a relation with the ex- wife is disrespectful to his wife and ex- wife as well but why in the name of god he can't interact with his kids? and why cant half- siblings interact with each other? What is it to the MIL that her DIL interacts with her half- brother or her DIL's sibling interacts with his half- bro?

Can you define MIL and DIl- I'm a little 😕

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nikolai_gogol

@nikolai_gogol

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: fee-fee

Can you define MIL and DIl- I'm a little 😕

lol. my bad. Mother-in-law, Daughter-in-law.

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nikolai_gogol

@nikolai_gogol

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: jane_doe

lol. my bad. Mother-in-law, Daughter-in-law.

Reading my post again, I realize that maybe i was a lil irritated when i wrote this and honestly in smaller town in india having a dad with a previous marriage might get difficult for daughter when searching for husband in arranged marriages. I remember an Indian friend telling me that her parents have not formally divorced and only separated to make life easy in society.

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