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ok, so the blame-game has started again and no wonder its n Piya.. but, have we really tried putting ourselves in Piya's shoes ?
1. ok, so just becoz Piya is worried and upset about Misha and her family, she dsnt love Abhay enuf !!!! Dats wat i have been reading since yesterday ... REALLY ??? So, u only prove your love for sumone, wen u can say " SO what if my dad has died, my sister has died, my other sister is getting married to sumone she dsnt love ? i have my love with me , so why should i bother ?" .. if piya said dat, she wud undoubtedly be labelled "SELFISH" by this forum.. And, now when she is worried about her family, she dsnt love Abhay enuf !!
I mean, for Piya , dis is not a choice between her family and Abhay . Piya has already chosen Abhay long before, and has agreed to stay with him. Its just concern for her loved ones, and piya is not even allowed that ? i have read comments like "PIya wants the best of everything !" well, you ALWAYS would want your lover, your sister, your father to be happy , wouldnt you ? who here, can say i-dnt-care-my-sister-is-not-happy-my-lover-is happy-and-so-i-am-fine ??? Is Piya wanting the best of everything for herself ? she wants happiness for all those who she loves, and thats called beig selfish ?
ok, try being Piya fro once,.. Can u say " i dnt care my father and sister is dead.. i have my boyfriend ?".. so, if YOUR father dies (*TOUCHWOOD*), can u really not care, even if u r with the person u love, more than rest of the world ? i mean , Piya is just being normal. So, piya ,if she cares for her sister and worries about her, dsnt love Abhay much and if she dsnt worry, she is selfish.. thats the verdict, r8 ? Aere we EVeR going to stop blaming Piyafor GODDAMN EVERYTHING !!!!
2. OK, so wen Abhay is worried about his parents and wants to meet them, Piya stops him for his own good. THEN, we say Piya is selfish. Abhay still goes 2 meet them. Fine. Now , piya wants to meet her family, and Abhay is stopping her for her own good. So Piya worries. And she still remains selfish. Yeh toh hadd ho gayi yaar.. woh Abhay ko family se na milne de, toh bhi wo-hi selfish hai, aur Abhay usse apni family se na milne de, toh bhi Piya-hi selfish hai !!!!!
3. when Abhay worries about his parents we go -" oooh ! i love d Raichand bonding ".. Wen piya does the same for her family, we say " she doesnt love Abhay enuf ".. i mean, seriously ???
Loving Abhay means Piya would have to give a i-dont-care-attitude to even the DEATH of her sisters and father ?? is that it ? i think, Piya given lots of tests for love and dsnt need to prove herself over such petty issues anymore..
Maybe, our attachment to Abhay as a character is more. but, ds dat mean, we can blame Piya over anything ? Everyone may not love piya, and i am not asking them to. But, we do need to open our minds a little and THINK,... If Piya had not loved Abhay enuf , she wud never have come to an unknown city depending on Abhay.. Just like , if Abhay had not loved PIya enuf, he wud never have tried so hard to cheer Piya up...
P.S- ok i agree, Piya should have called Mish up. and , i also wud have liked it, if Piya cheered up a bit , wen Abhay bought d cake.. but, that by no means can define Piya as "SELFISH", if she felt low ,what with all dese deaths and mish's wedding...
P.P.S--- all those with their 'i-think-i-am-so-smart' Horse-blinder comments about Piya CAN stay out.. i want only those with a sense of LOGIC here. if you are not as attached to piya as to abhay, doesn't matter. You can still comment here, if you ALways dont feel the need to blame Piya wrongly ... but, i want NO "oversmart-piya-haters" here...
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ok, dere were a few more points i would like to add..
1. i read comments like "Abhay lost his powers, his vampire life for Piya, still she cannot love him..".. well, as far as i watched this show, Abhay NEVER really was in love with his vampire life, was he ? he always wanted a way out of this cursed existence.. Piya gave him that, and now People say Abhay LOST them due to piya ??? o., u may like vampire Abhay or human Abhay but you CANNOT blame Piya for sumthing she hasnt done.
2. I read comments whichsay "just three months with Abhay, and Piya is feeling homesick"..😆😆.. REally ??? 😆..did Piya feel HOMESICK in this three months ? now that she just feels bad about not being there for Misha, everyone tags that as feeling HOMESICK and not loving Abhay enuf.. !!😆😆.. try and be a lil less insensitive..😆
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