Heroism! Blah Blah

Hey guys, I am not trying to bash Abhay or even Vivan but my main problem is why the main lead is made as a self-sacrificing, all-forgiving puppet.
In every other show the lead becomes so sugar-coated that it becomes hard to digest after a while.
Now coming back to PKYEK, the ever-sacrificing Abhay has openly said that he won't interfere with Pia's life.
Hello! Do you really love her? If you do you would want to be with her?
I mean how practical is it? Does it really represent today's youth? Sorry I forgot he is not today's but couple centuries old, so he has old culture values but Abhay you are also a Vampire! think like one please😊
Anyhow, this just makes the character of Jay more believable. Even in twilight my main issue was why wasn't Edward bothered about Bella and Jacob's relation (even though they kissed and she told Edward that part of her loved Jacob😲) on the other hand, Jacob was jealous possessive kind, which I don't like a lot but it is actually present in guys.
Sorry for rambling on, I actually don't want Abhay too be exact copy of Edward. Time to see a jealous Abhay😛