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Posted: 14 years ago
#11
she is just crazy .. she believe sid more than abhay ...
if she truly love abhay .. then y she doing this ...??
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Posted: 14 years ago
#12

Originally posted by: Nishi.Singh



i agree with u to some extent...yes Abhay is acting weird and unreasonable (for Pia)
but i have a question...now if Sid bites Pia in that palace and Abhay is not able to save her, then who's fault will it b?? šŸ˜•...will it b Abhay's fault who warned her or Pia's fault who didnt listen to warnings?
and Abhay is not normal human boyfriend who can share everything with Pia...he got dark secrets which he doesnt wanna disclose to keep Pia safe, its his choice...its not a family drama thing to tell, its dangerous...he knows that and Pia is transparent


and well if Pia's anger is justified then Abhay leaving her is also fully justified šŸ˜†


As far as possible, I try to keep out of your way, Nishi but if you don't mind for once, trying to understand what I'm saying without accusing me of baselessly defending Pia, I would want to make a point. You asked whose fault it'll be. I would say no one's. Pia can't be blamed for not listening to Abhay blindly and Abhay can't be blamed for not telling Pia anything. Both are justified in their own ways. You can blame Pia because you are only thinking from Abhay's PoV. Good for you. At least you have someone to blame. I choose to look at this from both Abhay's as well as Pia's PoV, hence, in my eyes, both are justified.
As far as Abhay leaving Pia goes, I would want to see what makes him leave her before I conclude whether he's justified over there or not.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Chill_Out


As far as possible, I try to keep out of your way, Nishi but if you don't mind for once, trying to understand what I'm saying without accusing me of baselessly defending Pia, I would want to make a point. You asked whose fault it'll be. I would say no one's. Pia can't be blamed for not listening to Abhay blindly and Abhay can't be blamed for not telling Pia anything. Both are justified in their own ways. You can blame Pia because you are only thinking from Abhay's PoV. Good for you. At least you have someone to blame. I choose to look at this from both Abhay's as well as Pia's PoV, hence, in my eyes, both are justified.
As far as Abhay leaving Pia goes, I would want to see what makes him leave her before I conclude whether he's justified over there or not.



Hi šŸ˜›...ok i always knew u keep out of my way but finally u accepted it urself 🤣🤣 *just kidding*...dont mind haan, i was just surprised that u quoted me šŸ˜›
anyways dont think i m against ur pov or anything...and i m not blaming Pia...i m only asking why shud Abhay tell his dark secrets to Pia?...did Pia tell Abhay abt his family problems, abt Arnab (that secret was nothing compared to Abhay's dangerous secrets)? No, Abhay found out himself...so Pia shud also try n find out, afterall she is good at detectivegiri na šŸ˜†...but she is not even trying, ignoring his warnings and going out with Sid so happily to his dinner šŸ˜†šŸ˜†
ok if u think Abhay is justified, i m fine with it šŸ˜†...bcoz i find him justified šŸ˜†...and i wont form any opinion on Pia until the epi is aired (as promo can b quite misleading šŸ˜†)


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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nishi.Singh



Hi šŸ˜›...ok i always knew u keep out of my way but finally u accepted it urself 🤣🤣 *just kidding*...dont mind haan, i was just surprised that u quoted me šŸ˜›
anyways dont think i m against ur pov or anything...and i m not blaming Pia...i m only asking why shud Abhay tell his dark secrets to Pia?...did Pia tell Abhay abt his family problems, abt Arnab (that secret was nothing compared to Abhay's dangerous secrets)? No, Abhay found out himself...so Pia shud also try n find out, afterall she is good at detectivegiri na šŸ˜†...but she is not even trying, ignoring his warnings and going out with Sid so happily to his dinner šŸ˜†šŸ˜†
ok if u think Abhay is justified, i m fine with it šŸ˜†...bcoz i find him justified šŸ˜†...and i wont form any opinion on Pia until the epi is aired (as promo can b quite misleading šŸ˜†)



Lol! It wasn't too hard to guess that I was keeping out of your way. The reason was also pretty obvious.
About Abhay telling his darkest secrets to Pia, well, I'm not blaming him for not telling her but I feel he should because Pia has come too far into this now. Not telling her is endangering her more than telling her would. See the result is right in front of you. Pia is reacting exactly the way I would've. She feels Abhay has something personal against Sid and he's forcing his dislike towards Sid on her. That is not true, you and I know that because we know Abhay's side of the story as well. Pia doesn't and though, I don't feel she's dumb but then I do agree that she isn't exactly the most alert and intelligent person either.
As far as Pia not telling Abhay about Arnab is concerned, she was being unfair that time. I did have justifications for her back then also but they weren't enough to actually justify her in my eyes. She should've told Abhay and trusted him and this is something which I mentioned when the track was going on as well.
As far as her detectivegiri is concerned, I guess that's only reserved for Abhay. I don't deny that with Abhay repeating his warnings so persistently, she should at least make some effort to maintain distance from Sid. I guess she's just being stubborn and difficult to show Abhay he can't order her around every time šŸ˜•
This is the reason I never get judgmental about anyone in this show. Everyone actually has their own viewpoints. I feel it's high time Abhay and Pia start sharing theirs with each other. I'm actually happy that Abhay confronted Pia for lying to him on Saturday. For once, I saw actual communication between the two of them with each putting their PoVs across.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I think the problem here Pia know nothing about Sid. She just know that Sid and Panchi loves each other. So as a sister she is looking everything. She has no guilty in her mind. Sometime she is overacting but she know perfectly that she only love Abahy , Abahy and Abhay . And moreover she is something foolish type girl. She can trust anyone so easily . This is her problem. May be she is thinking Sid is very good for her sister and how Sid can harm her .
So the most problem is Pia she is very much stupid type girl. But her love for Abahy always true . She just do some overacting sometimes that all.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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how dare pia go with sid? she needs to trust abhay, no matter how irrationally upfront, possessive and dominating he acts, she needs to stick with him. WHY? heck, what about self-respect? no girl would want to be with a guy who tries to control her life, tell her what to do, where to go, who to meet etc etc. fine, Abhay has dark secrets, but IF he is not sharing them with Pia, it's HIS fault, not hers. she isn't supposed to DREAM that.. yeah, i should stay away from Sid. she needs to KNOW. and abhay ain't telling her. what is HER fault in it? - what do you guys want her to be? a dollface who nods obediently to whatever abhay says? she has her own mind, let her use it.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: anurag24t

I think dis time piya may not forgive abhay so soon...but i guess it will too late after piya realizes or comes to know about d real reason 4 abhay biting her...bcoz after dis anger and hatred of piya towards abhay,he will not able to bear it anymore and might even leave piya dis time...


Piya will know the true value of abhay if he leaves her.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Chill_Out


Lol! It wasn't too hard to guess that I was keeping out of your way. The reason was also pretty obvious.
About Abhay telling his darkest secrets to Pia, well, I'm not blaming him for not telling her but I feel he should because Pia has come too far into this now. Not telling her is endangering her more than telling her would. See the result is right in front of you. Pia is reacting exactly the way I would've. She feels Abhay has something personal against Sid and he's forcing his dislike towards Sid on her. That is not true, you and I know that because we know Abhay's side of the story as well. Pia doesn't and though, I don't feel she's dumb but then I do agree that she isn't exactly the most alert and intelligent person either.
As far as Pia not telling Abhay about Arnab is concerned, she was being unfair that time. I did have justifications for her back then also but they weren't enough to actually justify her in my eyes. She should've told Abhay and trusted him and this is something which I mentioned when the track was going on as well.
As far as her detectivegiri is concerned, I guess that's only reserved for Abhay. I don't deny that with Abhay repeating his warnings so persistently, she should at least make some effort to maintain distance from Sid. I guess she's just being stubborn and difficult to show Abhay he can't order her around every time šŸ˜•
This is the reason I never get judgmental about anyone in this show. Everyone actually has their own viewpoints. I feel it's high time Abhay and Pia start sharing theirs with each other. I'm actually happy that Abhay confronted Pia for lying to him on Saturday. For once, I saw actual communication between the two of them with each putting their PoVs across.

Is not that sid has warned abhay long back if he ever says that piya is vampire ..he will take his fangs out . Abhay cannot tell or be open book to piya . He cant share all dark secrets to her ..it is not about the trust but also to protect her from clan too. Till now he has been trying to protect piya without pulling her in his life . Everytime he makes an effort only to see they both have fallen much deeper . I guess somewhere deep in his heart he wants to give piya normal life and for that he has to keep her away from darker secrets around . If piya know lot ...can affect her life from vampire clan. Right now it just between abhlya & chandeena trying to hide all the facts here
Piya is not dumb ...but somewhere she should trust the abhay instinct . Hmm Not blindly follow him but def question herself and give even benfit of doubt to sid . Has abhay ever told about anyone that he is no good ...piya know that he is only insiting on sid for the first time ..something should be different here ...but not she is all trust for sid
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Abhay will not leave anyway Pia, because his blood and Pia's blood is same now . He can not stay anyway from her . Moreover he need to protect anyway Pia, because Pia is now carrying a vampire's blood. If anyway this is leaked that will be bad for Abahy and his family. But anyway Pia should always just trust Abhay as because Abahy will never do anything bad to Pia and Pia is like life for Abahy.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: abhaylove

Is not that sid has warned abhay long back if he ever says that piya is vampire ..he will take his fangs out . Abhay cannot tell or be open book to piya . He cant share all dark secrets to her ..it is not about the trust but also to protect her from clan too. Till now he has been trying to protect piya without pulling her in his life . Everytime he makes an effort only to see they both have fallen much deeper . I guess somewhere deep in his heart he wants to give piya normal life and for that he has to keep her away from darker secrets around . If piya know lot ...can affect her life from vampire clan. Right now it just between abhlya & chandeena trying to hide all the facts here
Piya is not dumb ...but somewhere she should trust the abhay instinct . Hmm Not blindly follow him but def question herself and give even benfit of doubt to sid . Has abhay ever told about anyone that he is no good ...piya know that he is only insiting on sid for the first time ..something should be different here ...but not she is all trust for sid


You just told me stuff I already know! Look, you don't need to justify Abhay for me. I know where he's coming from and I understand his position as well. Neither am I blaming him for not telling Pia anything. But this communication gap isn't exactly keeping Pia safe either. And lack of communication is always unhealthy, correct me if I'm wrong? It leads to assumptions which is happening in this case. Abhay is justified in hiding stuff but that's not working and hence, he should think in the direction of telling Pia now. He won't need to, of course. Sid will do the honours for him, as per the promo.
As far as trusting Abhay's instincts is concerned, well, I don't see anything wrong in Pia trusting her instincts first. Pia has not seen Sid's evil side. She's always seen him as kind, caring, romantic and gentlemanly. I remember earlier, before Sid's true face was shown, there were even speculations in the forum regarding the article telling us he's evil as false! And Pia is naive and gullible, no one can deny that. And she following Abhay's orders and submitting to his domination will make their relation lopsided. I'm not too keen because I hate such relationships! Maybe I won't be able to call myself an AbhIya fan any longer if their bond takes such a turn.
As far as a normal life is concerned, Abhay can never give that to Pia and as much as Pia wants a normal life for herself, she'd rather have a dark one with Abhay than a normal one with anyone else.
Sometimes, I wonder, is it really this hard to understand perspectives of characters, apart from Abhay, specially Pia and Kabir, that someone always needs to justify them? These two actually seem to be the favourite punching bags of the forum. Bas mauka chahiye! One human mistake and that's all it takes!

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