Yash Wrong ?Aarti Wrong ?Or Our Thinking Wrong ?

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Gagori Chatterjee

@jyoti06

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Posted: 13 years ago

In last few days I hv come across topics and debates like Aarti is at fault .. Yash is at fault ... My point is Why r we picking up Yash or Aarti here and blaming them for this current mess ?? 😕...

What is their fault .. tell me honestly ...

Is it Aarti's fault to support her husband in his every decision making ?? Should Aarti become like Ishita and manipulate her husband against his family and then we will say she is right ?? 🤔

Is it Yash's fault to support the truth and try to unite Akash with his real biological mother since Yash always believed in standing for truth ?? Should Yash become like SP or Akash and manipulate the truth in his favour and then we will say he is right ?? 🤔

Yash and Aarti's only fault is that they are being too nice and honest in their intentions which in today's times does not work and so today they r in a mess and we viewers r questioning them why they r so mahaan ...

But honestly tell me how on earth Aarti or Yash are at fault for choosing the path of truth ?? Its their bad luck that this path of truth and honesty have given them only humiliation but if AarYa today despite knowing the trurth would hv kicked Radha and AKash out of the family by showing no emotions for them at all , will we support that AarYa then ?? 😊

We say Aarti is at fault for bringing Radha in ... But my question is how ?? ... If she decides not to bring Radha in the house then will Yash b happy about it ?? We forgot that bringing Radha in was Yash's decision which Aarti only followed ...

We say Yash is at fault for not thinking about Gayatri while bringing Radha in... But my question is what were we expecting there ?? Were we expecting Yash to kick Radha out and send her back to a chawl despite knowing that this lady gave me birth ??

Ok to make it short , I dont see Yash and Aarti at fault at all .. neither jointly nor individually ... They simply selected the path of truth and justice for all ... What went against them was their destiny which taught them a lesson that this is kalyug where the path of truth and justice does not work 😊

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drmhp

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Posted: 13 years ago

totally agree with u di

they r not at fault . it is just their goodness that lead them to sorrows

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lulujjjj

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Posted: 13 years ago

Awesome points you have pointed out, i don't think aarti or yash are at fault , they are right in individual perspectives.

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palbhar

@palbhar

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Posted: 13 years ago

They are not at fault as they both tried to do what they felt was right according to their conscience...

The only problem is where right now in trying to make everyone happy, they are willing to face all kinds of humiliation...that's where they need to draw a line in their mahaanta...

They have tried their best, but after a certain time, they have to put their own sanity and family happiness as the priority...

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Gagori Chatterjee

@jyoti06

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: bharathisamy
They are not at fault as they both tried to do what they felt was right according to their conscience...

The only problem is where right now in trying to make everyone happy, they are willing to face all kinds of humiliation...that's where they need to draw a line in their mahaanta...

They have tried their best, but after a certain time, they have to put their own sanity and family happiness as the priority...

I do agree on that bold line and I m sure that line will certainly b drawn now once they both cross that level of patience

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lovely_nikki

@lovely_nikki

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Posted: 13 years ago

Thanks Jyoti for making this post. 👏

I was feeling depressed since last few days reading all those blame comments that either its Yash's fault or Aarti's fault for creating all this mess.😭

If AarYa had went against their conscience and didn't went against all to bring AkShita into SM, then all would've had said that AarYa are wrong in supporting their family. They are siding with the wrong here

If Aarti didn't supported Yash in his desicion, then all had said that Aarti is siding with those spineless and selfish family members and not supporting her husband.

Remember when Yash didn't wanted to disclose the truth about DNA results, that time all very so angry with him ( including me 😭) but now when that same Yash is fighting for his own brothers rights and position in the family, he is wrong❓

Regarding Yash bringing Radha into SM, well Yash is the kind of a person who is always ready to help a stranger also. Remember when Prashant had picked up Ansh from school, Yash and Aarti had gone for grocery shopping. That time Yash had bought all the balloons from that boy and had given him 1000 Rs. note. So when Yash can help a stranger then how can that same Yash leave his own birth mother to fend for herself all alone?

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Euphoria.

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Posted: 13 years ago

Thank you Jyo Di, this was a much needed post. I just want to say something, I think everyone is using the word mahaan too loosely out here. Honestly, what Yash-Aarti are doing should have been done by SP-G3-Radha. The onus was on SP-G3 (especially) as well as the rest of the family to make IshAk feel welcomed but since no one wanted to take the first step, AarYa had to do so and by doing so, they earned themselves the "mahaan" title. Logically speaking, they are doing what is right. No matter how hurtful the process might be, they know that they can't deprive IshAk of their rights. Wouldn't they feel burdened and guilty had they not done so? And wouldn't people have called them selfish then. It's like karo toh mushkil, na karo toh bhi mushkil...

Word about why Aarti is not being mahaan by supporting Yash. Hasn't our Aarti always been this bundle of optimism, who stood by Yash during his lowest of times? Then why would she not stand by him now? How is she being mahaan?

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Gagori Chatterjee

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: lovely_nikki
Thanks Jyoti for making this post. 👏

I was feeling depressed since last few days reading all those blame comments that either its Yash's fault or Aarti's fault for creating all this mess.😭

If AarYa had went against their conscience and didn't went against all to bring AkShita into SM, then all would've had said that AarYa are wrong in supporting their family. They are siding with the wrong here

If Aarti didn't supported Yash in his desicion, then all had said that Aarti is siding with those spineless and selfish family members and not supporting her husband.

Remember when Yash didn't wanted to disclose the truth about DNA results, that time all very so angry with him ( including me 😭) but now when that same Yash is fighting for his own brothers rights and position in the family, he is wrong❓

Regarding Yash bringing Radha into SM, well Yash is the kind of a person who is always ready to help a stranger also. Remember when Prashant had picked up Ansh from school, Yash and Aarti had gone for grocery shopping. That time Yash had bought all the balloons from that boy and had given him 1000 Rs. note. So when Yash can help a stranger then how can that same Yash leave his own birth mother to fend for herself all alone?

Nikki thats exactly my point .. what I feel is viewers love AarYa and cant see them getting humiliated and so they feel why the hell AarYa brought these people home 😆😆

but the point is if Yash had send them off by giving those 1 crore rupees which SP suggested , then same viewers would hv opposed Yash and Aarti's decision by calling them spineless

I still remember how we opposed Yash participating in Akash's muh-kala humiliation fiasco during mahashivratri and we all wanted Yash to support the truth after reading the DNA but when he supported the truth , we had issues because of the way both r facing humiliation 😆

in short we r possessive for our AarYa and so in the process blaming them but we need to analyse it from the start and realise that AarYa r not wrong ... its just that in today's times there is no place for honesty 😊

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Gagori Chatterjee

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Euphoria.
Thank you Jyo Di, this was a much needed post. I just want to say something, I think everyone is using the word mahaan too loosely out here. Honestly, what Yash-Aarti are doing should have been done by SP-G3-Radha. The onus was on SP-G3 (especially) as well as the rest of the family to make IshAk feel welcomed but since no one wanted to take the first step, AarYa had to do so and by doing so, they earned themselves the "mahaan" title. Logically speaking, they are doing what is right. No matter how hurtful the process might be, they know that they can't deprive IshAk of their rights. Wouldn't they feel burdened and guilty had they not done so? And wouldn't people have called them selfish then. It's like karo toh mushkil, na karo toh bhi mushkil...

Word about why Aarti is not being mahaan by supporting Yash. Hasn't our Aarti always been this bundle of optimism, who stood by Yash during his lowest of times? Then why would she not stand by him now? How is she being mahaan?

I agree Anu .. what AarYa r doing should hv been done by SP-Gayatri .. its just that SP-Gayatri dint hv the courage or belief to do what AarYa did ... it takes lots of courage to actually go the honest route despite facing so many hurdles which AarYa did and its true to their characters as well ...

I wolud hv been first one to diss AarYa if they had given the 1 crore rupess to send off Radha-Akash but I glad they dint do it and instead went for the route of truth and honesty ...

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DMKJ_VB

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Fab post Jyo. Agree with U about AarYa.

I myself wasn't too happy with the fact that Radha was brought in SM.however, I think I now understand what Yash was trying to do when he invited her to stay with them. Its not so much about her being his birthmom, I think, as much as its about her being the woman who was unjustly treated by his father 30 years ago. We are well aware of Yash and his nature. He treats his parents as God, but that doesn't mean he is immune to their faults. But, he can never be disrespectful to them, even if they are wrong. He had been so with SP during Ansh kidnapping track, and was proven to be wrong! So, in my opinion, Yash was actually trying to be fair to Radha, trying to compensate for his father's mistake. He didn't want to leave her alone, let her go away from her two sons- Akaash and himself. His gratefulness to Radha for giving him the life that he led, and for giving him his family was another reason behind his behaviour! As a son, he probably felt it was his duty to give her her share of respect and love! So basically yash was trying to be just and honest. I think before judging Yash, we should try and put ourselves in his shoes...I am sure not many would be able to behave as justly in his situation! So please do not blame him for being good and right! By accepting gayatri's promise to akaash, he didn't do anything mahaan, he did what a son would do!

As far as AArti is concerned, i don't even get why people are upset with her! 😡What has the poor girl done? Telling the truth is a crime? Supporting your husband in every situation is a sin? I can't believe someone even wrote that she was enjoying Yash getting humiliated! Its so sad that after 1 year of PV, someone feels that way about AARTI! Well, that just proves one fact- the person never understood Aarti, neither Yash!

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