Dear friends looking DESPERATELY for HELP... PLEAS

Dear Friends...
I am making this post because i want a feedback, a help to make a decision that i am supposed to
be making on my own but cant.

Its regarding my career i know i
am supposed to be doing this on my own but trust me i cant and if i could get some help i would be
really obliged...


I have completed my graduation in MBBS from outside India...yes technically i am a Doctor but i never wanted to be one... I have expressed any interest in the
field ever but it was my father's decision... He wanted me to become a doctor... I knew i never had it in me to become a doctor...I was and still am not someone who would be binded by books...i never saw myself so serious and busy... I am not that kinda person. I am a
creative person i enjoy doing things that does not handcuff me down... I agree there was my mistake too that i never boldly said that i did not want to become a Doctor
maybe it was fear...maybe it was
that i wasnt sure what i wanted
back then...maybe i was sure my parents wouldnt support my dreams and ambition when i was in 8 i had playfully told them that i wanted to work in the world me entertainment i was lucky that i just got scolded that day and on further extreme drama was there and so when my dad
said this i couldn't fight him
today after all these years i have
realized that medicine is not my
passion... It never will be...This is not something that will make me happy and i
know it... I tried telling my father
but he is not trying to
understand. According to him its like you spent so many years
learning the subject what good would it do now? What will
people say? What will our relatives say? I cannot make him see that medicine is not
something i will never be happy doing...that if should try and understand me than think about
my relatives and all those people...In other words my situation is almost 85% like that
of Farhan (R.Madhavan) in 3
Idiots... Yesterday my dad and uncle went to a hospital in my city to get me into training some clinical exposure of sorts they
came back home and announced that i am to go from this
Monday ... What should i do guys?


I know i am a grownup that i can say my heart out...If i staunchly say NO it would hurt them but is it not better that i
hurt them now till they see how happy i am when doing what i love to do? Or should i just go with the hospital?


Should i follow my dreams and give them a chance or should i
just suck up to what is asked of me?


Please help me guys...the thought
that i have to go to the hospital coming Monday has made me all cranky. Unable to decide what to do as a last resort i am making this post... Yes i am DESPERATELY LOOKING FOR AN ANSWER.


I dont know any of you personally same goes to you too...hence your answer will be unbiased... Please help me guys
its a matter of my career my
life...something that i am supposed to live with for my entire life...

PLEASE HELP ME.

Friends please anything would be appreciated please help me make a choice

Did you try to just sit down with your parents together and discuss with them i mean they can't be that bad haaa our parents always wants us to be happy in Life haaa so they can understand that now you are an adult you your self knows what would make you happy in Life and as villager said you can try child pediatry as you can share your creative side with them at the same time practice you've studied hard for😆

Be in peace.. If it was me.. I will follow my dreams.. But i will try to tok to my parents..

I Think U Shud Wat U R Intrested In But At the Same Time Make Sure Your Parents Are Happy With It ...

Maybe you should talk to your parents first, and tell them about that thing that bothers you. What you really want in your life... Though at first it may hurt them but for sure they will understand...

Why don't you try doing both, being a creative doctor... 😃

I think you should give it a chance first. Work in the hospital for a month or so, and see how you like it. Maybe your opinion about it will change. If you still continue to feel devastated after that, then sit with your parents and tell them you're very unhappy and you really want to change your career.