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Thank you every one...
loved reading your input..
Yes Aarti needs to be more relaxed and not let her bitter experience cloud her behavior and her attitude.
Though Yash is more right in few things but he still over looks few things specially the behavior of Mother and his daughters He does not speak at the right time to correct his daughters
He makes his assumption per his observations but he does not look for the historic pattern and be more considerate and lenient.
But by what he has seen so far from Aarti and Ansh he thought being little bit strict with Ansh will solve the problem.
Also his assumption with Aarti's behavior is not entirely wrong...
But where he is at fault at his over looking his daughter's behavior also and not making effort to give proper instrctions to Payal and Palak to consider Ansh as brother. He does have those idea and he is trying to resolve it in his own way without knowing how Ansh is brought up and all
What Aarti lacks is her sensitivities for her audiance. In her enthusiasm she forgets about her rigid audiance. Her remarks for the wrong upbrinig of the girls were not taken lightly nor her enthusiasm to train them per her standard.
Even after so many incidents during the marriage and ceremonies she has not picked up that sensitivity.. and so she gets in to trouble
Also she needs to think twice before saying something and knowing her audience... because sometimes her attitude and her speech makes it a direct challange to the authorities of the house and they do not think it kindly upon. Specially Gayatri. Pa Scindhia does not keep grudges. He tells her the mistakes and expects her to follow it next time and that's that but Gayatri is vicious and takes revange on every little things..
When Ansh was locked up by Gayatri.. Gayatri told her that she is doing to do a favor for Ansh and he will learn from this... That time Aarti heatedly told her that it may be her ways but she does not believe in those and she will free her son. This was taken as a challange by Gayatri and then she forbid Aarti...
What I mean is that she should be be manipulative as Paridhi but she should be tactful in knowing how to deal with her audience... She cannot just say whatever she want and expect all to believe her or trust her judgment because she thinks her ways are better then hers...
She needs to know that she is dealing with some very orthodox and rigid people and they do not change over night.
I think that is her problem always that she is too forceful and too direct and does not have that sweet ways to present her view.. I think Prashant also did not like her too direct approach at his fault...
It is said that the words spoken at the correct time and correct manner are like the golden fruits in a silver basket..
Shiv Shakti
