A Child needs BOTH parents whether good or bad!

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Posted: 13 years ago
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And so there is this hoopla over who is the best parent. Move over Payal, Palak and Ansh! let the parents fight their fights first 😆

Aarti and Yash remind me of me and my best friend during my school days. We both were top rankers and would beat each other by only a few grades. There was always a healthy competition between us to see who ranked first in the class. Sometimes i would and sometimes her. There was no rivalry but a profound respect for each other's hard work and intelligence for each knew how much the other worked hard to get there.

Yash and Aarti's relationship is also based on this mutual respect. Trust? Not yet. They both have very different ideas on how a kid should be raised and they have followed their ideas to T and hence have brought up kids that are reflection of their beliefs - often one sided if i dare say so 😳

Ansh is naughty, hyper active and intelligent. he is like a diamond that does need some polishing. Thanks to Aarti's idealistic approach to his school education and also the fact that she couldnt afford an expensive schooling.

Payal and Palak have impeccable manners and no child like tantrums. They have lady like demeanor and though thats easy on eyes, they are losing their childhood and growing up at an unnatural speed. They are more vicious, grudging and a little insensitive if i can say so. They are scared of punishments and hence would have second thoughts about what they did but there is no underlying sense of what is hurting and whats not (i gathered this from their conversation after Ansh is locked up. They are not morose for Ansh's pain but are scared thinking Aarti would punish them) All this is thanks to Yash's disciplinarian and uptight upbringing.

so these two have created two mini-me-s.

What a golden chance for them to hand over the reign of their own kid's to the other parent and see a transformation that would make these kids almost perfect.
Aarti could teach Payal and Palak a lot about being grounded and sensitive to other's pain whereas Yash could teach Ansh not to go running to his mom but be self reliant where a kid can. He can teach him the value of learning through falling first and then getting up.

i hope they both realize that they have failed at some aspect of parenting and only as a team they can hope for their kid's brighter future 😳

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gafulu14 thumbnail
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Posted: 13 years ago
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thats the way they 2 gether, agree
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Agree, both Yash and Arati should come to a common point regarding parenting. Both of them together can only make the best parents and not alone.

But , for that first they should have abetter communication.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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What a heated-topic? Both Yash and Aarti have different ideas in raising the kids. Yash wants the best for both his girls and Ansh while Aarti wants them to learn the hard way in achieving things without sliver spoons. They equally have different trait in raising the kids, but they don't know that they are also creating fear in their kids' hearts about their step family. If Ansh gets any punish the girls think their step mother is going to punish them and Ansh think its only him who are getting punish - not the girls. I feel sorry for the kids when their parents themselves don't have a normal conversation without hesitating.

Indeed, they agree to marry for their kids, but they don't know that their action toward each other is going to harm their way in understanding their kids.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Great post...agree with you...Yash & Aarti both need to learn something about parenting from each other...but at first, they need a proper conversation
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Agree with you!!
Yash and Aarti should have a proper conversation, i think they started moving towards it as they started communicating now

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