29/3 Analysis Unit: Prashant Karega Kanyadaan - Page 6

In Aarti's defence will say something ...

@golda: Oh so true! i had never thought of applying this to other characters but it certainly works for Shobha and Dubey! Shobha does pick up signals from the universe/fate/destiny. Somewhere along the way she has understood that Aarti was meant to be in her life and perhaps Prashant was a vehicle for that connection to happen. She must have felt immense guilt when Prashant left, but she opened her heart to all the signals and saw this broken girl who did not deserve her lot in life, took it as a sign and loved her with all she had. And in return she got the sweet, principled, strong and loving child she as a mother deserved.

Papa Dubey, on the other hand has not opened himself up this way. He is still very much stuck on relationships as defined most traditionally and though he loves Aarti, he is regretting the sacrifice he is having to make of his own flesh and blood, first Prashant and now Ansh.

But since we established that in this respect Aarti is like Dubey, driven by her emotions, we can also surmise that she is thankfully marrying someone like Shobha, ie Yash. I think this is why Shobha likes Yash so much. She sees herself in him and she knows that is what Aarti needs.

Originally posted by: jyoti06

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Mayb thats why she is not putting the entire blame on Prashant because somewhere mayb she too was at fault here as Prashant had different expectations from her ...

Thanks Jikky and Jyo...yah maybe I missed that part! 😆

U see guys, my hero in this show is Pankaj, such a rollie pollie cute character 😆

I did a short analysis on page one too!

A woman's cry and a heartless man 😡

Originally posted by: angake

@ enchanted, I don't find it difficult to understand Aarti's behaviour today at all. I completely understand your point but has Aarti ever had a chance to talk about why their marriage broke down with Prashant. I don't think Prashant has ever given her that opportunity.

From what we understand he left her and then hasn't bothered to keep in touch with her at all. She has had 5 years to stew about why Prashant left her and the only answer she probably came up with was that it was her fault that she wasn't able to prove to Prashant how much she loves him. Today (again as we audience are led to believe) was the first time Prashant and Aarti spoke after he left her. If she sounded desperate it was because she really was. Tomorrow she is going to get married to a stranger about whom she knows nothing about. She probably felt she had just few minutes to convince Prashant that she loves him and that if he gave them a fair chance their relationship could work.

As a viewer yes, I too was disgusted that she would beg a low life like Prashant for a second chance when he should be groveling at her feet. But for a woman who grew up as an orphan and Prashant probably being the first person who offered her a sense of belongingness, I can understand and empathize with her when she was begging Prashant for a second chance. And I think in a way she needed that so that in future she will know that she did everything from her part to salvage her marriage to Prashant.

It remains to be seen whether or not Prashant and Aarti had a talk about their failing marriage... We have been just shown one scene of Prashant leaving him,if there was discord before and they tried to work on it,remains to be seen. But I think it was not for the lack of love that Prashant left. If I remember correctly, he said that he felt suffocated(with too much love?)... He was not ready to be tied down forever in a bond, he wanted to be free. So maybe Prashant left for not lack of love,but due to too much love. The reason could be as you said that Aarti was an orphan,and Prashant offered her a sense of belongingness. He gave her not just a marriage,but a whole family, in form of such loving and doting in laws. So maybe Aarti showered all her feelings on him,not just out of love,but also because of a sense of indebtness. Even today Prashant said to Aarti that he had told so many times that he doesnt want her and there is no future for them. And that she is selfish, to want him back,when he loves someone else. And yes that desperation,which Aarti had today,it arises,not due lack of love,but due to over abundance of it.

Forgot to post 😛 ;; posted in MF as well

Also I m wondering mayb its not really easy for girls to forget the first man in her life and move on irrespective of whether he is a moron or not ..

@Samana: I am still mulling over that line you have written: "Yash feels emotionally satiated while Aarti is left feeling empty-handed." In a sense they both are in that position, for sure, but in both cases that is a result of what they seem to have told themselves is the truth ... whereas the real truth is quite different.

Lovely analysis by every one... From storyline point of view, good episode..But this leaves lot of Qs on what kind fo relation Arati and Prashant shared and what has lead to this decission by Prashant.

@Angake: Yes please do call me Mansi! 'm happy you felt the same way I did about the beginning of love coming from looking at the world through the other one's eyes. You are right. If Yash did not have that peace of mind he now has he could not have tried to see the world from Aarti's point of view!