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evasumi

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: DMKJ_VB

i understand what u r saying..they r free to love him with whoever they want to ! my only problem is with the people who bash! i can never accept the ppl who bash Gurmeet and say that they hv stopped loving him becoz he decided to do a new show or becoz they can't see him with someone else as his fan. ya, if someone still loves him but chooses to not watch the show, etc .i can understand.But bashers and haters can never be fans.

DMKJ_VB...

Yes I do understand your POV... but I would still say that it is their choice and this is our choice..

If they think they have limited love for Gurmeet and so be it... Bashing is not allowed on the forum any way.. If they want to love Gurmeet in small capacity then it is totally upto them why would we be even bothered by that. We cannot force anyone to love Gurmeet the way we want becasue every individual has his/her choice..

Basher and haters would soon understand that they did not love Gurmeet as Gurmeet and they will learn in their own way.. Clashing with them is not going to help either party.. So why not leave them alone in thier limited world and let them learn by themselves..

If they really love Gurmeet they will come around eventually...

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DMKJ_VB

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: evasumi

DMKJ_VB...

Yes I do understand your POV... but I would still say that it is their choice and this is our choice..

If they think they have limited love for Gurmeet and so be it... Bashing is not allowed on the forum any way.. If they want to love Gurmeet in small capacity then it is totally upto them why would we be even bothered by that. We cannot force anyone to love Gurmeet the way we want becasue every individual has his/her choice..

Basher and haters would soon understand that they did not love Gurmeet as Gurmeet and they will learn in their own way.. Clashing with them is not going to help either party.. So why not leave them alone in thier limited world and let them learn by themselves..

If they really love Gurmeet they will come around eventually...

oh u got me wrong.i never said i wanted to fight with them, i fact i prefer to ignore them, the only time i protest is when they bash on his profile or the forum becoz i can't stop myself from doing that..otherwise i have nothing to do with them. Of course we can't force anyone to love him, and thats not even my last intention...i just wish people could stop bashing and name calling ..thats it.

A simple post where Gurmeet's signature was posted was deliberately turned into a battleground..now these r the things i can't tolerate.esp, since its happening here in PV forum...can't a person post the autograph of a lead actor which he had given when he was doing his first Hindi show?!

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evasumi

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Posted: 13 years ago

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DMKJ_VB

Thanks...

See that is what I am trying to say.. the grouping of the fans makes the simple thread in to battle ground...

But my thing is if someone is behaving immaturely then why do we encourage those people?? Ignoring those people would serve better purpose then arguing with them... but in our zeal to prove ourselves better fans we retaliate and then arguments and thus the battle ground..

If JR posted the signature of Gurmeet while he was doing Ramayan would be perfectly ok as it is Gurmeet's personal autograph...

I also even was thinking about sharing his autograph he gave me but than needed to do scanning and could not find time to do that.

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Sri_Radha

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Nice post..well said👏

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mitul

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Posted: 13 years ago

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@evasumi: i agree with your POV...we cannot change other people's opinion...fighting with them lead us to nowhere...but sometimes, bashing really goes out of hands...then fans react, i think...but again, as you said we shold not be bothered about it...the bashing actually cannot harm the actors...

& gorgot to say...if you find the autograph, plz post it...

@DKMJ_VB: i agreewith you too...but ignore them...you cannot change anyone & you know it better than me😊😊

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Shradha Jhanjee

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Thanks for the post Eva Di

I love Guru as an actor right from his very scene in Ramayan. I have never been a fan of any tele actor. I became his fan after watching him as MSK because with his second show, I got to know that he is a versatile actor who can play other characters too with the same perfection, as mythological. His all characters, all looks are always very special to me.

Honestly, even I don't care about who his co-star is or his onscreen chemistry with female leads, because when he is there, I just watch him and forget about everything else. Rest everything automatically falls in place.

I have followed his work till date and will continue to

The only thing that hurts me is when people bash his personal life and family, just because they are obsessed with his onscreen chemistry with co-stars

Being a fan of Gurmeet Choudhary, I cannot ever think of hurting him by bashing any of his work or personal life

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Pinky Bedi

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Posted: 13 years ago

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@evasumi: i agree with your POV...we cannot change other people's opinion...fighting with them lead us to nowhere...but sometimes, bashing really goes out of hands...then fans react, i think...but again, as you said we shold not be bothered about it...the bashing actually cannot harm the actors...

& gorgot to say...if you find the autograph, plz post it...

@DKMJ_VB: i agreewith you too...but ignore them...you cannot change anyone & you know it better than me😊😊

U said vry true dear ,bashing dont harm any artist , infact that is a kind of popularity which keep them in media...

I just want to say...i love evryone who loves Gurmeet...Be it as Ram, MAnn, YAsh...or in any indvidual performance...For me intensity n face of lov can vary from person to person ...I love him like a younger bro, most of the young girls day dream him as their teanage crush,,,someone must be adoring him as a son...Moral of the story is at the end of the day we all lov a common person Gurmeet..

I only want to convey learn to differentiate between lov n obsession...keep loving dear...without claiming my love is more convincing than yours...

Pls post his Autograpgh if possible Eva...

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mitul

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: pinkybedi
very true...we have to learn to differentiate between love & obsession...loving someone is great, but being obsessed with him/her is really unhealthy...

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Sumaiyah

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Very well said EVA! Honestly, if you are a true fan of GC.. then you will love him more than any of his roles. He puts a piece of himself in each of the characters he plays.. so why dislike any of them? They are all brilliant because of GC's efforts.

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ana56

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Posted: 13 years ago

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loved ur post dear

i am really happy to rad such a topic after all these bashings and all

and i completely agre with u

when praising gurmeet as maan or either as ram then y we forget the fact tht we r talking about Gurmeet who is a versatile actor and he has managed to win our hearts as maan or ram?

i love gurmeet in any role e plays

mera maqsad GC ko dekhna aur usski acting aur hardwork ki qadar karna hai

so guys plz leave all such bashings and get together as we all r gurmeetians(GCian)

once again thanx dear for making such a great post

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