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I came home and I saw Punar Vivah. šAnd I went on India Forums to see what people thought of Aarti and Yash's song on Vikrant and Sarita... but instead, I saw a lot of negative viewsš².
Many people are missing the point.š They claim that this soap is unrealistic and that this show isn't doing well. But I think they're definitely missing a point that I want everyone to realize. And I am giving my apologies ahead of a time because I don't want to offend anyone. I just want people to open their minds n really enjoy but analyze this perspective.
Sarita is a woman that has stayed with her husband, Raj for ten years but she didn't have any relationship with him. She had to endure a lot of negativity from her in-laws but never said anything š because that is (sadly to say) part of our culture. I mean, I am not saying that she did the right thing (because personally, I wouldn't have tolerated that much.) But there are women before that wouldn't say anything to their in-laws because...well, they are their in-laws.
Sarita, is a woman that really has her morals ingrained in her mind and is strong enough to endure things. But she has realized that ten years is just too late. I š” hate the face that Raj suddenly just remembered that he loves Sarita. That part to me is very illogical... That 10 years, he didn't realize that Sarita is a very good woman and didn't see her goodness?!?!?!š”
Now Vikrant, I think people are more negative towards him because "he made this marriage a contract" but that was ONLY BECAUSE HE WAS DESPERATE! š Yes, he was that desperate to try and make Sarita be Abhi's mom. Vikrant is someone that has no feelings except for his son. (AND THAT IS FINE BECAUSE HIS SON IS THE ONLY TRUE FAMILY HE HAS AND HE WANTS HIS KID TO BE HAPPY AND LIVE NORMALLYš)... But his personality is pretty practical. A lot of major business people, do have this attitude of keeping themselves distant and they distance themselves too much to where they become heartless. And that is exactly what has happened to him. (Now, I don't think that what Vikrant did was totally right. But that's how the serial went and that's what he have to follow...) š„± The fact that he gets mad at Sarita is all due to communication which is always the problem in soap operas but it is no one's fault. This is a new marriage and Vikrant doesn't know Sarita and how her nature is... Common ya'll look at Arnav and Khushi... didn't he suspect Kushi to be with Shyam... So the part of Vikrant thinking that Sarita is negative in being with Raj is justifiable. She doesn't tell him the truth like she doesn't make him sit and make sure he listens to her and so we can't blame him for thinkning this. Remember, it's the beginning of their relationship... he doesn't trust her fully just yet...
Honestly y'all, the fact that she married Vikrant is most likely the best step that she has taken.š This gives her more room for her own personality. š Living with Raj, she had cornered herself off and did only what she was supposed to. She basically acted as a robot. She never received the love and care that a normal person would go crazy without. But I think that Sarita has kind of lived better with Vikrant because she feels loved. No, not by Vikrant, but by Abhi. And she is right. She cannot leave Abhi like that; being a mother, she can't just leave Vikrant like that and she doesn't want to... She knows that she can't do any injustice to Abhi. I really think Punar Vivah 2 has became amazing since Vikrant's entry... even though, I hated I HATED Vikrant at first... I realized that he isn't that bad once I understood what he felt. HE actually appreciated her for being a good mother before he got mad at her... and that says a lot for a character like him.
Many people are missing the point.š They claim that this soap is unrealistic and that this show isn't doing well. But I think they're definitely missing a point that I want everyone to realize. And I am giving my apologies ahead of a time because I don't want to offend anyone. I just want people to open their minds n really enjoy but analyze this perspective.
Sarita is a woman that has stayed with her husband, Raj for ten years but she didn't have any relationship with him. She had to endure a lot of negativity from her in-laws but never said anything š because that is (sadly to say) part of our culture. I mean, I am not saying that she did the right thing (because personally, I wouldn't have tolerated that much.) But there are women before that wouldn't say anything to their in-laws because...well, they are their in-laws.
š And she remained faithful to her husband. Now, in that ten years, she developed such a strong one-sided love. But then, her husband finds š” his "long-lost love" and wants to marrry that person (divya). Raj decides to find someone for Sarita...
and then Vikrant is introduced with his son, Abhimaan. Abhi takes Sarita as his mother. And so when the wedding is kind of finalized, Raj realizes his love for Sarita!? š” ( Personally... I hate this part... but I will explain later.) Sarita rejects the relationship with Vikrant ... but then when Raj's sister gets in trouble, Sarita goes to Vikrant for help who made a deal with her to get married. From then, Raj wants to make Sarita realize that he and her can only be together but uses Divya along the way...
Now, you all must be thinking... "Why am I reading a synopsis of this serial?" But this is exactly what I want you guys to have in the background while I try and prove to yall that this isn't as unrealistic and bad as you think it is...
10 years. Ten years is a lot to build up a one-sided love...but 10 years is way too long to not realize love.
and then Vikrant is introduced with his son, Abhimaan. Abhi takes Sarita as his mother. And so when the wedding is kind of finalized, Raj realizes his love for Sarita!? š” ( Personally... I hate this part... but I will explain later.) Sarita rejects the relationship with Vikrant ... but then when Raj's sister gets in trouble, Sarita goes to Vikrant for help who made a deal with her to get married. From then, Raj wants to make Sarita realize that he and her can only be together but uses Divya along the way...
Now, you all must be thinking... "Why am I reading a synopsis of this serial?" But this is exactly what I want you guys to have in the background while I try and prove to yall that this isn't as unrealistic and bad as you think it is...
10 years. Ten years is a lot to build up a one-sided love...but 10 years is way too long to not realize love.
Sarita, is a woman that really has her morals ingrained in her mind and is strong enough to endure things. But she has realized that ten years is just too late. I š” hate the face that Raj suddenly just remembered that he loves Sarita. That part to me is very illogical... That 10 years, he didn't realize that Sarita is a very good woman and didn't see her goodness?!?!?!š”
Now Vikrant, I think people are more negative towards him because "he made this marriage a contract" but that was ONLY BECAUSE HE WAS DESPERATE! š Yes, he was that desperate to try and make Sarita be Abhi's mom. Vikrant is someone that has no feelings except for his son. (AND THAT IS FINE BECAUSE HIS SON IS THE ONLY TRUE FAMILY HE HAS AND HE WANTS HIS KID TO BE HAPPY AND LIVE NORMALLYš)... But his personality is pretty practical. A lot of major business people, do have this attitude of keeping themselves distant and they distance themselves too much to where they become heartless. And that is exactly what has happened to him. (Now, I don't think that what Vikrant did was totally right. But that's how the serial went and that's what he have to follow...) š„± The fact that he gets mad at Sarita is all due to communication which is always the problem in soap operas but it is no one's fault. This is a new marriage and Vikrant doesn't know Sarita and how her nature is... Common ya'll look at Arnav and Khushi... didn't he suspect Kushi to be with Shyam... So the part of Vikrant thinking that Sarita is negative in being with Raj is justifiable. She doesn't tell him the truth like she doesn't make him sit and make sure he listens to her and so we can't blame him for thinkning this. Remember, it's the beginning of their relationship... he doesn't trust her fully just yet...
Honestly y'all, the fact that she married Vikrant is most likely the best step that she has taken.š This gives her more room for her own personality. š Living with Raj, she had cornered herself off and did only what she was supposed to. She basically acted as a robot. She never received the love and care that a normal person would go crazy without. But I think that Sarita has kind of lived better with Vikrant because she feels loved. No, not by Vikrant, but by Abhi. And she is right. She cannot leave Abhi like that; being a mother, she can't just leave Vikrant like that and she doesn't want to... She knows that she can't do any injustice to Abhi. I really think Punar Vivah 2 has became amazing since Vikrant's entry... even though, I hated I HATED Vikrant at first... I realized that he isn't that bad once I understood what he felt. HE actually appreciated her for being a good mother before he got mad at her... and that says a lot for a character like him.
Now here comes the main part. Everyone is different and they have different values. I think that one should try and keep their marriage as long as one can. But in Raj and Sarita's case, ten years is too long to endure this. Yes, since she maintained it 10 years why not continue? No because of Abhi. With both her marriages, the men didn't love her at first... Vikrant was beginning to like her but he felt used after seeing Raj. And Raj now is becoming a psycho wanting Sarita as if she is property and uses Divya. Now, she is married to Vikrant, she shouldn't just leave him. And I feel that within time, they (Vikrant and Sarita) will fall for each other as foreshadowed in the YEH DILL HAIII precap today with Vikrant saving Sarita...
Life is not a joke. And yes, some aspects of this serial can be really extreme but this is how a serial works. And so it is not unrealistic nor is it stupid. To me, I feel this serial will show (WITHIN TIME) how important it is for someone to change for the better and how life takes toll during such a situation. I am sorry if I offended anyone and I am sorry for this HUGE NOVEL... but this needed to be said. Thanks...
Write down ya'lls comments and if you disagree with me... write down your views nicely. I am interested in your side and by no means did I mean to be rude. I was trying to say that this plot is going to take toll within time so keep watching.
Write down ya'lls comments and if you disagree with me... write down your views nicely. I am interested in your side and by no means did I mean to be rude. I was trying to say that this plot is going to take toll within time so keep watching.
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