Sarita is extremely selfish..

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Posted: 11 years ago
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She is almost worse than Raj.
This is a woman who was in a loveless marriage for ten years and it made her feel miserable and worthless, but this same woman would happily force such a life on another woman?😕

I seriously can't understand how Sarita can be so selfish and ask Divya to stay with Raj, when she herself knows how much it hurts when the guy you love, loves someone else.

And her lecture to Divya about how she cares only about Abhi, pull the other one! Throughout this Mumbai trip all she ever thought about was Raj. Whether it was missing him, thinking about him, worrying about him, meeting him etc. It was all about him. So please writers stop trying to make us feel sorry for Sarita when really she brought all the trouble on herself and she is no innocent angel.

Why should Divya remain in a relationship when Raj is so obsessively after Sarita? Why should she ruin her life just so he won't be lonely? That is just pathetic.

I seriously thought I couldn't dislike Sarita more than I already did because of how much self-pity she has for no good reason, but she managed to make me dislike her so much that I can't see why I even liked her at all. Let's not even go onto Raj.🥱

Seriously what do Vikrant and Divya see in Sarita and Raj?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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sarita knows that divya is raj's love...she knows that divya lives raj a lot
..raj is confused...sarita wants divya not to leave raj as divya is raj's first n true love...
sarita very well knows that she is abhi's mom n will never leave him n go to raj...it was not her fault that raj came to mumbai after her...it was raj who always used to bump into her...she always tried to stay away from him
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: amrapali_dubey

sarita knows that divya is raj's love...she knows that divya lives raj a lot
..raj is confused...sarita wants divya not to leave raj as divya is raj's first n true love...
sarita very well knows that she is abhi's mom n will never leave him n go to raj...it was not her fault that raj came to mumbai after her...it was raj who always used to bump into her...she always tried to stay away from him


But she is asking Divya to stay with Raj not because she gives a hoot about Divya but because she doesn't want Raj to be lonely. And all this time she knew Raj was obsessed with her but she was happy to let Raj ruin Divya's life, even though that same Raj ruined ten years of her life?

Yes it was Raj that followed her to Mumbai, but she didn't have to answer his calls, she didn't have to reply to his messages, she didn't have to meet him in secret etc. But she did. She let herself get caught up in this mess and that is her fault. She didn't try very hard to stay away from Raj.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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i know that the actors are only acting, but in order to get their emotions across the have to use psychology symptoms to put across what the character is feeling. sarita used words like Pagalpanti, feetur, to describe what raj is doing, she said in very clear words that for 10 years he was married to her but wanted Divya, that he was the one who brought vikrant into her life, and that when she got engaged to Vikrant he professed his love to her, and now that she is married to another man he wants her.
Sarita cares for Raj, but i dont think she is strongly in love with him any more. she cares for him enough that she does not want him to hurt himself. she sees that raj has become irrational, and does not really know what he wants or what is right and wrong. because in his madness he has forgotten his responsibility to his family.

Divya loves Raj, and once Raj understand that sarita in not his anymore and nor will she be, there is a chance that he will understand Divya's love for him, and the old feelings of love will blossom.

sarita is not being selfish, she is just not heartless. she knows that if raj does something to himself his whole family will be devastated, she feels that only Divya can help raj.

sarita should not have made those false promises to raj, but she had no other option at the time. and he methods to discourage raj were wrong too. but now with divya on her side may be they will be able to solve this problem.

besides being back with vikrant and Abhi at home will put her out of Raj's reach and give vikrant and sarita an opportunity to become closer. the more she stays away for Raj the better.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: merrydock

i know that the actors are only acting, but in order to get their emotions across the have to use psychology symptoms to put across what the character is feeling. sarita used words like Pagalpanti, feetur, to describe what raj is doing, she said in very clear words that for 10 years he was married to her but wanted Divya, that he was the one who brought vikrant into her life, and that when she got engaged to Vikrant he professed his love to her, and now that she is married to another man he wants her.

Sarita cares for Raj, but i dont think she is strongly in love with him any more. she cares for him enough that she does not want him to hurt himself. she sees that raj has become irrational, and does not really know what he wants or what is right and wrong. because in his madness he has forgotten his responsibility to his family.

Divya loves Raj, and once Raj understand that sarita in not his anymore and nor will she be, there is a chance that he will understand Divya's love for him, and the old feelings of love will blossom.

sarita is not being selfish, she is just not heartless. she knows that if raj does something to himself his whole family will be devastated, she feels that only Divya can help raj.

sarita should not have made those false promises to raj, but she had no other option at the time. and he methods to discourage raj were wrong too. but now with divya on her side may be they will be able to solve this problem.

besides being back with vikrant and Abhi at home will put her out of Raj's reach and give vikrant and sarita an opportunity to become closer. the more she stays away for Raj the better.


Lovely post, merrydock!
ICAM! 😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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i agree she is shame as a woman right now 🤢 i can't believe this was the girl for whom i used to argue with ppl & now she is just a moron
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Posted: 11 years ago
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diya loves for raj is not a true love if she truely love then she try that raj will out of his dilemma
If raj do something wrong to himself then divya should understand & help him


Sarita love for raj is true love thats why she trying that raj come out of his dileema & accept divya & her love

Here divya is selfish& not helping raj to come out of his possiveness
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Iam not agree with u
sarita is not selfish &she did not want anything from divya for herself


sarita just want that divya get her raj love back



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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: hebasamiya

diya loves for raj is not a true love if she truely love then she try that raj will out of his dilemma

If raj do something wrong to himself then divya should understand & help him


Sarita love for raj is true love thats why she trying that raj come out of his dileema & accept divya & her love

Here divya is selfish& not helping raj to come out of his possiveness


So true love is letting someone treat you like you're worthless and just letting them use you and humiliate you? Because that's what Raj is doing to Divya, but she's just meant to allow him to do that?😕

Whether Sarita's love is true or not is not the point really. The point is she is asking another woman to waste her life so Raj won't be lonely, she's asking for such a big thing from another woman just for her own peace of mind. That is selfish.



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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: merrydock

i know that the actors are only acting, but in order to get their emotions across the have to use psychology symptoms to put across what the character is feeling. sarita used words like Pagalpanti, feetur, to describe what raj is doing, she said in very clear words that for 10 years he was married to her but wanted Divya, that he was the one who brought vikrant into her life, and that when she got engaged to Vikrant he professed his love to her, and now that she is married to another man he wants her.

Sarita cares for Raj, but i dont think she is strongly in love with him any more. she cares for him enough that she does not want him to hurt himself. she sees that raj has become irrational, and does not really know what he wants or what is right and wrong. because in his madness he has forgotten his responsibility to his family.

Divya loves Raj, and once Raj understand that sarita in not his anymore and nor will she be, there is a chance that he will understand Divya's love for him, and the old feelings of love will blossom.

sarita is not being selfish, she is just not heartless. she knows that if raj does something to himself his whole family will be devastated, she feels that only Divya can help raj.

sarita should not have made those false promises to raj, but she had no other option at the time. and he methods to discourage raj were wrong too. but now with divya on her side may be they will be able to solve this problem.

besides being back with vikrant and Abhi at home will put her out of Raj's reach and give vikrant and sarita an opportunity to become closer. the more she stays away for Raj the better.


I understand Sarita's feelings, but once again that doesn't mean that what she was asking from Divya wasn't selfish. She wanted Divya to be with Raj so he won't be alone, so he won't hurt himself. But seriously that doesn't mean Divya needs to marry him, she can just be a friend to him.

What my main point is, is that she seemed to forget the pain she went through being with a man who was in love with another but she is happy to inflict that on Divya.

Plus she is partly to blame for the situation she is in.

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