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@Ruchi, thanks.Actually you are right that the new family/groom will not be worse than this family/Raj. But why this rush into another marriage when one hasn't even gotten out of the first one. 😊 Actually that was an answer to dadi's thought why sarita was sacrificing. I was like what sacrifice, I would call it good riddance. I am all for Sarita rediscovering her old hobbies, continuing her education or getting a career, anything that restores her self worth and makes her confident. But that's not what a show's leading lady does 😡. Isn't that what one does before looking for somebody else. But then how else they can claim it as a progressive show where the husband is getting the PV of her wife done. The rich parents are now missing for 10 years. Very strange as rarely I have seen influential rich parents abandoning their daughter in such a way. I find all set of parents unbelievably weird and irresponsible in this show - dadi, sohan-kamla and sarita's parents. Seems like no one put any effort to give the right amount of security and values to their kids. I have never seen that kind of indifferent parenting.I understand that you fall for a child automatically. I fell in love with my nephews when they were just hours old. In the beginning, when they used to sleep all the time, And I am not even their mother. So a mother would have even more attachment to her kids.But here we are talking about a grown woman. I can understand her being conditioned to love someone. But not having even a tiny bit of resentment at his behavior is so unrealistic. And then how can you respect somebody who has not stood up for you for 10 years. There has to be some loss of respect somewhere. Yet yesterday she was telling him that she learnt how to love from him. I have always thought of love as a combination of respect, attraction and friendship - that's why I don't believe in "divine love" theory. I also believe love is something earned, not something you just gift to someone - it's not something static that would never change irrespective of any change in the person loved. But all my original concepts are not holding true in this story. Not only I fail to understand why Sarita loves Raj, I also find it difficult to believe that Divya continues to love Raj. So, now I am just trying to comprehend Sarita's and Divya's "love". Btw, if Sarita's love is self-destructive, you know whom to blame - she learnt it all from Raj 😆Ruchi, I would not be too sure about the quality of episodes. After two good episodes, there are several crappy ones. Yesterday too you would have been repulsed by how they showed this woman Meenakshi who was touching Sarita on the waist, face etc. to measure her worth. I have yet to see an arranged marriage where a wedding match has done this. Then the way they were discussing sleeping arrangments of Sarita and Raj so publicly was disgusting. So this repulsive scenes continue. I don't know if this brings TRPs. That's why they continue to show this nonsense.😡 Thanks for cautioning me - I will steer clear. Yuck!!!
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