My heart goes out to Sarita - Page 2

Originally posted by: chinyere

<font color="#000033">i am also rooting for sarita all the way. and yes divya is shallow and vain coz you cant expect to shattered another person's heart due to ur slefish helpless reason and expect them to wait.yes raj didnt move on but he is so tormented he cant trust nor love again.i am sorry in love there is no anger ,possesssiveness or jealousy especilly when your respeonsibilities towards your family is greater than your love.love isnt slefish to only think about yourself and that is what divay doing,she didnt care what became of raj,he must just wait for her.and its true why no contact within that 10 yrs.no one can be so helpless to hurt the love of thier life so badly i am sorry.i just want sarita to be happy with raj's love or someone new.
<div></div>eventhough sarita didnt get raj's love she still stuck it out for 10 yrs in a loveless marriage,maybe she is thinking with time she can make raj love again but at least she didnt walk out on him,she remained even if she is also helpless and suffering,its foolish but as the same time admirable .thats my perception.</font>

? ? Dear, so acc to you there should be no anger, jealousy or possessivenes in love. Really? None of these emotions r associated wid love in real life. Here we r dealing wid humane characters and not larger than life 'mahan' ones, where there is never jealousy or anger in love. In real situations people feel these emotions. And i dont think shes selfish. How can she be. She sacrificed her love, life for her siblings! She did not think about her own life rather chose to raise up her siblings, is that selfishness? Had she married her love, leaving her young siblings to live on their own, what would that be then? Raj wud have been happy to have her in his life butt wat about her young siblings. Where wud have they gone? Wouldnt her conscience poke her every single moment! Wouldnt that be selfishness? So u see, divya would termed selfish in both cases. She had to take a stand. Her siblings must have been really young and couldnt survive without her support. Perhaps, thats the reason y she chose them over her love. Now why she didnt assure raj of her return is a question? May be her expectin him to wait her 4 all these years was a little too much, but perhaps she was wishing him to understand her quandary as well. And why did raj get married! To remain a married bachelor! I know ten years is a long time to wait, then y has he still moved on? In reality- he is still stuck on wid his past but he did he spoil sarita life in the process'

Originally posted by: sia_lovely

? ? Dear, so acc to you there should be no anger, jealousy or possessivenes in love. Really? None of these emotions r associated wid love in real life. Here we r dealing wid humane characters and not larger than life 'mahan' ones, where there is never jealousy or anger in love. In real situations people feel these emotions. And i dont think shes selfish. How can she be. She sacrificed her love, life for her siblings! She did not think about her own life rather chose to raise up her siblings, is that selfishness? Had she married her love, leaving her young siblings to live on their own, what would that be then? Raj wud have been happy to have her in his life butt wat about her young siblings. Where wud have they gone? Wouldnt her conscience poke her every single moment! Wouldnt that be selfishness? So u see, divya would termed selfish in both cases. She had to take a stand. Her siblings must have been really young and couldnt survive without her support. Perhaps, thats the reason y she chose them over her love. Now why she didnt assure raj of her return is a question? May be her expectin him to wait her 4 all these years was a little too much, but perhaps she was wishing him to understand her quandary as well. And why did raj get married! To remain a married bachelor! I know ten years is a long time to wait, then y has he still moved on? In reality- he is still stuck on wid his past but he did he spoil sarita life in the process'