IS DIVORCE BEST OPTION FOR MONA?? - Page 2

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: stranger11

Most of Mona's problems will be sovle if Phiiu is kicked out of the family..or should i say she is divroced from the family forever adn ever


Anu is honest with Ambaji about his problems, Ambaji losen her hold on Anu and let him have life with his wife and Mona is free to come and go without her permission, she is treated as an adult and also Hetal is told to behave, stop manipulating Bedi's and respect Mona if she wants to come and visit Gandhi's
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I would say divorce only if he and Mona were having serious problems. But no one if unfaithful or abuses the other. Anukalp just has an anger problem...but they both love each other so...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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nooo i dont want anu and mona to get divorce
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: April2007


In my opinion their is a big problem with Anukalp, he is mama's boy, his main aim in life is to please Ambaji at all cost, if abusing Mona keeps her happy so be it, to do so he hides from Ambaji and his family, his job problems, lack of money to buy jewellery to please her and her daughter, to keep her happy and Anu uses use Mona, and then keeps quiet when she is abused for making cut backs by Baa, Phui and Ambaji.

All Anukalap is interested in is his self image and ego and to keep Ambaji and rest of the family happy. He is using Mona to achieve his goal, not even ones he feels guilty about Mona being abused and used by him and his family. Anukalap is a horrible husband. He is the same husband who went to his sasural to tell not not to encourage Mona visits. He is living in bosom of his doting family and he has made sure Mona is isolated with no friends or family.

Baa, Phui and Ambaji can constantly abuse Mona because they Know that Anukalap will never take them on, or tell them off, he will let them abuse without raising hell. If Anu was strong and made clear he wanted everybody to respect Mona as a member of the family and no abuse will be allowed all three women will shut up.

I wouldn't want Anukalap kind of disloyal person as a friend let alone as a husband. All the surveys show that disloyalty is the number one reason people divorce.
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When Mona fell in love with Anukalp she knew he was a mama's boy...she knows that he doesn't really voice his opinions in front of the family...I guess you forgot those times when Anukalp used to stand up for Mona and Ambaji used to get angry saying that he's always defending her...the best solution in this problem is that if Anukalp just tells Ambaji that Mona cut down all expenses on his orders...this is such a simple problem that can be solved by just a little bit of talking and understanding...I stand my ground saying there's still no need for a divorce

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