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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: starlight123


Well that is looking it through your prospective as to how you perceive it but the diffence between your friends and Komal is that Komal is a widow and not his daughter...consent has to be her and her father and his method is completely wrong...




that's what i am saying too ...but according to him komal is now his daughter n so he is looking for a grrom for his daughter (according to him) he has forgotten that komal is a widow ... if u read my post i have said that he is wrong in looking for a groom without her consent ... but he is just looking ...nothing has been finalized as yet , he hasn't threatened her about remarriage ...he is only looking for suitable persons...that couldn't count as forcing it is yet to come
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Agree with everyone.
The way they're going about this is ludicrous.
It's way too soon, and based mainly on chinki's obsession with having a papa.
Komal herself doesn't even know what she's missed out on, her jealousy of kriya may just be the start of her discovery of love that blossoms slowly when least expecting it🤢 so they'll show it as a love marriage in the end, with gh supporting her, and P bhashaning SS into agreeing.🥱
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: dhakarn

well, til date prof hasn't 'forced' komal for remarriage ...i mean he only once talked about the issue with her...he didn't have any answer for her when she claimed that she will live with adarsh's memories the rest of her life n told him that she will commit suicide with chinki if they think along those lines ...he is surely looking for a suitable person mainly bec of chinki n ofcourse bec he thinks that komal deserves a second chance in her life ...n doing that without the consent of komal is wrong ...but then he is now considering her as his daughter , so he is doing this as any father would do ...like start looking for a suitable groom n once he gets one , slowly inform the daughter n others ...like what he did with P ...he just told P that so n so guy is coming to meet her , when nithin came to see P ...like what happens in most arranged marriages ...once the guy comes , he will talk with the girl n then they can decide ...n prof has told everyone that he has no rush , just look n find a suitable person n the marriage can be done after 2-3 years ... the thing he is missing here is that komal is not his 'kuvaari' daughter like P , but his late son's wife ... if he literally forces komal to remarry , then we can say that he is wrong ...

chinki is a child ...she don't know anything except that she happened to like a certain karthik n wants him to be her father ... chinki loved adarsh , but she hasn't had a long relation with him... she is mainly in love with the concept of the father ... chinki don't know what marriage means , she only wants a father ...


komal never had a say in her first marriage ...she was forced to marry adarsh ... she was so young , don't know what's happening ...only knew that her brother is getting her married off so that he can get his girl ... n that explains her hatred towards P to some extend ... but here chinki is being adamant ...n prof too came to know that chinki prefers karthik ...now prof will think along that line ... he is not at all thinking of komal , but only about chinki now... komal should only marry if she is prepared for it ...not bec her daughter wants a father or bec her FIL wants a better life for her ...she missed out on having a say in her first marriage ...she should decide on her life ahead ...

about P , we need to W & W ...



Good post Dahk and Sheena 👏

There are no ill intentions on anyone's part here who all are thinking for Komal's better life, but the final decision rests only with Komal. IMHO !!!!!.

Unlike her first marriage she now have changed somewhat and knows what she wants, she is not a kid any more.

CVs are trying to show too much too quickly to the audience before the show ends eventually. It looks like they do not have much time or they are trying to see what clicks as far as the TRP standings are concerned. TRP is the only criteria to survive amongst the stiff and constantly mounting pressure for MKAP slot.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: dhakarn




that's what i am saying too ...but according to him komal is now his daughter n so he is looking for a grrom for his daughter (according to him) he has forgotten that komal is a widow ... if u read my post i have said that he is wrong in looking for a groom without her consent ... but he is just looking ...nothing has been finalized as yet , he hasn't threatened her about remarriage ...he is only looking for suitable persons...that couldn't count as forcing


Why the sad face? Am I not allowed to say anything against the prof😕

but when a "daughter" tells no marriage as a father he should respect her decision...here looking is forcing his opinion on your daughter..

Dhanya, we both are right in our place IMO and I have read your post properly...thank you for pointing it out to me...



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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: suk4

Agree with everyone.
The way they're going about this is ludicrous.
It's way too soon, and based mainly on chinki's obsession with having a papa.
Komal herself doesn't even know what she's missed out on, her jealousy of kriya may just be the start of her discovery of love that blossoms slowly when least expecting it🤢 so they'll show it as a love marriage in the end, with gh supporting her, and P bhashaning SS into agreeing.🥱


I think love will blossom eventually though so much to do about nothing in the end...🥱
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: starlight123


Why the sad face? Am I not allowed to say anything against the prof😕 ofcourse u can, n u have been doing so...did u find me quoting any such posts n putting a sad face there too?😕 n this is not a sad face ...its 'ouch' , mainly bec i can't get where is ' forcing ' part here ...for me there is only 'wrong' part here

but when a "daughter" tells no marriage as a father he should respect her decision...here looking is forcing his opinion on your daughter..

Dhanya, we both are right in our place IMO and I have read your post properly...thank you for pointing out to me...





what prof is doing is 'WRONG' ...which is looking for a groom for komal without her consent ... but that is not 'FORCING' IMHO... forcing is when he is going to 'force' her accept his decision... so far he hasn't done that ...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Good post👏👏Gh ppl are confusing soulPro doesn't have any idea what is he doing.He's bringing everyday a new boy as groom for komal where she's unaware of it😲Komal already told that she won't remarry then why this all?Prof should give her some times atleast.But looks like he's only worried about chinki.What about Komal?The new guy won't be chinki's new father only he'll be komal's husband too!then why he is doing all this when komal is not ready.Pro should think about it.Remarriage is good but it should be the widows decision she want to marry again or not!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: HOTHUGZ



Good post Dahk and Sheena 👏

There are no ill intentions on anyone's part here who all are thinking for Komal's better life, but the final decision rests only with Komal. IMHO !!!!!.

Unlike her first marriage she now have changed somewhat and knows what she wants, she is not a kid any more.

CVs are trying to show too much too quickly to the audience before the show ends eventually. It looks like they do not have much time or they are trying to see what clicks as far as the TRP standings are concerned. TRP is the only criteria to survive amongst the stiff and constantly mounting pressure for MKAP slot.


Again, the execution of the track is much to be desired...

As far as TRPs are concerned, I think we have been in a worse position before and managed to get back on top and I have similar faith that we will do the same now as well, provided this guru a track brings the firework and changing dynamics in TN...Komal track should be only the parallel trk and not lead
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Posted: 13 years ago
#29

Originally posted by: starlight123


Prof is idle, he needs a new hobby

may be he should get remarried and set an example first...😛

Nah he won't ditch his first and last love Naina ji ! 😆
OMG i miss her endless tears ! 😭
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: HOTHUGZ



Good post Dahk and Sheena 👏

There are no ill intentions on anyone's part here who all are thinking for Komal's better life, but the final decision rests only with Komal. IMHO !!!!!.

Unlike her first marriage she now have changed somewhat and knows what she wants, she is not a kid any more.

CVs are trying to show too much too quickly to the audience before the show ends eventually. It looks like they do not have much time or they are trying to see what clicks as far as the TRP standings are concerned. TRP is the only criteria to survive amongst the stiff and constantly mounting pressure for MKAP slot.



thanks bro 😃 yes, TRP is a criteria ...recently so much unwanted tracks in MKAP n i am feeling really depressed ...every time we wish for kriya niwas or kriya baby track the CVs does a complete U - Turn 😡 ...

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