WHO'S THE MATURE AULAD OF THEM ALL.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Mirror, mirror on the wall, who's the mature aulad of them all? Is it the obedient byil buddhi or the daring, unpredictable, raging, ladla of the house or the vulnerable, spoiled beti who is treading water in unknown territory?

Who is in charge at the Niwas………….really? Who's calling the shots directly or indirectly and who's going to be in charge of it all soon? Venture your guesses?

KN may not be the brightest bulb in the Niwas. Every time he tries to push the envelope and establish himself as the heir apparent SS either smacks him down with nicknames like "kutha" or "byil buddhi" and with the code word, he's back to being the obedient son. He has his moments of cribbing and complaining which end up with him getting SS's jhoota flung in his face. She is perceived as the hard working yet dumb child in the family. SS sees him as the hardworking, obedient son who will toe the line. Funny thing is SS blames SDS for his children's inadequacies and brags about siring children with strengths he appreciates.

Married to a meek woman like Kesar he showed his beastly side more often than not. He was pissed he didn't have a sherni wife like K? He agrees to a quickie second wedding with Arusia (the other beti from GH he couldn't keep his eyes or hands off whenever he got the chance) which ended before it began thanks to Prats. Third time's a charm and did he land a charming pretty woman or what? She's tried to charm the Takurs but they weren't buying it. It takes a thief to know one 😛😆 Her greed knows no bounds and she's got her heart set on getting every last dime of the Takur SS's wealth. Is it possible her mother is using Menka to get revenge on SS for a past grievance against him? Will Meneka's shenanighans to get it all prove to be too much trouble for KN that he's happy to see wife #1 Kesar return in the nick of time to stop biwi # 3 from stealing her son's rightful inheritance? Will KN fall in love with the new Kesar?😉😳

Naiki's pillow talk and boudoir games are all part of her mission to have the Takurs dancing to her tune. She doesn't know her sasuma . This Takurain went after Prats with a vengeance at the mere thought that Prats may usurp her as the queen of the Niwas. This bakdi bahuria # 3 is seriously on a mission to accomplish just that. Viewers on IF may have ring side seats for a massive showdown between Naiki and SDS (before Asmita goes on maternity leave?) Got to hand it to pretty woman…….she's got guts to continue full steam ahead on her mission even after SS warned her to stay within her limits. Naiki refuses to be boxed in by anyone. She is still flinging insults and taunts in plain sight of the family without a care. She hasn't seen the real faces of the Takurs yet…………what she's seen so far is the mellowed down version of the Takurs thanks to Prats's PBJ with the strong backing of K. KN may switch his loyalties to his family when the going gets tough and they are busted.😛

Across town at MMGJ, the Sax's son Adarsh tolerated the Takur's only daughter after he acquired in a marriage of conditional compromise. Komal threw tantrums, never cared to read or write. She had her heart set on a materialistic life comparable to her bauji. Adarsh played along and broke the law. He left for Dubai using it as an excuse to get away from Komal, the wife he never loved nor does has he shown an ounce of affection for his daughter. Now he wants a divorce from her to get back to his paramour waiting for him in Dubai. Komal resigns to it and has agreed to grant him a divorce. Komal is vulnerable at the moment and hiding the truth of the divorce from the Sax family. She could flip back to being the self-centered spoiled Takur's beti …………..quite possible as she can be totally unpredictable. So don't let your guard down on this one. Surprises may be in store for everyone at GH…. if Adarsh and Komal team up to save the family home from the clutches of Tam the scammer😉.

Even as Shamu bequeaths GH to Arusia, the youngest Sax beti doesn't like the idea even as her successor as KN's wife #3 is out to rob the house from of the Takurs.

That leaves the apple of SS's eye……..his ladla beta ………K the favorite son in the family. SS sees K as the uniter and wants to bequeath the Niwas to him. But his older brother and his greedy wife want the whole enchilada not just a slice of the pie. K's self-esteem is down in the dumps at the moment. Prats is pouring on the love to get him off the deep end. K's aggression has always been out of control more often than not when things don't go his way about something that matters a lot to him. He has warned KN a few times to not test his limits.

WARNING: THE FOLLOWING MAY NOT APPEAL TO SOME READERS🤓

K wants to become a daddy. Fair enough! But is he ready for it😳? He is still throwing tantrums ……… beating people up and trashing the place (he's SS's son after all……………didn't SS trash the place when K made the pact with Adarsh to marry Komal off to him?). Blinded by rage he has gone ballistic in the past……broke a vase on KN's head, shot Prats, beat up a handful of people including Angadwa and Munna (Prat's fianc) and the guy whose car he bumped into a few days ago, to name a few. He even slit his wrists to get SS to agree to accept Prats as a bahu. Today, he crashes a glass table across the room bec' he's angry the family was mocking him behind his back. As much as his family loves him they are also terrified of his rage and they have a fiery temper as well. Imagine raising a little girl (junior Prats) in such an environment. Oy vey!😲

While he's getting treated for infertility maybe he should get some anger management therapy in the big city……. a good social issue to highlight on the show👏. Prats treats him like a little child to get him to calm down every time he blows a gasket. But how long can she continue to do that esp. after a child comes into the picture🤔. There could any number of factors that could set him off😲…………how can Prats know he won't land himself in slammer😕.

Oh wait! POPS will make sure no such thing happens😛 if they want to be on the air and earn TRPs.

Your turn to patar-patar now.👏 So go ahead.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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is K really ready to become a father... this cought my attention... N personally my answer : HE IS NOT. no offense to anyone. Im one of KRIYA fans who wants to see KRIYA baby but looking at y'day episode K broke the chair in front of all... Even samar was there... Theres lots of scenario like this happens even b4 this ... K is good at heart but when he gets angry no one can control him, Yes P can at certain extent... but how long this is gonna continue... 😕 ...
K needs to control his anger... n P needs to put full stop in it... Not trying to calm him down everytime... Can anyone tell me when was the last time Pratz told K that he is wrong to get angry n being violent. A person can show his anger but K 's way is out of hand... In fact when K broke the chair P got shocked too... Imagine if P is pregnant... wont that effect the CHILD...
I have made / share my view on TN is not a suitable place for a child to GROW long way back ... even today i have to tell its not suitable... at all...
Will circumstances make P leave Tn & K n go away from TN once shes pregnant... it would be interesting to watch...
Edited by riyya6 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: riyya6

is K really ready to become a father... this cought my attention... N personally my answer : HE IS NOT. no offense to anyone. Im one of KRIYA fans who wants to see KRIYA baby but looking at y'day episode K broke the chair in front of all... Even samar was there... Theres lots of scenario like this happens even b4 this ... K is good at heart but when he gets angry no one can control him, Yes P can at certain extent... but how long this is gonna continue... 😕 ...

K needs to control his anger... n P needs to put full stop in it... Not trying to calm him down everytime... Can anyone tell me when was the last time Pratz told K that he is wrong to get angry n being violent. A person can show his anger but K 's way is out of hand... In fact when K broke the chair P got shocked too... Imagine if P is pregnant... wont that effect the CHILD...
I have made / share my view on TN is not a suitable place for a child to GROW long way back ... even today i have to tell its not suitable... at all...
Will circumstances make P leave Tn & K n go away from TN once shes pregnant... it would be interesting to watch...

@ bold hmm yesterday prats told him noy to get angry
and in temple on remarriage day when krishna was about to hit kn she went and stopped him saying bhai ko marna is wrong🤔
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: telstra

@ bold hmm yesterday prats told him noy to get angry

and in temple on remarriage day when krishna was about to hit kn she went and stopped him saying bhai ko marna is wrong🤔

oppps...😊... in addition i think P really needs to do something to put full stop on all this.
Edited by riyya6 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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🤗meera di lubly post
hmm first last para about krishna the rest
hmm krishna was shown as a man having extreme anger and simply he cant control his anger but prats subsided his anger to a large extent and we can easily see a krishna who is more matured and calm person
hmm many of us not liking this cool krishna they want back the old dabang krishna as many thought he has became jodo ka ghulam typo so if he wil have more control over his left over anger obviously people will miss his anger
so what exatly we r looking at 😕and what will make us happy😛
secondly according to mine experience a child will calm the person to a major extentkrishna once a father will not be same angry brat 👍🏼
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: riyya6

is K really ready to become a father... this cought my attention... N personally my answer : HE IS NOT. no offense to anyone. Im one of KRIYA fans who wants to see KRIYA baby but looking at y'day episode K broke the chair in front of all... Even samar was there... Theres lots of scenario like this happens even b4 this ... K is good at heart but when he gets angry no one can control him, Yes P can at certain extent... but how long this is gonna continue... 😕 ...

K needs to control his anger... n P needs to put full stop in it... Not trying to calm him down everytime... Can anyone tell me when was the last time Pratz told K that he is wrong to get angry n being violent. A person can show his anger but K 's way is out of hand... In fact when K broke the chair P got shocked too... Imagine if P is pregnant... wont that effect the CHILD...
I have made / share my view on TN is not a suitable place for a child to GROW long way back ... even today i have to tell its not suitable... at all...
Will circumstances make P leave Tn & K n go away from TN once shes pregnant... it would be interesting to watch...


How do u tell who is ready to be a father? ADarsh n tam have all qualities of a good father but we have seen ADarsh failure as a father..Tam is too selfish to be a father IMO

Ppl do change when a child comes into the picture and P did say he controlled his anger when Chinki pleaded..

Edited by starlight123 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: starlight123


How do u tell who is reay to be a father? ADarsh n tam have all qualities of a good father but we have seen ADarsh failure as a father..ram is too selfish to be a father IMO

Ppl do change when a child comes into the picture and P did say he controlled his anger when Chinki pleaded..

high five said same 😆😉
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Brilliant post and long as usual love it!welll i think his anger was all over controlled we can see that after a leap he did,nt get angry as before bt now when baby track start kn always make mockery of him and pratz and now as he knows krish is the one so he did,nt miss any chance to taunt him so that had given us a pleasure of seeing our angry baba back lollzzz...in krishna maatter a proverb as nature cannot b changed at all it somewhere hidden in our self just sometimes when situation gets worst r out of our control we show that nature of our,s ...bt i agree a child change many things ina couple life so it,ll change krishna tooo and pratzz also there wid him to cool him at any cost by her childish acts if nit then she is enough smart to cool her angry hubby ...as a mature aulad i,ll say krishna except his anger is a mature aulad ...and komal is somehow going to b more mature ina future...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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krish ke bardasht se bahir ho gaya tha is liyeh usney aesa kiya wesey haar koe gussa ho sakta hai k uski bewi us kes saath ho aur uske apney ghar waley uska mazak karey jesey kn
lakin pratgya hamesha usey calm kar layti hai
aur jo tension the usko usney monday ki episode main pratgya ko hi shocked kar diya jaab ke pratgya kuch aur soch rahee the ke krish aesi koe baat hai jo bol nahee sakta aur baat kuch aur niklee usney pratgya se kaha ke woh apni zindagee us kee saath kharab na karey aur pratgya ko toh kris h se ziyada pyar hai aur usne usey hug kar liya ab tuesday ko dekhtey hain ke woh abb ghar waloo ke saath kesa bartaooo rakhta hai
wesey sajjan ka gha r main krish ke saath baith kar batwara karna tha lakin krish bbuhat angry tha is liyeh ab ager kuch aesa dikhey toh krish aur shakti donno present hooo
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Thank you for your posts😃. Let me add a little more to the mix to stir things up😉 and see if we can take this discussion up another notch, if you please.😉😛

There is big difference between the three Vs...VEXED, VENTING and VIOLENCE.

Every human being except the rare mahaan and saadhu gets angry about something at some point. The mahaans and saadhus may not lose their temper at the drop of a hat but when they do they lose it big time, as the saying goes "when the saadhu gets furious, even the forest can't handle it (burns down)". People either internalize their vexation, grumble for a while or they raise their voices to VENT their frustration and anger. Sometimes it ends up in a VERBAL SPARRING... a bit unpleasant but still they are safer ways of coping with it.

VENTING is a healthy way of expressing anger. In the privacy of their home/office, punching a pillow, letting out a primal scream (as K did at the bridge) are all effective ways to express the anger and getting the emotions out without aiming it at someone else. In fact it's highly recommended by mental health professionals as a safe way to express the building rage and take the steam out of it.

Whoever said BLINDED BY ANGER/RAGE was making a good point. Add D to Anger and it spells DANGER. This is the "why did kolaveri kolaveri di" phase😛. (KOLA-VERI literally translates to URGE TO KILL) When the anger gets out of control the person is literally blinded by the emotions and often out of control. VIOLENCE is the most dangerous way of expressing one's anger. We tell toddlers not to hit someone when they get angry. It's an attempt to nip the "acting out" in the bud and teaching them better ways of coping with the emotion, When left unchecked one can never be sure how far it could go and physical safety is an big issue as well.

Takurs never rile K when he goes off the deep end bec' on some level they realize it's more important to calm him down than rile him further and rightly so. Prats always tells K says "shaanth ho jao". K cannot always count on something external to calm him down...Prats or Chandu for instance cannot always be around him to cool his temper. He has to find ways to nip it on his own before it gets out of hand. People are not going to let him get away with violence every time esp. if he is in a big city for treatment and someone pisses him off😳.

K can be the golden hearted son and husband but how can he be sure he's not going to hurt anyone in a fit of rage? He could pose a physical danger to himself or some innocent bystander and if that happens to be Samar or his own little junior Prats it can affect them emotionally as well. He may not mean to, but he could still hurt someone ...those shards of glass from the table he flung across the room can be pretty dangerous.


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