be fair to krishna - Page 3

Originally posted by: ramanbabitha

I'm sorry, Sathya, did I condemn anybody in my posts... I fear, i didn't??? nor i took pot shots on anybod... i'm not judgmental too... i'm just saying, if we r not able to put ourselves in the place of P or Sunheri... then we shud not be criticizing their reactions to K...

Originally posted by: tanthya

I said a measure, Prags ...

There is a difference between loving a character and blindly loving n adoring it ...and yes .. There shud be an ability to differentiate between a crtcism and a pot shot..Not all criticism are potshots ..but when members begin to take the criticism or another differing viewpoint on a character as a mortal insult on themselves and react accordingly ..the very essence for which a forum i s created lost..

Do not ignore any blatant , deliberate provocative posts but at the same time do not consider those posts which do not agree with ur summation as a deliberate, blatant and provocative ..

Not at all..All it needs is an understanding of the simple fact that this is a fiction and the ppl whome u r condemning r real ..

Originally posted by: ramanbabitha

I agree... but then why we always wanted P alone to behave in a particular way... and just not enjoy the show or the fiction.

Originally posted by: tanthya

As I said, Babs.. Perception !! I had written somewhere y'day that Ppl are wired differently and hence will decipher the words differently and one shud always proceed carefully with phrasing of this words, one wrong punctuation can give a very erroneous meaning ...

By asking her, how would u feel if ur hubby brought in a girl ?? u r questioning her and not discussing the post ..


U don't owe ME any apology , Dear 😊

Originally posted by: PRAGMATIC

All people making posts here are real including me and it is both ways, I shouldn't be blamed at all as you are suggesting Tanths. I have faced the brunt of so many personal attacks and veiled sarcastic comments but I ignored. So detachment as you put it together in the previous post simply means quitting to me.

Originally posted by: ramanbabitha

Sathya... Pls refer this... this is what i wrote, i didn't asked cari personally... i just asked whomever supporting K [not AB] ... here it is for u again...


how u guys feel if ur own husbands abducted a girl n brought her home, u wud welcome him with aarthi????Just tell from ur heart...😲


How u thought i'm asking this only with Cari...???

I don't know, what i did, but anything tht affects our forum n its lovely members... I'm ready to give an Open opology too...
Here its for u, I'm sorry sathya..., if i did anything wrong...Cheers!!!! luvya all...

Originally posted by: tanthya

Hmm, As I said Prags .. words , the same words have different meaning to diff ppl ..

detachment for me meant separating ur emotions and discussing analytically, clinically while for u it meant quitting !!...

All ppl who make the posts are real but they r making posts on a fictional characters, the problems arise when real ppl take umbrage on a fictional character and directly /indirectly bash the member's personal beliefs, values , thought instead of restricting themselves to giving counter points to the points raised ...


Prags..In this forum everyone have at one time or the other faced number of attacks and veiled comments .. ... and of late the personal attacks have escalated and that needs to be toned down ...

Originally posted by: PRAGMATIC

Tanths 🤗

You know why I kept asking you again and again, You are one and only one person who understands correctly even a wrongly worded post so well. 😆

I intentionally dragged this conversation a bit long also fearing that I may piss you off but I had to take this chance, because all will read this and will learn a few things. - You have earned a loveable status not by luck or by your eloquence in writing but by the personality you reflected and patience with which you listens and answers everyone, your wealth of knowledge, your humor and ability to engage with every one and every point of view, makes you so desirable Tanthya. 😊

You are the best and the most respected. Please keep us on the right path and lift this forum once again. You can do it !!! 🤗

and your post are indeed a very good one Pragmatic...

Originally posted by: Atticus

Private party or is everyone welcome?
Look who's here Tanths, Paapu, and Prags. Did I miss someone?
What you people offering for refreshments ?