Originally posted by: carisma2
Yemi..
I feel compelled to add, apologies in advance. I wouldn't like to be considered a party pooper and yet at the same time I do not feel that I would like to have people pin their hopes on my return.
It's a good gesture to have a party and have fun - but in order to stick members together takes a special glue. It's about the need for being their for others rather than just to celebrate the show or it's artists - at the same time keeping the show and actors popularity up.
But the most important thing is to have that one to one care and love for all individual members and not only that belong within your own circle. hence I didn't belong to any particular group - I was here for everyone. It was about knowing the members and their likes and disklikes and about the individual care and time to give.
With each member I gave my heart and soul, and for the show and their artisits. It's important to have someone to be the pillar for all the members who come and go. I believed in specilist care rather than generlised. And no one was blind to this fact.
Yes the forum will remain without these members ... and yes it may not crumble either, and who knows it may even become stronger. So very truely said that no one person is important enough here to keep the show running. For many leavers this may be a phase but for me, my phase ended here. Hence I have left with a one way ticket no return.
I apologise to the sincere ones, whom I've upsetted with my decision to depart..
hence I came back to make this final post just to convey this message.
And for those very few who are secretly rejoicing.. I couldn't care less, because they never mattered.
Adios
Finale.