LOOK AT KRIYA'S MARRIAGE

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Posted: 14 years ago
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A recent article suggests Prats is Niwas bound this week. Latest promo shows Krishna vowing to work on winning Prats's love, faith and trust once again. Some things never change! He goes back to his old ways of getting her attention and she reacts as expected.

Early on, couples establish their roles. They learn to effectively push each other's button as they play the emotional games at times to gain the upper hand in their marriage. More common than you'd expect.

It is common knowledge that in order for one to be in a happy marriage one must first be a happy individual. A healthy order of caring begins with the self, then the couple, the family, the community, society and finally the world.

Here's a brief look at Krishna and Prats individually and as a couple to see what they bring to their marriage.

Krishna is a free spirit by nature. He takes things for granted and believes that his life is fine the way it is and it's best to mind his own business. Recently for a short stint there he was responsible about earning a living of his own. But he demolished his Dabha with his bare hands due to misunderstandings. Will he get back to work and earn his own keep?

He sees life as complete as long as Prats is in it. Left to his choice he wouldn't interfere with family nautanki at all. He accepts them for who they are and coexists with them.

From the get go it's been hard to say if Prats is a happy individual, satisfied with life. She hails from an educated family that's constantly pareshaan about life,,,over thinking things may has something to do with it. Since her entry into the Takur family she warmed up to Krishna over time after vowing to hate him forever. Krishna has repeatedly asked Prats to focus on them as a couple and ignore the family shenanighans. She enjoys a regular diet of giving baashans, pointing out right from wrong, standing against society's ills she sees at her sasural.

Prats has expected Krishna to grow and transform for the past year. Krishna has learned a few things along the way from her.

Prats knows Krishna is not one to concede defeat so easily and he is quite capable of dipping into the only bag of tricks he's ever known. So is it any surprise he goes on stage and makes a public declaration of love for Prats and tom-tom to the MMGJ crowd that all has not been well between them? Now she's going to forgive him after his prank, why not do it earlier? Oh well! That's Prats to take her time to act.

So here are a few questions to ponder'''''😕😲.🤔😍

Is Prats's focus on strengthening her marriage sufficient🤔?

Should Prats or Krishna get involved in other people's business when their marriage is on such shaky ground?

If Prats doesn't trust Krishna on what basis is her claim love him🤓? Trust is the basis for love.

What has Prats learned from Krishna in the past year of their marriage😲? (besides the Allahabadi dialect once n a while) He has a few appreciable traits too.

Is Krishna capable of figuring out his responsibilities without Prats's guidance?😕 The Dhaba was his idea.

What will "guarantee" Prats that Krishna is trustworthy again?🤔

Is it even possible for anyone to fully guarantee their behavior in their future situations when it's an unknown factor?

Will such a marriage survive long-term in real life?😲🤔

Do pose your questions about Kriya's marriage too. 👏

Mera 😃declares the discussions open🤗😛


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Posted: 14 years ago
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Merarai nice post. There are lot of things they both have to learn from each other. First thing i think krishna has to learn is to control his anger and what he tells in anger. he tells lot of rubbish things and do also which he regrets later. other thing he has to use his brain and think not by the influence of other. he should have a opinion of his own he should not change that for anyone else. i love krishna to be for what he is innocence,straight forward and his love for prats.
Prats on the other hand has to work on her marriage and open her mind and love for krishna she loves him fully she has to express it. instead of bashans she has to be more practical and make use more of her education practically and educate krishna which she has not done yet.that is too bad. She should not interfere in others matter so much. she should tell her opinion and leave it to them. too much involvement is not nice. i want her to talk clearly and state all the things causing problems to krishna when she has some. until now they don;t talk openly one of them walks away that doesn;t solve any problem. this much now more later.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: laks76

Merarai nice post. There are lot of things they both have to learn from each other. First thing i think krishna has to learn is to control his anger and what he tells in anger. he tells lot of rubbish things and do also which he regrets later. other thing he has to use his brain and think not by the influence of other. he should have a opinion of his own he should not change that for anyone else. i love krishna to be for what he is innocence,straight forward and his love for prats.

Prats on the other hand has to work on her marriage and open her mind and love for krishna she loves him fully she has to express it. instead of bashans she has to be more practical and make use more of her education practically and educate krishna which she has not done yet.that is too bad. She should not interfere in others matter so much. she should tell her opinion and leave it to them. too much involvement is not nice. i want her to talk clearly and state all the things causing problems to krishna when she has some. until now they don;t talk openly one of them walks away that doesn;t solve any problem. this much now more later.


Krishna always has been one to speak first and regret later in a fit of rage. Prats thinks too much and waits till the dam is about to burst.

In Friday's episode SS tells Krishna don't think too much, thinking is for cowards. Wonder what he'll have to say about plotters of sinister schemes.😕
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hi mera nice post. All questions are validated with full credability. A point that leaves me baffled, she looses trust in him, but yet claims to love him and to continue living in the same house but if tables turned then the opposite applies. In my opinion I would name this attention seeking to be blunt and honest.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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In my POV marriages has it own ups n downs... Be it Krishna or Pratigya they both need to work things together to make the r/ship stronger n long lasting... 😉

I find Krishna n Pratigya r/ship something unique, both are different but they try to work things out... Krishna needs to be more matured n not easily influence by others... While Pratigya needs not just giving speech but taking some action as well... N i feel Pratigya needs to communicate with KRISHNA more... At time Pratigya just gives in, or Krishna just gives in but this should not be the way, they should talk things out and share their opinion n then make the best decision... Eventhough Krishna is not educated it does not mean he has no brain and cant give opinion... N pratigya being an educated person, does not always be right in any scenario...So its 50 / 50 game here...

Though this AMMAJI track, what we can cleary see is that there is lack of trust in this couple... Mayb even it was from Krishna's part, but i think pratigya played some role as well... To make things work up, trust is a must in any kind of r/ship... its the fundamental of all r/ship...

And finally being romantic is a good thing but it does not guarantee that a r/ship will sustain... we can see KRISHNA is very romantic, any girl would love to have KRISHNA character as their husband... But when it came to trust what happen... Everything went haywire... This is what should not happen? Pratigya being romantic/ she does not show it openly but she loves her husband in her matured way... so both have different ways of expressing love...
Finally what i would like to higlight is that eventhough KRIYA is not perfect, we accept them as they are as a viewer and WE LOVE THEM AS A COUPLE>>>>> And in their journey to rebuild their r/ship, WE ARE ALWAYS WITH THEM...
KRIYA IS THE MOST ROCKING COUPLE>>>>>>> MKAP ROCKS>>>😊
Edited by riyya6 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: MERARAI


So here are a few questions to ponder'''''😕😲.🤔😍

Is Prats's focus on strengthening her marriage sufficient🤔?

Absolutely, Nothing else is on her mind, she wants to go back, but in a way that she explained to her father.


Should Prats or Krishna get involved in other people's business when their marriage is on such shaky ground?

OFC yes, especially, when either, sees one of their family member getting buried alive or something similar related to either's family and BTW their marriage is or never was on shaky grounds, but for the enemies around them.😡


If Prats doesn't trust Krishna on what basis is her claim love him🤓? Trust is the basis for love.

O she trusted him more then herself, that is why this beautiful love story exists; the KRIYA exists, and because he was always there for her till he divorced her, Isn't this enough reason to suspect him now or his immaturity?? Even now she loves him but wants him to learn, that relationships can not be terminated in the blink of an eye.

What has Prats learned from Krishna in the past year of their marriage😲? (besides the Allahabadi dialect once n a while) He has a few appreciable traits too.

They i will say both learned a lot from each other, they became a team, a team that averted major crisis that hunted them and their families working together, He proved time and again that he is different from the other Thakurs, He was amenable that is why she started to blindly trust him and love him until he threw her out saying she has no place in his house, in his life and in his heart, what a shocker of his personality trait that she saw lately, hence her current stance.


Is Krishna capable of figuring out his responsibilities without Prats's guidance?😕 The Dhaba was his idea.

Yes he is capable, but like every one else, he may need some honest advice at times, No harm or shame If he seeks advice from his wife. Every good husband does that,😉


What will "guarantee" Prats that Krishna is trustworthy again?🤔

Not much, she only expects him to show some Self Believe, and expects that he show some degree of confidence on her, that no matter what, she could never harm him or his family, rather then asking for forgiveness in a manner that he did the other day or trying to assure her that he won't do it again, can he really assure her??, he was far from convincing, it was a bit childish and ticked her off.


Is it even possible for anyone to fully guarantee their behavior in their future situations when it's an unknown factor?

Some personality traits and their respective behaviors are predictable and can reflect on what course of action they will take pending something unusual happens, The only unpredictable and spectacular factor here are the CVS, who always surprises us with unusual and unbelievable plots and scenarios, Like the new stage upcoming superstar / singer avatar of Krishna, and later on climbing over a TANKI 🤡 to mock a suicide attempt to further harass his mehraroo, did he leave any options for her? 😲


Will such a marriage survive long-term in real life?😲🤔

May be yes, in my view every marriage is like a roller coaster ride, a little up and a little down, swerving, rolling and even turning you upside down, some time cold some time warm. Just like our beloved Kriya's marriage.😆


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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: riyya6

In my POV marriages has it own ups n downs... Be it Krishna or Pratigya they both need to work things together to make the r/ship stronger n long lasting... 😉

I find Krishna n Pratigya r/ship something unique, both are different but they try to work things out... Krishna needs to be more matured n not easily influence by others... While Pratigya needs not just giving speech but taking some action as well... N i feel Pratigya needs to communicate with KRISHNA more... At time Pratigya just gives in, or Krishna just gives in but this should not be the way, they should talk things out and share their opinion n then make the best decision... Eventhough Krishna is not educated it does not mean he has no brain and cant give opinion... N pratigya being an educated person, does not always be right in any scenario...So its 50 / 50 game here...

Though this AMMAJI track, what we can cleary see is that there is lack of trust in this couple... Mayb even it was from Krishna's part, but i think pratigya played some role as well... To make things work up, trust is a must in any kind of r/ship... its the fundamental of all r/ship...

And finally being romantic is a good thing but it does not guarantee that a r/ship will sustain... we can see KRISHNA is very romantic, any girl would love to have KRISHNA character as their husband... But when it came to trust what happen... Everything went haywire... This is what should not happen? Pratigya being romantic/ she does not show it openly but she loves her husband in her matured way... so both have different ways of expressing love...
Finally what i would like to higlight is that eventhough KRIYA is not perfect, we accept them as they are as a viewer and WE LOVE THEM AS A COUPLE>>>>> And in their journey to rebuild their r/ship, WE ARE ALWAYS WITH THEM...
KRIYA IS THE MOST ROCKING COUPLE>>>>>>> MKAP ROCKS>>>😊


You raise an interesting angle in Kriya's marriage. Prats has an issue with Krishna's naivete in listening to his parents and being influenced by them. Does she have a problem with Krishna listening and being influenced by her? Based on what she told Takurain she likes the idea that he loves and listens to her. Prats's belief is she always is on the right side of what is right and wrong, she knows the difference and has all the answers. Krishna is far more practical, doesn't overthink things and likes to keep life simple. But for finding a way to earn his keep he is a simpleton and doesn't like making things too hard on himself. He likes to live and let live as long as it doesn't affect his and Prats's life directly.

Recently we saw Shamu who's been married 27 years tell her husband/wife should live together and resolve matters to be happy. But she overrode her father talking about putting her marriage through trials to test it. Life throws enough curve balls along the way, anyone wanting to test the marriage or put it through trials either doesn't trust in happy marriages, doesn't believe one can be happy without the trials or she's not sure she can believe in a happy marriage with someone like Krishna bec' it's not the "Ideal" one like her parents share. Or like some couples she prefers to spice it with some drama for her parents's marriage was just too dull for her taste. Why would anyone want to put their marriage through trials anyways?


Edited by MERARAI - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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marriage is about two persons being brought together-two persons with completely difft personality traits and background-pratigya and krishna need to acknowledge eachother's short commings and learn to compromise in other to have a strong marriage- there need to be some 'give & take' in their relationship in short.
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That raises another question. Are Krishna and Prats doing what's best for them individually and for each other so they grow together as a couple?

Krishna has learned a quite a few things about life from Prats. What can Prats learn from Krishna?
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gr8 Post Mera...my pov....

Is Prats's focus on strengthening her marriage sufficient🤔?Well she gets diverted quite often!!!!!!!

Should Prats or Krishna get involved in other people's business when their marriage is on such shaky ground? NOOPS especially in such a volatile house like the thakurs!

If Prats doesn't trust Krishna on what basis is her claim love him🤓? Trust is the basis for love...yep she doesnt trust him either!!!!!

What has Prats learned from Krishna in the past year of their marriage😲? (besides the Allahabadi dialect once n a while) He has a few appreciable traits too...agree absolutely👏

Is Krishna capable of figuring out his responsibilities without Prats's guidance?😕 The Dhaba was his idea...if he wants he can...he is not all that a Goof head like his bro!!!!!!!

What will "guarantee" Prats that Krishna is trustworthy again?🤔...wen he becomes a bigger puppy than he is !!!!

Is it even possible for anyone to fully guarantee their behavior in their future situations when it's an unknown factor?impossible!!!!!!!

Will such a marriage survive long-term in real life?😲🤔...no only in reel life!!!!

Do pose your questions about Kriya's marriage too. 👏...u said it all bossji👏

Mera 😃declares the discussions open🤗😛


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