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Originally posted by: MERARAI

Prats's expectations of Krishna has led to disappointments. Love is acceptance on all levels.

I think K and P both are immature for that kind of love yet😕...and I dont think we would have liked it if they were shown to have that much maturity in their love😊

Originally posted by: MERARAI

Prats's expectations of Krishna has led to disappointments. Love is acceptance on all levels.

Originally posted by: Binny1247

That is going to take time... but then love is also striving to maintain each others trust.. she is not disappointed that he could not get a job.. but because he chose to lie repeatedly when she trusted him blindly !!

Problem with the way she has dealt with Krishna about the job situation......it's like sending a blind man to the mall and asking him to buy an red outfit without help from anyone.

Krishna has repeatedly said he is unpud and finding a kanooni job isn't easy, he expressed his frustrations. But all she did was get him out of bed and literally shoved him out the door with no directions or guidance. Was she really listening to his frustrations and confusion about how to get it done? I say NO WAY SIREEE!

She could have given him some suggestions of what constitutes kanooni jobs or even taught him basics so he could read enough to look for one. She had stipulations ......... that his father's business was gair kanooni and therefore not acceptable.

For a man who has never felt the need or want to work in life but just loves to live like an idle king she did little to motivate or guide him to find that job. Just sending him out with words like ............help your family, earn a living only adds to his stress level making him want to run away from it than go towards it and give it a try.

Originally posted by: a_uma

Well... at some level I agree with Prats... afterall a man's main job is to earn and provide for his family .... cannot fault her for having such expectation from K.....

but in the current situation, K is facing huge odds and there is no one to guide him...

being educated P should have taken this into account before going into her Masterni mode....😡

( afterall she was very understanding and sympathetic and forgiving to her own maika members....😡 )

100 % agree with you........ though krishna.. and work.. we are expecting too much here😆

Originally posted by: MERARAI

Problem with the way she has dealt with Krishna about the job situation......it's like sending a blind man to the mall and asking him to buy an red outfit without help from anyone.

Krishna has repeatedly said he is unpud and finding a kanooni job isn't easy, he expressed his frustrations. But all she did was get him out of bed and literally shoved him out the door with no directions or guidance. Was she really listening to his frustrations and confusion about how to get it done? I say NO WAY SIREEE!

She could have given him some suggestions of what constitutes kanooni jobs or even taught him basics so he could read enough to look for one. She had stipulations ......... that his father's business was gair kanooni and therefore not acceptable.

For a man who has never felt the need or want to work in life but just loves to live like an idle king she did little to motivate or guide him to find that job. Just sending him out with words like ............help your family, earn a living only adds to his stress level making him want to run away from it than go towards it and give it a try.

Originally posted by: carisma2

100 % agree with you........ though krishna.. and work.. we are expecting too much here😆

On a serious note # P wrote the article on herself.... educated women not working after marriage.

Did she take into account her mother Naina.. Sax's puppet and Arushi who is free and single.. she can work outdoors but has taken the choice of working from home. .... Honestly....

Originally posted by: carisma2

Agree with you Mera..Not just in the case of a simple minded Baba - but all adults like to be praised and encouraged to do well.. and show they are contributing and making postive progress.. Manager employee reviews reflect that.. if you are shown and guided .. you will improve. But if you are just told to leave this, do that etc... your stregnths weaknesses are not pointed out .. then one can never change.

pratigya needs to manage baba not just teach and preach.

As much as Prats as a woman would not want a man to trample on her emotions, so would a man not want and neither should his woman step on his fragile ego. When it comes to it, men need to be praised for the littlest of efforts for there is always a little boy in them that thrives and grows on that praise. The saying "behind every successful man is a woman" reflects it.

Originally posted by: a_uma

Your post just rang a bell in my head....😆😆😆

Does Prats article mean that only educated women should be working out of the house ???

What about the millions who are uneducated ??? they should be tied down within the four walls...???

Wonder what Prats (and CVs) have to say to the thousands of uneducated unskilled women who do hard manual labour and earn for their families..... farm labourers, construction site labourers, housemaids, etc....

Such women do not even register on the CVs...Their primary concern is just showing what educated women can achieve...The article should have reflected on people like Kesar who are in abusive relationships but being uneducated are unable to earn money conventionally but have so many hidden skills which can be used as ways to break the shackle...

The show should be for womenhood and not put conditions on what type of women should work and not work...

Originally posted by: a_uma

Your post just rang a bell in my head....😆😆😆

Does Prats article mean that only educated women should be working out of the house ???

What about the millions who are uneducated ??? they should be tied down within the four walls...???

Wonder what Prats (and CVs) have to say to the thousands of uneducated unskilled women who do hard manual labour and earn for their families..... farm labourers, construction site labourers, housemaids, etc....

Yes a very new true angle you have added to the quation. MKAP is not Krishna verses Pratz and Thaks verses Sax.. Not even about right and wrong it is all about Educated verses the non educated. Such blind predjudice.

Originally posted by: a_uma

Your post just rang a bell in my head....😆😆😆

Does Prats article mean that only educated women should be working out of the house ???

What about the millions who are uneducated ??? they should be tied down within the four walls...???

Wonder what Prats (and CVs) have to say to the thousands of uneducated unskilled women who do hard manual labour and earn for their families..... farm labourers, construction site labourers, housemaids, etc....

That statement that educated people are shackled at their homes was a hoity-toity comment. It goes to infer that somehow those who are educated alone have something to contribute and not the rest. In this day and economy there are many women, esp. in IT and other service industries who do their work out of their homes and get a paycheck every month. One can feel shackled whether at home or at work. It's all in the perception.

There are many unpud people who contribute more in service with their work. The lives of the educated folks is a breeze bec' of people like them. Every job and every person's service has a purpose and they are interlinked and interdependent. Some very successful people will say chalking success in life to book knowledge is a bit overrated.

I also know of a few house husbands in my neck of the woods who are happy doing their chores while their hot shot legal eagle wives bring in the bucks.