Was it worth it Krishna? - Page 2

Hello Elle,

Originally posted by: elle45

LOL I'm afraid coz in this forums everyone takes out their knives and guns the second anything is said against Kriya as a couple.

I know that jab tak Prats is with Krishna he will fight against everything. But realistically thinking, I dont think I would have the courage to enter into such a marriage, In real life, will you marry an unpud n who depends on his family for everything, who ill treats the bahus...n they call it a tradition....??????will u? I wanna ask this same Q to Pratigya too... I feel bad for p, bcos she is an educated, even if she don't get such a love from her husband, atleast she will hv a respectful living...what say???? where I know that apart from the other persons love, only misery awaits me. Love's not sufficient to live life. You need other support systems as well. Just how long can Kriya survive on this love alone? I think there might come a day when they say and really mean it, that why did they get married?

LOL ... I may be wrong, coz I havent experienced all this yet. But this is only what I've observed watching other couples around me.

Kriya is a very rare couple ,who make history...they r such a couple we all treasure elle.... we love them for wht they r....😳
😉

Originally posted by: yemi3006

it was an arranged marriage that had its problems right from the start becoz the man obviously wanted someone else (according to what he now tells his children ) but his sisters convinced him to go with this girl that they could "mold' to fit thier family values since they would be livng as an extended family......... the lady being very educated herself and coming from a family where her parents, even though strict were very loving, considered her hubby as a pati.... whereas him & his family expected her to treat him as a pati parmeshwar...... the chldren have all grown up, graduated univ. and moved on so now its just the two of them pretty much living as room mates in their house......... quite sad & unfortunate amd makes for an very uncomfortable & awkward atmosphere when the kids visit their parents

That is so sad.... the Poor Aunty. May God never give anyone such a fate. Such kind of stories make me scared for my future, 😕 I guess you just have to be very sure of the person you marry.

Originally posted by: anusarkar

Hello Elle,

Love is very powerful and it works wonders in different ways to different ppl. Although I am a very strong person inside and out and many ppl have the impression that I am very critical about the social issues, you would be surprised to know that I fell for my husband who is not even an indian. He is a caucasian man and I deeply love him. We will be completing 14 years of marraige and we have 2 adorable boys. But, both our parents were very open and honest about their fears with the marraige. There was the fear of two different cultures mingling together and whether we would be able to adjust or not. But every relationship has a risk. We are lucky to have supportive parents. Both my in-laws are wonderful to me and have accepted me as their daughter and my parents love Jeff.

I would be wrong to say that our marraige is perfect. No marraige is. One has to work towards a marraige. We have our fights and we solve them. Its easier when you do not have extended family inferfering. My in-laws live in Chicago and my dad lives 6 months with me and the other 6 months with my sis. Nobody interferes in anyone's business. Well , exception are our children . The grandparents have all the liberty to give suggestions, but we as a couple make the final decision. Like for example my MIL wanted both my boys to learn piano and so they learn piano and on the other hand my dad wanted my son to play tennis ,so he has been playing tennis. My point is there has to be boundaries. Your parents should be your pillar ,they should be your rock . But its your life afterall . We are our parent's pride and glory and not a property .

I wanted to share my story with you because I consider love has its known language and it is not binded by race ,color creed or languge.

Coming to kriya , they are standing strong against all odds and they will succeed. A marraige who has overcome so many problems so early is bound to stay strong and standing. In real life if I were in this position I would move out of the extended family and live alone with my husband. Thakur Niwas is not a sensible or even a civilized place for a human being. To answer your question ,I would say "Yes it was worth it for krishna to marry Prats". Love is all about going against all odds and trusting and supporting eachother. Although I do not like the angry ( I slowly see that calmness in him though) Krishna who sometimes mishandles Prats, his unconditional love is what I like about him. Prats love is more subdued but she loves him immensly.

Thanks

Anu

What an amazing family Anu, where everyone loves each other and is supportive of each other. Congrats to you and Jeff Bhai 😆 for having such a lovely relationship. Thanks for sharing your story with me, it will really give me guidance for the future, on how to maintain good relations with everyone. 😊

i accualy agree wiv

All I can to that is....Pyar diwana hota hai

Love is blind, deaf, and dumb....that the reason Krishna is still able to live with Pratz after all the crap that he is constantly going through

Originally posted by: mahi0809

All I can to that is....Pyar diwana hota hai

Love is blind, deaf, and dumb....that the reason Krishna is still able to live with Pratz after all the crap that he is constantly going through

LIFE is not easy as K thinks.... He got a best gift in his life thru his wife... P is the most lovable gift for K n he is gifted with her by God, bcos God knows K is a good hearted man n he deserves BEST in everything. He is become successful man with the help of his wife.😳😳😳😳😳 they r made for each other....😳😳😳😳😉

P is a beautiful person with pure heart and no one except her will be the perfect match for K😳😳🤗. Yeah life is not an easy ride that too with completely a different partner. But when you both love unconditionally the ride will be most interesting and beautiful experience. As Anu said, you need to work out ....thats what both are doing i suppose. It will be a treat to watch when both of them start their life independently .

I love KriYa and ArJa😳. Both are made for each other🤗.

What i feel is dat K does his duties all well...n evn P!!

Originally posted by: elle45

Now please don't get me wrong, I love Kriya and I'm happy they're together. But the last few episodes made me wonder, whether it was worth it? Now, Pratigya married for revenge, and so, I guess the question doesn't really fit for her. But I do think about Krishna. Was it worth it to get married to Pratigya?

He went against the family. He's been continuously taunted by his family regarding different matters relating to his wife. And worst of all, now his father has labelled him as "Krishna Pratigya Singh", his mother curses the day he was born, his brother was ready to kill him once. He's been called Joru ka Ghulam, a shame on the Thakurs, impotent and what not.

He recieved no respect from his in-laws, the Saxenas, till recently. They never hesitated to degrade him in public or in private. Infact, multiple times, his own wife, called the police to his house, sent his mother and brother to jail etc.

So, was it worth it for Krishna? To lose your family who you lived all your life with, the respect they have for you, your peace of mind, your lifestyle..... just for one girl?

Note: Again I'm saying I love Kriya, and please dont start bashing me for trying to call their relationship wrong. Neither do I support the Thakurs. This is just for discussion purpose on whether such a marriage is a good idea? 😊

I love kriya aswell,