KRISHNA'S FRAYING RELATIONSHIPS - Page 2

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Posted: 14 years ago
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@shy-okk............i missunderstood it.............srry........😊
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Does the character of Pratigya has an underlying Electra Complex or father fixation?
as per my understanding of P' psyche , she was actually hoping for an idealistic man as her life partner but was unfulfilled. Hence the constant validation that she seeks from Prof. for every little decision she has to take. ...Somewhere in the deepest recess of her heart, K is not what she hoped for as a husband. he is very good, she loves him but he is not she had dreamt for.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Mera..u have told Pratigya all that her mother shud have told her. :-)
Its nice to see KRishna acting indifferent to Pratigya for her wrong priorities. she should come out of this papa syndrome.

Kesar mumbcling away with excuses..she tirelessly goes silent yet again after one more atoricity added to the existing long list. We still hoping that she wud wake up is a waste.

let this bigamy track get over..let us see the the built up drift between Kriya n the eventual patch up. Just hope the CVs keep this logical n realistic.



Edited by HamiSky - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Mera,
Good that you have highlighted P's faults...but I have to say Krishna too deserve some criticisms as well....if he had not been such a softie, things would not get to the point it has. He deserves some of the words thrown his way by his parents...in his bid for love, he threw everyone aside...
Now I'm afraid, Kriya are heading for a meltdown....no way of looking at it. The thing is they have ben heading this way for along time...each time they have a problem, they gloss it over, exchange some kisses and hey presto things are rosy again....too much has been swept under the carpet, it is now bulging out.....everyone else is just the 'tip' that is pushing them to the edge....I will be really disappointed, not to say disgusted, if Cvs once again skirt this issue....
...Kriya need to grow and develop beyond the 'crush' stage they seem to be perpetually stuck in. They now need to make this a real marriage, both equal all the way, show they are working on their marriage......
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Mera! Lovely lovely post darling!🤗
You lovely writers are all on top form at the moment! What a joy for us mere mortals!👏
All the conrtributors on this postwa have made magnificent points!👍🏼
K and P need to take stock and reflect...... P needs to prioritise the man with she has now accepted as the one with whom she wishes to spend her life...
Her stubborn defence of Argh!oosiya is unreal and I detest it
I'm all for her sticking Saktiya in the slammer as long as she sees to it that the other willing participant in this bigamy is also punished - better not be any hint of nepotism here, though I already suspect I'm on to a loser there.....
K is a darling and this is a tough time for him right now, but being a man means he may not say it out loud what he is really feeling.
P is a woman and should read between the lines and take her bloody head out of the sky for a change and see what is happening at ground zero.
Personally nothing would please me more, indeed it would be icing for me to see Aruthi behind bars.....Argh!oosi should not be let off or forgiven for what she has done, certainly not in this life anyway.....
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Posted: 14 years ago
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GR8 post Mera.... loved yr detailed analysis and agree with all your points... (infact I'm going back and reading it all over again....)
MMG... great summary of all the posts....
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: ramanbabitha

OK, let me tell u guys One thing.... Pratigya was like this in her intro also... in promo too..tht she answered for some girl...tht her nam eis this, n she is doing this n all.... there r lots of incidents all thru out....
like :
1.she went n stopped SS from beating her MIL..even her own children was least to bother...don't say they've been brought up seeing all those things.
2. Pratigya has got tht in her..tht she cannot just stand which is not RIGHT.
3. she was the one who broughtout KN's child killings n he wants to do again the obortion.tht time everybody was happy n praised her like anything.
4. amma yest epi asked "anytime P was like tht A...sitting with the family session" - Iam asking one Q - Has she anytime spoke tht sweetly to P...except Kesar, GD n K ofcourse.
5. they do all stupidity n wrong doings , but want Respect... what is this...They r so cruel - but never ever has she complained to k abt tht..NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
6.Instead she asked K to be with the family in their good deeds[haven thing]
7. sometime ago...whn everybody taunted K for not goin for work n get a earning...he never bothered...thn why he bother this ...he knows what all happiness she gave him, n giving him...even though he behaves a child many a times...n doesn't even think abt goin for work...But P was happy, n understand him

8.Ok, why he always runs off, whn there is an argument...kucho bolbo guys...

9. PRATIGYA - PURE N SENSITIVE. u GUYS R TELLING THT SHE IS TAKING ADVANTAGE OF KRISHNA...BUT I SAY THT SHE HAS THT CONFIDENCE IN HIM,THT HE'LL ALWAYS BE WITH HER IN HER PATH OF RIGHTEOUSNESS.LET HIM MAKE HER UNDERSTAND HOW HE FEELS WHN SOMETHING GOES WRONG IN HER DOING THEM ALL....

I FEEL REALLY BAD FOR BOTH OF THEM...THEY R THE ONLY GOOD N CUTE SOULS IN THE WHOLE LOTS OF CHARCTERS IN "PRATIGYA"


Iam a big fan of K, yest I cried for him,n was looking for Prats...whn she will come n tk him away from tht cruel family... But here i wanna tell u guys, Prats was very wrong Yest... she could've asked him... why he is so calm n worried.... even iam depressed to see them like this...
I WANT THEM TO HAVE A HEART TO HEART TALK.

She supported her sasural too many a times...n being a good bahu...she was a good bahu for ppl who r actually good n see the goodness in her...

i agree wid u👏 and just hope that there should be no drift bt kriya they should make pratigya to realize krishna,s pain then everthing if not so something will going to b fine i was too very upset😭 after watching yesterday episode i really love both of them❤️and last thanks mera for the wounderful post👏
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Mera..

I will completely ok with this Arushi track if Cvs skilfully n interstingly bring in Kriya drift..workover on it n patch up!

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Thanks posterwas!🤗

Glad to see a good discussion going on while I was getting my zzzzzzzzzs

Sometimes, correction, make it most of the time Prats is walking around like she is savior of the world. Consider this. For a girl who talks izzat and samaan why does she tolerate Krishna not earning a living? She raised it once in anger and he raised his hand at her. He threatened her physically though he didn't strike her bec' he was equally threatened by the idea of working for a living. Later that night when Krishna said she had crossed all limits, she reacted in surprise. He turns around and uses his hurt to push back and make her feel guilty for even suggesting he go to work. Did Prats stand her ground? NOPE! She backtracked and said you misunderstood me, I didn't mean it that way, it just came out. Beta, the truth always slips out without your consent at times. As a sachchai ka saat dene wali you should know that by now if nothing else.

I am reminded of what SCAM told Prats at the cafe when she questioned his reasons for playing his game. He proudly announced he was playing mind games with her with the intention to break the blind trust her family has in her. We know SCAMIA (SCAM+ArusIA) didn't get past the chai talk. What was the reason for his wanting to break their trust in her?

They are both playing a game of avoidance with each other. Krishna was raised like a prince in his household and doesn't see the need to change the equation when he can continue to coast along by riding on his father's coattails. Prats who is full of speeches for others backs off when it comes to Krishna earning a living.

Remember the time she wanted to check on parents after the engagement fiasco? She smooth talked him with a guzarish to visit maike and Krishna fell for it. She waited for days for all the rasams to finish before she goes to visit maike this time, why the delay? In the meantime Shamu had a health scare, she didn't bother to call them once to enquire.

Prats is clearing doing the avoidance dance with Krishna and he is a stellar partner in that dance. She doesn't make demands of Krishna bec' on some level she doesn't want him to make demands on her. She doesn't ask him to make a living and he doesn't ask her to quit going to maike and fixing women's issues.. In the early months and years of marriage couples come to an unspoken understanding of the rules of their relationship. They dance to that tune often until one of them decides he or she has had their feet stepped on once to often and it hurts and trips them up, so they change the dance just a tad. The other partner is forced to adjust to this new step in the dance.

So, if Krishna wants to see a shift in his marriage and can't take things lying down anymore, it;s time for him to change a step or two and remind Prats she is his partner and for the dance to go on they should both adjust their steps without breaking the rhythm of the dance in the process. It's about time Krishna says enough is enough. If she tantrums or gives him attitude let him take it in stride and voluntarily give up his marital bed till she comes to her senses. He lived without her touch for six months so no biggie.....he has to decide what matters to him most now.

I refuse to accept Prats loves him in the real sense just yet. She doesn't know what love is esp. in a marriage. A woman in love will not sideline, watch her husband take insults from his family and her own. Where is her aatma samaan now? Taken a vacation? She albeit nicely tells Baba not to come to maike instead of telling maike to respect her husband or she has no place in their lives. She embarrasses her husband for a two-timing SCAMmer in a public place. She ignores his pleas for attention time and again. Most men would have found comfort in the arms of another by now just wanting to have someone willing to listen to his woeful stories. But Krishna has been patient bec' he loves her and she only uses that to her advantage. She takes him for granted and excepts him to prove his love. When is she going to prove her declaration of "hum tumse bahut bahut bahut bahut pyar karthe hain" for a change?


Edited by MERARAI - 14 years ago

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