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Posted: 14 years ago
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Arushi was not in love with Aman for sure ! Looking at the rush in which she got married to Shakti
it is clear that she was in love with the idea of getting married no matter who the groom was !
Now if Shakti wants to consummate their relationship and she refuses she won't be justified at all
coz owing to past experiences she knew Shakti's intentions quite well !
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: elle45

Ever since Arushi has gotten married to KN, she has been completely focused on driving Prats mad. Never once has she thought about Aman. She doesn't seem to be pining away for him. So was it LOVE? Did she actually LOVE Aman? And did she think he loved her back?

Did she think for a minute that if Aman loved her, and he wasn't married, then why didn't he stay back when the IG walked out? Why did he leave in a second without even a word of apology to her and why didn't he promise her that he would come back for her because he loved her? Instead of continually blaming Prats for dissolving her marriage, Arushi should be going over these facts. If the man got ready to leave her stranded at the mandap... what would he be like in the future?
As for Arushi herself, shouldn't she have been thinking about Aman since she got married to KN? HOW could she agree to marry one person while in love with the other? That too, while in her eyes, Aman was pure and honest? Why hasn't she thought of calling him up and asking him why left her stranded?
It all seems so wrong.... it would have seemed more realistic if Arushi was shown thinking about good times with Aman, trying to get him back, shedding some tears like any normal person would do.



Elle

Arusia wouldn't know LOVE if it came and bit her on the face. She loves the idea of being in love. She doesn't understand what love is. She forgot the man who promised to keep her happy all her life left her stranded at the mandap. Yet she is jealous of the man who is capable of loving her sister so deeply that she attacked him and his love for Prats calling him names like unpud and one who mooches off his family.

Neither does she make a living so she is mooching off her family too. She doesn't love herself so she is incapable of loving another be it family or a stranger. If she could turn against the sister she claims to have loved all her life and whom she couldn't shop without input from for a measly duppatta can you really trust her to live in a loving relationship for life especially if she has challenges along the way? She needs help big time.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Nothing else is realistic so why would this be any different?

Arushi loves herself more than anything, and looks after number one. Also, when she fancied herself in love with that doctor and that was another thing was just left there and never mentioned again. No one with a good heart would do what she's doing to their loved ones.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Elle you've valids points here.
Aarushi was not in love with Aman. She was in love with the idea of marriage and being in a relationship. The guy in question being an educated, well mannered and a lawyer to boost was the cherry on the cake. She was flattered by all the attention he was showering on her.
Aarushi is an immature teenager. Those people have a tendancy of thinking that all their problems are the worst kind so they end up being self centered genuinely thinking that all around them don't know what they're going through. They also have a tendancy of acting without thinking first. That's exactly what aarushi has done and as expected is failing to see what her decision entails yet.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Elle, you pose very sane and logical questions.
But the thing is, you're expecting too much from Arushiya...she is neither sane nor logical...so put it all aside and watch the madness....😃😃
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: elle45

Did she think for a minute that if Aman loved her, and he wasn't married, then why didn't he stay back when the IG walked out? Why did he leave in a second without even a word of apology to her and why didn't he promise her that he would come back for her because he loved her? Instead of continually blaming Prats for dissolving her marriage, Arushi should be going over these facts. If the man got ready to leave her stranded at the mandap... what would he be like in the future?
As for Arushi herself, shouldn't she have been thinking about Aman since she got married to KN? HOW could she agree to marry one person while in love with the other? That too, while in her eyes, Aman was pure and honest? Why hasn't she thought of calling him up and asking him why left her stranded?

Forest Gump said it best, "Stupid is as stupid does." 🤣
Another thing I have not understood is that KriYa was hell bent on stopping Arushi from marrying a married man yet she turns around and does it anyway - from one married man to another. Sheesh!!!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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actually she has become very frustrated she just wants to get married doesnt matter to whom. She would have agreed to marry SS IF HE WOULD HAVE PROPOSED HER
Edited by anonymous4444 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: shyme

Arushi was not in love with Aman for sure ! Looking at the rush in which she got married to Shakti
it is clear that she was in love with the idea of getting married no matter who the groom was !
Now if Shakti wants to consummate their relationship and she refuses she won't be justified at all
coz owing to past experiences she knew Shakti's intentions quite well !

Well, she knew that was the ONLY reason Shakti married her, it's not like he cares for her. Shakti has every right of demanding this from her.... and she knows she has no vaild reason by which to refuse him. 🤢
I don't get it, what was the purpose of the 24 hr chastity period for Shakti? No one did anything in these 24 hrs to have the marriage dissolved 😕
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: MERARAI



Elle

Arusia wouldn't know LOVE if it came and bit her on the face. She loves the idea of being in love. She doesn't understand what love is. She forgot the man who promised to keep her happy all her life left her stranded at the mandap. Yet she is jealous of the man who is capable of loving her sister so deeply that she attacked him and his love for Prats calling him names like unpud and one who mooches off his family.

Neither does she make a living so she is mooching off her family too. She doesn't love herself so she is incapable of loving another be it family or a stranger. If she could turn against the sister she claims to have loved all her life and whom she couldn't shop without input from for a measly duppatta can you really trust her to live in a loving relationship for life especially if she has challenges along the way? She needs help big time.

You're right Mera, I never thought about that.... Arushi is also not working, but somehow it becomes different in our culture for men and women right? Men are ALWAYS expected to work, women have some concession.
But she's not exactly very superior education wise either is she? I think, maybe once they said Krishna attended some primary classes? And Arushi also I think just has a high-school degree, no other qualification after that. How can she consider herself highly educated? With her own low level of education, she has no right to call Krishna Unpad. 😡
I agree with Aeryn, Arushi is behaving just like an immature teenager, and she made a rash decision. She should start regretting it very soon now... Infact, today she seemed to be regretting her hasty decision.
Edited by elle45 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Seetal

Forest Gump said it best, "Stupid is as stupid does." 🤣
Another thing I have not understood is that KriYa was hell bent on stopping Arushi from marrying a married man yet she turns around and does it anyway - from one married man to another. Sheesh!!!

Exactly, she did just wanted they wanted to prevent her from. 😆
Makes me wonder, how come Krishna objected to Aman getting married twice but doesn't object to Shakti getting married twice?
If he thinks Shakti has a valid reason, as he needs to give SS a pota 😆, maybe Aman was remarrying for the same reason, to give IG a pota 😆

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