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Posted: 14 years ago
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sorry, i completely disagree with u dear,

pratigya loves krishna with her heart , soul and her body...............exactly in the same order..........

she started to see him in a different light at the adda, she was fasinated by him for the first time then.......but she just couldn't forget what he did to her, so she tried to understand him better and give herself time and requested for a bond of friendship then, but her stupid father almost ruined their bond by forcing her not to divulge the kidnap by angad incident, she was worried how he would react but when she knew the truth has to come out she chose to say to him so that he understands her and don't get angry with her or worse suspect her............u don't think so much about the consequences if u r merely attached to a person physically............

but as fate would have it krishna learned about the kidnap incident the worst possible way, and she was concerned about his state of mind.............and instead of turning back and go with her family when she knew the path in front of her is full of thorns she chose to go forward and she voiced what she wanted ' that she has to tread this long path alone, no need of her family now' ...........its her and krishna now...........no third person is needed...............

when she was thrown out of the house brutally covered in ashes he brought her inside the house and declared in front of his family that he will do the needful as she is his wife...........and she was astounded by his love and support............she gave her heart to him at that moment and she let him wash away the dirt on her face and was in truth washing away her doubts, a nagging question in her mind 'is he my destiny' and she emerged pure at heart and walked up to him and crumpled at his feet .............

when she saw him gutted she couldn't take it and she revealed to him why she married him(though krishna was not listening) and was shocked to hear that he doubted her purity.........again she understood him as he made himself very clear that he wanted to believe she is pure but knowing angad who was a kaneena he just can't bring himself to believe it no matter how much he tried.............she didn't ate the whole day when he went out of the house wandering the streets of alahabad and she knew she has surrendered her soul to him when she had a dream of him during dawn..............in the dream she never saw her getting physical with him but she was like a thirsty soul finally reaching its destination.............she defied all the odds to go in search of him, she didn't care whether she died or not when the snake bit her, she was more concerned about his life , was pleading to him to come home..............

she silently endured all his taunts and misbehavior as we saw and even ate chilli rice, she took vrata for him, and atlast when she knew what she should do from kesar she decided to give herself to him..............but when he rejected her, she just didn't grovel at his feet to accept him, but she clearly told him what she thought of those men who thought of women as an unwrapped gift........or envelope.........if she was desperate for physical intimacy why would she walk away at that night...............and she stopped only when he said he would be there for her, she has to stay for him..............and we all know she gave herself to him................☺️

she never let him touch her when he was behaving disgustedly that night when he ignored her whole day and tried to have her at night..................if it was all about physical attraction she wouldn't have minded..........would she? and also if she would have agreed what would it mean? that she loves him immensely-----sorry but that's not love------she won't let him step over her self respect in the name of love...........and never did pratigya had stepped over his self respect after she fell in love with him...............

pratigya and krishna love each other with all their being ...................don't mock their love..........their' love is as real and as pure love could get.........................😊

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: dhakarn

sorry, i completely disagree with u dear,

pratigya loves krishna with her heart , soul and her body...............exactly in the same order..........

she started to see him in a different light at the adda, she was fasinated by him for the first time then.......but she just couldn't forget what he did to her, so she tried to understand him better and give herself time and requested for a bond of friendship then, but her stupid father almost ruined their bond by forcing her not to divulge the kidnap by angad incident, she was worried how he would react but when she knew the truth has to come out she chose to say to him so that he understands her and don't get angry with her or worse suspect her............u don't think so much about the consequences if u r merely attached to a person physically............

but as fate would have it krishna learned about the kidnap incident the worst possible way, and she was concerned about his state of mind.............and instead of turning back and go with her family when she knew the path in front of her is full of thorns she chose to go forward and she voiced what she wanted ' that she has to tread this long path alone, no need of her family now' ...........its her and krishna now...........no third person is needed...............

when she was thrown out of the house brutally covered in ashes he brought her inside the house and declared in front of his family that he will do the needful as she is his wife...........and she was astounded by his love and support............she gave her heart to him at that moment and she let him wash away the dirt on her face and was in truth washing away her doubts, a nagging question in her mind 'is he my destiny' and she emerged pure at heart and walked up to him and crumpled at his feet .............

when she saw him gutted she couldn't take it and she revealed to him why she married him(though krishna was not listening) and was shocked to hear that he doubted her purity.........again she understood him as he made himself very clear that he wanted to believe she is pure but knowing angad who was a kaneena he just can't bring himself to believe it no matter how much he tried.............she didn't ate the whole day when he went out of the house wandering the streets of alahabad and she knew she has surrendered her soul to him when she had a dream of him during dawn..............in the dream she never saw her getting physical with him but she was like a thirsty soul finally reaching its destination.............she defied all the odds to go in search of him, she didn't care whether she died or not when the snake bit her, she was more concerned about his life , was pleading to him to come home..............

she silently endured all his taunts and misbehavior as we saw and even ate chilli rice, she took vrata for him, and atlast when she knew what she should do from kesar she decided to give herself to him..............but when he rejected her, she just didn't grovel at his feet to accept him, but she clearly told him what she thought of those men who thought of women as an unwrapped gift........or envelope.........if she was desperate for physical intimacy why would she walk away at that night...............and she stopped only when he said he would be there for her, she has to stay for him..............and we all know she gave herself to him................☺️

she never let him touch her when he was behaving disgustedly that night when he ignored her whole day and tried to have her at night..................if it was all about physical attraction she wouldn't have minded..........would she? and also if she would have agreed what would it mean? that she loves him immensely-----sorry but that's not love------she won't let him step over her self respect in the name of love...........and never did pratigya had stepped over his self respect after she fell in love with him...............

pratigya and krishna love each other with all their being ...................don't mock their love..........their' love is as real and as pure love could get.........................😊

👏👏👏👏👏👏⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ 100 % agree with you very well written they both love eachother other name of love is patience and we have seen pratigyas patience whenever krishna is angry .marriage doenot mean accept a person with positives only noooooooooo but to accept a person with both negative and positive in pratigyas case she loves him soo much and her negative is she did not stand for her man infront of her family and in case of krishna his anger is his negative .
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Posted: 14 years ago
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sorry, i completely disagree with u dear,

pratigya loves krishna with her heart , soul and her body...............exactly in the same order..........

she started to see him in a different light at the adda, she was fasinated by him for the first time then.......but she just couldn't forget what he did to her, so she tried to understand him better and give herself time and requested for a bond of friendship then, but her stupid father almost ruined their bond by forcing her not to divulge the kidnap by angad incident, she was worried how he would react but when she knew the truth has to come out she chose to say to him so that he understands her and don't get angry with her or worse suspect her............u don't think so much about the consequences if u r merely attached to a person physically............

but as fate would have it krishna learned about the kidnap incident the worst possible way, and she was concerned about his state of mind.............and instead of turning back and go with her family when she knew the path in front of her is full of thorns she chose to go forward and she voiced what she wanted ' that she has to tread this long path alone, no need of her family now' ...........its her and krishna now...........no third person is needed...............

when she was thrown out of the house brutally covered in ashes he brought her inside the house and declared in front of his family that he will do the needful as she is his wife...........and she was astounded by his love and support............she gave her heart to him at that moment and she let him wash away the dirt on her face and was in truth washing away her doubts, a nagging question in her mind 'is he my destiny' and she emerged pure at heart and walked up to him and crumpled at his feet .............

when she saw him gutted she couldn't take it and she revealed to him why she married him(though krishna was not listening) and was shocked to hear that he doubted her purity.........again she understood him as he made himself very clear that he wanted to believe she is pure but knowing angad who was a kaneena he just can't bring himself to believe it no matter how much he tried.............she didn't ate the whole day when he went out of the house wandering the streets of alahabad and she knew she has surrendered her soul to him when she had a dream of him during dawn..............in the dream she never saw her getting physical with him but she was like a thirsty soul finally reaching its destination.............she defied all the odds to go in search of him, she didn't care whether she died or not when the snake bit her, she was more concerned about his life , was pleading to him to come home..............

she silently endured all his taunts and misbehavior as we saw and even ate chilli rice, she took vrata for him, and atlast when she knew what she should do from kesar she decided to give herself to him..............but when he rejected her, she just didn't grovel at his feet to accept him, but she clearly told him what she thought of those men who thought of women as an unwrapped gift........or envelope.........if she was desperate for physical intimacy why would she walk away at that night...............and she stopped only when he said he would be there for her, she has to stay for him..............and we all know she gave herself to him................☺️

she never let him touch her when he was behaving disgustedly that night when he ignored her whole day and tried to have her at night..................if it was all about physical attraction she wouldn't have minded..........would she? and also if she would have agreed what would it mean? that she loves him immensely-----sorry but that's not love------she won't let him step over her self respect in the name of love...........and never did pratigya had stepped over his self respect after she fell in love with him...............

pratigya and krishna love each other with all their being ...................don't mock their love..........their' love is as real and as pure love could get.........................😊
Dharkhan well said. i don;t know how to tell . u covered all the aspect of their love for each other. their love is pure and honest. the way u explained everything it was awesome. Hands of applaud to u. well said. each and every word u said is right. Pratigya thinks a lot. One thing i like in her is that she admits she did wrong and she accepts the person who they r she don;t think of them as big,small,educated or uneducated. she sees their heart. what ever i wanted to say u said and more and explained it too. Very good post. loved it to the heart.



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Posted: 14 years ago
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sirf achaye kay saath hi apna logay toh kaun si badi baat hai achai aur burai donon kay saath apnao tohi to ishq ki aag main jalay kya kehtay ho sab log and kriya are doing it perfectly
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Originally posted by: telstra

⭐️ 100 % agree with you very well written they both love eachother other name of love is patience and we have seen pratigyas patience whenever krishna is angry .marriage doenot mean accept a person with positives only noooooooooo but to accept a person with both negative and positive in pratigyas case she loves him soo much and her negative is she did not stand for her man infront of her family and in case of krishna his anger is his negative .



thanks, yes i initially feel very angry (every time) at pratigya for not supporting krishna, but if u look at the circumstances we can see she is caught between right and wrong........

he thrashed the thief, she didn't mind it until he started to beat him mercilessly.............and also she knew nothing would go into her family's mind when truth is presented before them as lie and so whatever amount of 'why r u blaming us, we r telling the truth' would make them see reason........she never told him to shut up during the entire A fiasco.........she merely requested him to cool down as the people around him r 'pareshaan' ...........which means she knows whatever krishna says they will never listen to it..........so she wanted him not to waste his energy...........the only thing for which i am angry with P is she how come she couldn't sense the lack of respect or care her family has for krishna..........😡 (u know the day they went to sucksenas house and K was treated as an invisible entity)😡
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Originally posted by: laks76


pratigya and krishna love each other with all their being ...................don't mock their love..........their' love is as real and as pure love could get.........................😊

Dharkhan well said. i don;t know how to tell . u covered all the aspect of their love for each other. their love is pure and honest. the way u explained everything it was awesome. Hands of applaud to u. well said. each and every word u said is right. Pratigya thinks a lot. One thing i like in her is that she admits she did wrong and she accepts the person who they r she don;t think of them as big,small,educated or uneducated. she sees their heart. what ever i wanted to say u said and more and explained it too. Very good post. loved it to the heart.





thanks dear, yes both of them r a gem of a character, sadly the CVs r hell bent on ruining them.......they have already started😡😡😡😡😭😭😭😭
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I am definitely not mocking P's love. A girl coming from P's background will have her wishlist of the qualities that her spouse shd be ideally having, don't we all. Let's not forget that K is not the kind of person a girl like P is expected to fall in love with. Think about in an objective manner, if we are in love with a person or even love an object, don't we all want the world and its uncle to know about. We all know that P loves her family to death(absolutely understandable) but what is it about her love towards Krishna that makes her diffident and a little defensive when she is out with him in public or when she is there with her family.I am not passing any judgements here but would genuinely like to know. Does she love her husband as a wife or is Pratigya in love with Krishna. There is a thin line separating these 2 scenarios.
We all know P is an egoistic person, again,nothing wrong with it, but what happens to her ego when K takes a beating.
On a humourous note, isn't it said, love me love my dog. Once in a while I wouldn't mind P saying, love me, love my husband.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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LOVE : Lost Of Valuable Energy.
I think they are loosing their energy as well ours tool.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: shy2729

I am definitely not mocking P's love. A girl coming from P's background will have her wishlist of the qualities that her spouse shd be ideally having, don't we all. Let's not forget that K is not the kind of person a girl like P is expected to fall in love with. Think about in an objective manner, if we are in love with a person or even love an object, don't we all want the world and its uncle to know about. We all know that P loves her family to death(absolutely understandable) but what is it about her love towards Krishna that makes her diffident and a little defensive when she is out with him in public or when she is there with her family.I am not passing any judgements here but would genuinely like to know. Does she love her husband as a wife or is Pratigya in love with Krishna. There is a thin line separating these 2 scenarios.

We all know P is an egoistic person, again,nothing wrong with it, but what happens to her ego when K takes a beating.
On a humourous note, isn't it said, love me love my dog. Once in a while I wouldn't mind P saying, love me, love my husband.

Completely agree with you shy.
When a person whom you love is being blamed by family, friends - your body language and face shows that you are not liking it (let us think you chose not to start a war of words over this matter).
It is very hard to see such expression on P's face when beating is from her family.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: shy2729

I am definitely not mocking P's love. A girl coming from P's background will have her wishlist of the qualities that her spouse shd be ideally having, don't we all. Let's not forget that K is not the kind of person a girl like P is expected to fall in love with. Think about in an objective manner, if we are in love with a person or even love an object, don't we all want the world and its uncle to know about. We all know that P loves her family to death(absolutely understandable) but what is it about her love towards Krishna that makes her diffident and a little defensive when she is out with him in public or when she is there with her family.I am not passing any judgements here but would genuinely like to know. Does she love her husband as a wife or is Pratigya in love with Krishna. There is a thin line separating these 2 scenarios.

We all know P is an egoistic person, again,nothing wrong with it, but what happens to her ego when K takes a beating.
On a humourous note, isn't it said, love me love my dog. Once in a while I wouldn't mind P saying, love me, love my husband.



i initially feel very angry (every time) at pratigya for not supporting krishna, but if u look at the circumstances we can see she is caught between right and wrong........

he thrashed the thief, she didn't mind it until he started to beat him mercilessly.............and also she knew nothing would go into her family's mind when truth is presented before them as lie and so no amount of 'why r u blaming us, we r telling the truth' would make them see reason........she never told him to shut up during the entire A fiasco.........she merely requested him to cool down as the people around him r 'pareshaan' ...........which means she knows whatever krishna says they will never listen to it..........so she wanted him not to waste his energy...........the only thing for which i am angry with P is she how come she couldn't sense the lack of respect or care her family has for krishna..........😡 (u know the day they went to sucksenas house and K was treated as an invisible entity)😡 that scene , i think, was done to show how her family greets her in love, which is soon gonna vanish in to thin air............... yeah , but it actually showed us how mean sucksenas r and how uncaring pratigya was(admitted she was tensed bec of aman-anu matter)

but this instances doesn't prove she don't love him...........she does, with her whole being.........😊
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