The de-sexification of Krishna Singh

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Posted: 14 years ago
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It is now a universal lament, let out by all viewers, fans, former fans and haters that Krishna Singh is slowly but surely turning into a Lappu-jhanna.

He used to deliver the most delicious one-liner with consummate charm.

He now stutters, he grabs and gasps at words. Ends every conversation lamely with a weak "kuch galat kaha rahein hai tho batao?"

He used to look like dynamite.

He now looks confused, defocused and hunted.

He would lope in like a panther or stride in like a prince. He would stand like a nawab or a cock-sure young turk.

Now he shuffles into rooms and shifts around uncomfortable, jiggling a thigh or waving a weak hand.

All of this is very difficult to watch.

When the transformation first started I did not realize it was deliberate. I wondered what was wrong. What could be the problem? Has *horrors!* Arhaan lost it?!! Are they neglecting K's character because its usability is on the wane? Have his jeans and shirts become too tight? Is that why he looks uncomfortable in his skin? Should we just BEG Wardrobe to give him new clothes? Will that help the problem?

But like I said all that was before I realized that this was a VERY DELIBERATE step taken by the CVs and carried through by the redoubtable Arhaan Behl!

I remember asking the question " What should motivate a change in Krishna?"

His love for Pratigya?

His disappointment in his own beliefs and values?

His sense of justice and fairplay and basic humanity?

But as usual the CV's have the right answer. People don't change for others. In general people don't suddenly start to feel others' pain when they have been avoiding looking at it a whole lifetime. They don't transform for love even! But sometimes love serves one unique function. Love acts as a mirror. And sometimes when love holds up a mirror, and we take a look, we find that we don't quite like what we see. We work then to change this image that we catch of ourselves. We change FOR OURSELVES. That is always the most effective and permanent of changes.

Krishna Singh who is viewing himself in the mirror of Pratigya's love is seeing himself as the spoilt younger son of a family of ruthless, cruel, evil people. A man who lives off these very people and so has neither the moral or the financial authority to truly protect his wife from their abuse and remove her from their sphere of influence. He has tried to ignore this image of himself, by blustering his way through, demanding his share but his family is not helping him along in this deception; they spare no opportunity of telling him that he lives on their mercy and he is not wanted if he does not toe the line. They have not truly sent him packing yet because it will be an incredible failure to them to lose a son to elements outside their system of dominion. Krishna has also tried to over-compensate to Pratigya in the most obvious way by showering her with all his demanding attention, babying up to her and giving her a surfeit of sex. She has been kinder than his family, she has tried to humour him and quite genuinely understands his predicament and doesn't want to unkindly force the issue or precipitate a crisis.

But none of this hides the fact of Krishna's inadequacy from him and because he sees it in himself and in going through an identity crisis, we are seeing this flustered, fussy, foolish, flibberti Krishna!

The knowledge that this a very definite attempt to DE-SEXIFY Krishna does not make it easier to watch but certainly eases the tension about his future. Because the CVs who have the guts to dowdy down their golden goose, will surely have planned a Lallantop coming-of-age transformation for him! I as usual live in faith,

As I remain,

Dyehard

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Posted: 14 years ago
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K has gone thorough some changes from SR but he will probably change again when his circumstances change. I do think that it was necessary for him to see P support, hence the lull in the story, because I wasn't going to believe that he would leave his parents even after he found out about the murder attempt, unless he saw that P reciprocated his feelings. It is a little more beliveable now that K would be willing to get a job or learn to read or write,

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Originally posted by: yummimommy

K has gone thorough some changes from SR but he will probably change again when his circumstances change. I do think that it was necessary for him to see P support, hence the lull in the story, because I wasn't going to believe that he would leave his parents even after he found out about the murder attempt, unless he saw that P reciprocated his feelings. It is a little more beliveable now that K would be willing to get a job or learn to read or write,


YM,
Yes, K is going to be a changed man when he comes into his own. But I doubt that they are going to be cosmetic changes of attire, manner or behaviour. To tell you the truth, I don't care a damn if he never speaks a syllable of English, or never loses his rough egde. Those are not the changes that K needs. K has always had a spine, their is no doubting it, but he has to truly find it in the things that truly matter. Not in just shushing his family up with bluster, but having the guts to reject their values and to face rejection as a consequence. He has to find his own value-system and become his own man.
I doubt he will get a 'job' in the usual sense, but he will definetely have to figure out how to earn his living and support his wife and family (!?)😉. If he learns to read and write I hope it is to serve better his already very enquiring and broad mind rather than in the sense of aquiring a degree or qualifications. k is never going to be qualified enough to earn a living based on that.😕
But if he learns to read, it will be truly cool to see the kind of literature and writing he is drawn towards and real fun to see him and Pratigya sharing and bonding over other things apart from their troubles and sex. I would LOVE to see him maybe read a LOvE poem to her!😍 Aha! what a dream! (PLEASE CVS, Pretty Please!)😃


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Posted: 14 years ago
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Superb vision Dye hard....👏here everybody talking abt K loosing his charm...😔But what I feel abt him is different from them.Actually seeing...Why he is always around P n pampering her n manofy n make lub to her????? is a big Q here in everybody's mind....My POV is - He is building his relationship with her strongly...so tht he can fight everybody n anybody along with her.He want ONE TRUE PERSON to be with him always....He already succeeded in his mission...Mission Accomplised!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! How????? P understood him fully n his intentions n accepted him with his follies. Now she knows verywell abt him than anybody,even parents doesn't know.She also understood his importance in her life...Now she is distancing away from her family n becoming very close to KST.This is a Good Sign indeed. ❤️
This is what Cv's r trying to do so.... but why PPL not getting d point n feel tht he is loosing his charm.😕
I hav full faith in him n he would come with a BANG
Lub KST always....🤗
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Great post Dye and great faith...like you I am sure this resolute belief in Krishna will pay dividends.....CVs dont let us down as we continue to back you in your great plans for our most darling of characters
Right from the beginning to the end, Krishna's character for me will never cease to fascinate and draw an endless loyalty, so like you I am happy to wait and not be drawn into believing Krishna's true charater is dead or dying....
Like a phoenix from the fire - he will rise again and astound everyone, and we can say we told you so.....
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Originally posted by: Madmadgirl

Great post Dye and great faith...like you I am sure this resolute belief in Krishna will pay dividends.....CVs dont let us down as we continue to back you in your great plans for our most darling of characters

Right from the beginning to the end, Krishna's character for me will never cease to fascinate and draw an endless loyalty, so like you I am happy to wait and not be drawn into believing Krishna's true charater is dead or dying.. very true. He is the main draw of the show. But the show in general seems to be going through waves of coasting and repetitious dialogues be it from SS, Takurain or Krishna. We have seen quite a few filler episodes recently as well. But we also know Krishna always rises when least expectated with a sudden but subtle shift in storyline. And may we be treated to it sooner rather than later.😊
Like a phoenix from the fire - he will rise again and astound everyone, and we can say we told you so.....

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Originally posted by: Dyehard


It is now a universal lament, let out by all viewers, fans, former fans and haters that Krishna Singh is slowly but surely turning into a Lappu-jhanna.

He used to deliver the most delicious one-liner with consummate charm.

He now stutters, he grabs and gasps at words. Ends every conversation lamely with a weak "kuch galat kaha rahein hai tho batao?"

He used to look like dynamite.

He now looks confused, defocused and hunted.

He would lope in like a panther or stride in like a prince. He would stand like a nawab or a cock-sure young turk.

Now he shuffles into rooms and shifts around uncomfortable, jiggling a thigh or waving a weak hand.

All of this is very difficult to watch.

When the transformation first started I did not realize it was deliberate. I wondered what was wrong. What could be the problem? Has *horrors!* Arhaan lost it?!! Are they neglecting K's character because its usability is on the wane? Have his jeans and shirts become too tight? Is that why he looks uncomfortable in his skin? Should we just BEG Wardrobe to give him new clothes? Will that help the problem?

But like I said all that was before I realized that this was a VERY DELIBERATE step taken by the CVs and carried through by the redoubtable Arhaan Behl!

I remember asking the question " What should motivate a change in Krishna?"

His love for Pratigya?

His disappointment in his own beliefs and values?

His sense of justice and fairplay and basic humanity?

But as usual the CV's have the right answer. People don't change for others. In general people don't suddenly start to feel others' pain when they have been avoiding looking at it a whole lifetime. They don't transform for love even! But sometimes love serves one unique function. Love acts as a mirror. And sometimes when love holds up a mirror, and we take a look, we find that we don't quite like what we see. We work then to change this image that we catch of ourselves. We change FOR OURSELVES. That is always the most effective and permanent of changes.

Krishna Singh who is viewing himself in the mirror of Pratigya's love is seeing himself as the spoilt younger son of a family of ruthless, cruel, evil people. A man who lives off these very people and so has neither the moral or the financial authority to truly protect his wife from their abuse and remove her from their sphere of influence. He has tried to ignore this image of himself, by blustering his way through, demanding his share but his family is not helping him along in this deception; they spare no opportunity of telling him that he lives on their mercy and he is not wanted if he does not toe the line. They have not truly sent him packing yet because it will be an incredible failure to them to lose a son to elements outside their system of dominion. Krishna has also tried to over-compensate to Pratigya in the most obvious way by showering her with all his demanding attention, babying up to her and giving her a surfeit of sex. She has been kinder than his family, she has tried to humour him and quite genuinely understands his predicament and doesn't want to unkindly force the issue or precipitate a crisis.

But none of this hides the fact of Krishna's inadequacy from him and because he sees it in himself and in going through an identity crisis, we are seeing this flustered, fussy, foolish, flibberti Krishna!

The knowledge that this a very definite attempt to DE-SEXIFY Krishna does not make it easier to watch but certainly eases the tension about his future. Because the CVs who have the guts to dowdy down their golden goose, will surely have planned a Lallantop coming-of-age transformation for him! I as usual live in faith,

As I remain,

Dyehard



Loved your expectations and hope, Indeed him being the subject of this story for the CVs, they are showing all the phases of his life and transformations so brilliantly. Very nice post Dyehard 👏

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