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Posted: 14 years ago
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I believe self-respect is very important to everyone, especially vital for women. It should be the first important quality we should have rather than anything else.

When we fail to respect our selfs, many behaviors will be like giveaways. The way we talk to ourself and others is an announcement of how we feel about ourself. The way we allow others to talk about us and treat us is another giveaway. When we believe we don't deserve to be heard or to be spoken to with dignity, which reveals that our self-respect is low. ( Do NOT LET KRISHNA"S FAMILY AND KRISHNA HIMSELF MANIPULATE AND ABUSE YOU. ABUSE IS NOT PHYSICAL ONLY. IT IS MENTAL TOO.)

Our family, friends, lovers, husbands will treat us the way we teach them to treat us. If we expect respect and give it in return, that sets up an atmosphere for everything we want. If we are self-disrespecting, that is what others will give us. So when we are not treated with respect, we should do something about it. If someone treats us disrespectfully, we should treat them politely and at the same time explain that we will not stay around for their abusive behavior. ( Pratigya has always been respectful to her in- laws, but in return has been abused repeatedlly. She gave herself to the man who did destroy her family after she realized she loved him.But what did she get in return. DOMESTIC VIOLENCE)

So we women should stop self- disrespecting, and doubting ourselves and throw the negative influences of our lives and thoughts away. Think of what we want, what we expect, and set an example on ourself. We will then definitely get respect from others. Law of attraction never fails.

YOU ARE THE ONE RESPONSIBLE TO CHANGE OTHERS' VIEW OF YOU.
IF PRATIGYA WANTS TO STAY WITH KRISHNA. SHE SHOULD NOT TOLERATE HIS ABUSE. RESPECT YOURSELF PRATIGYA AND SHRUGG OF ALL FEAR . LET HIM GO. IF HE COMES BACK A CHANGED AND BETTER HUMAN BEING, HE WILL BE YOURS FOREVER. BUT IF HE DOES NOT. IT WAS NEVER MEANT TO BE.
YOU ARE EDUCATED AND SMART .YOU CAN MAKE IT ON YOUR OWN. YOU DO NOT NEED A MAN TO SUPPORT YOU.
P.S ( I use this forum to express my opinion and thoughts and not to disrespect anybody else. I do not appreciate some members using my topic and insulting me or my thoughts. I have filed a complain for the same reason. Everybody who is capable be continue a civilized conversation is welcome to answer or reply. I am not going to tolerate any kind of bad words or remarks. If so it will be reported. Thanks)
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Another thread on respect. first respect others then respect yourself. I guess now that we have learnt how we need to respect others now we need to learn how respect ourselves. Thank u
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Posted: 14 years ago
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"Pratigya has always been respectful to her in- laws" she defied them ....challenged them in every turn....she has no respect for them
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hey Anu, dont get disappointed by sarcastic comments. Love your post and keep writing. 👍🏼
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: an_jaani

"Pratigya has always been respectful to her in- laws" she defied them ....challenged them in every turn....she has no respect for them

Well arent we happy that she challanged Murderers, Child killers, wife beaters do they really derve any respect ???😕,
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: PRAGMATIC

Well arent we happy that she challanged Murderers, Child killers, wife beaters do they really derve any respect ???😕,

no they dont .....i didnt say she was wrong in showing them no respect.....
by defying n challenging them while living under their roof......she is making things worse for herself.......
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: an_jaani

no they dont .....i didnt say she was wrong in showing them no respect.....

by defying n challenging them while living under their roof......she is making things worse for herself.......
Agreed, but is't this the purpose of this story, Lets for a moment asume that after seeing Kesar fighting for her life the other day and Shakti and Amma walking out as if nothing had happened, she should have glanced at Keasr and should have gone back to her room thinking what ever amma and BIL did was ok and she should'nt say much about it.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: PRAGMATIC

Agreed, but is't this the purpose of this story, Lets for a moment asume that after seeing Kesar fighting for her life the other day and Shakti and Amma walking out as if nothing had happened, she should have glanced at Keasr and should have gone back to her room thinking what ever amma and BIL did was ok and she should'nt say much about it.

im ok with her helping kesar......but be sensible in her fights....n.win......after filing report against her-in-laws....she brings kesar to their house😕......i guess after filing the report shaki n amma learned there leason?(did the action make things better or worse).....i want realistic fight for justice ...not some half cooked ideas
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Posted: 14 years ago
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i hope we all know respect is give and take policy 😊...what you expect from others shall be performed to others earlier...

i wish first padi likhi pratigwa give respect to her husband and his feelings....she should understand that he is illiterate and co operate with him ( i don't mean physically...so don't jump in to that conclusion....)instead of giving him useless bashan and confusing that illiterate guy....girrrrrrrrrrr. as krishna said in one of the old episode she is a curse for him...argh! 😡 apladas 👏...and hats off to the dialogue writer.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: shumi.

i hope we all know respect is give and take policy 😊...what you expect from others shall be performed to others earlier...

i wish first padi likhi pratigwa give respect to her husband and his feelings....she should understand that he is illiterate and co operate with him ( i don't mean physically...so don't jump in to that conclusion....)instead of giving him useless bashan and confusing that illiterate guy....girrrrrrrrrrr. as krishna said in one of the old episode she is a curse for him...argh! 😡 apladas 👏...and hats off to the dialogue writer.

Then he should not have wasted his time after her? Isnt it.? She has never gloated over his illeteracy. Well its time for him to grow up and act like a man. What he is doing is acting like a selfish and sulking child.

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