Kriya still have a long way to go to

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Quite honestly, if I were Krishna and Pratigya, I would let the situation be. Till I sort my own behavior and mind out.
Coz the way I see it there are a few things none of them have learnt
Krishna -
a. he has not learnt that just wanting a girl is not enough, Thoughts and cultures need to match. Today I might be forcibly married to a thug, who happens to love me to bits. But I cannot change 20+ years of my orientation just because someone loves me.
b) his family is disgusting, save alone Komal and Dadi
1. Budhau - the less said the better
2. Mom - the most regressive and abusive woman one can find
2. Shakti - good for nothing lust bag
So if I were Krishna, and I lubbed Pratighya, I would have either consoled myself or set house separately with her to ensure she and her family do not have an issue because of my horrible folks.
c. Krishna has to get empoyed, WORK and earn an honest livelihood!!!...... I mean I can love a guy coz he looks hot.......but the stomach needs food and I need shelter and clothes. So what is his agenda for supporting a wife and future family........zilch......is he really responsible??......am afraid not.
d. There are skeleton's in every one's cupboard ..for eg you have Shakti...So then dont go on harping about what Pratigya and her dad did in the Angad incident. Especially if you claim that you love someone so much....the the rule of love as most mankind understands it is that love...translates to faith, respect and forgivness......So please lub her in the truest sense.
And when it comes to
Pratigya
1. Morality and good behaviour is not to be preached......but internalised!! Something that Krishna does far better than Pratigya. I feel he is a much more honest person than her. He stuck with her no matter what, and when it come sto supporting her no matter who is before him, he always ends up doing the right thing......for eg drop Aarushi pronto at her home.
2. People have emotions.....its not heads I win, tails you loose.....and no amount of Krishna tumhara gussa thik hai, can make up for what she dished to Krishna in the past. For a woman who sermonises at the drop of the hat, she has all along taken him for granted.
3. Getting married to prove a point to Krisha, was ridiculous.....coz it was going to have repercussions for everyone in her own family and now we have seen how her bother and sister have both paid a price for it. Not only Krishna, she took her own family for granted too!!!!
So therefore both Krishna and Pratigya need to get one thing right for each other........love and respect.......I dont really think they have it all up there in the true sense.
Krishna ......in demonstrating to Pratigya that he may have initially wanted her out of a male ego fantasy,.........but now is truly worthy of her.
And
Pratigya .....in realising that love and marriage can be arranged........but when some one loves you with all their being...be it her parents or Krishna....then the last thing you do with them is take them for granted.
Thanks readers.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Kasturi, they're both getting there - almost there, in fact.

Krishna is already severely disillusioned by his family. Pratigya has seen past his upbringing and background to the man he is.
They're getting there 😳
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Good Post,I know what u r talking abt...Yes,I too doubt him,he cannot go for work...B'cos when he n prats were in tht adda...he was not able to be there...he is born n brought up in power n richness.He was not able to cope with tht envi.But I guess for love he will go any distance,hardwork and all difficulties.He can really do well with the help of his love,Prats.Hope to see tht track soon,after their C of M.He should learn and should go for work and then he in politics doing good for ppl....Heya!!!!!!!!!Iam in cloud Nine now with my imagination.....Thank u.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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soapbubble and ramanbabhita,

thanks so much for responding. As you understood, I only want Krishna and Pratigya to consciously value each other and then build a constructive life together. And yes for Krishna and for that matter Pratigya too to be employed.

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