Why C of L will be real..

I have often wished C of L happened ages ago, and I realized why it couldnt. First of all, it wasn't love when Prats thought Krishna kidnapped her. But when she knew it was Angad, it didn't mean she was automatically in love with the man she married, just that she was incredibly wrong about his feelings. And that forced her down a path where she had to trust him, to respect how he protected her from harm's way while testing her with his Thakur-learned behavior. His love for her changed him from a spoiled brat into a more mature man, one who never questioned his own feelings for her.

Trins,

Originally posted by: trina_one

I have often wished C of L happened ages ago, and I realized why it couldnt. First of all, it wasn't love when Prats thought Krishna kidnapped her. But when she knew it was Angad, it didn't mean she was automatically in love with the man she married, just that she was incredibly wrong about his feelings. And that forced her down a path where she had to trust him, to respect how he protected her from harm's way while testing her with his Thakur-learned behavior. His love for her changed him from a spoiled brat into a more mature man, one who never questioned his own feelings for her.

Then the secret came out. Weeks after she blew chances to tell him, then after she couldn't tell him anymore, and finally exploded in a courtroom. Had she been able to tell him sooner, it would have made him angry yes, but not as much as when he found out in front of a bunch of strangers. Not as much as when he had already learned she complained against Angad and kept it from him, and slapped the guy in her house.

It was a betrayal of this magnitude that forced Krishna to reexamine his love for her, and led Prats to the path admitting she loved him back even when he wasn't playing Mr. Nice Guy anymore.

Love is not love unless it stands the test of time. And it isn't love unless it undergoes trials. Prats knows now Krishna would never leave her, not even if the world entire turned against her, even if the Saxenas decided they didn't want her for a daughter. Now Krishna needs to know the same of her. Will Prats defend him against her own flesh and blood? Will Prats give him what he wants of her own accord? This is what separates infatuation from love. While one lasts for a few seconds, the other endures.

Arey wah! Very nicely written post about the power and endurance of love.👏👏👏👏👏👏

Love by it's very definition is selfless. One cannot demand or ask someone to love a person. That scene of the worker betrayed by his wife was shown to send a message to Krishna when the man said love cannot be forced. That resonated with Krishna.

Today he doubts she loves him bec' if she is doing things for him out of guilt it is not love. Compassion and duty are by products of love. Love is accepting a person just the way they are, no if, and or buts about it. Krishna did just that when he loved Prats. But he also got a body blow when he realized that the person he had put on a pedestal in his own mind was human and just as fallible as he is. He now has to adjust to his new understanding of love. That takes time. It's not easy to turn 180 degrees when the course has already been set, it takes patience and time to achieve that. For Krishna even a llittle separation from her when she moved to her maike was enough for him to realize her worth to him. Right now he is defending himself from feeling vulnerable bec' of his love for her. .

Prats is now ready to give him that same unconditional love with no demands for friendships or otherwise that she once demanded even after she knew the truth. The road to love and marriage as she knew it were all tossed out the window once she was faced with the threat of a life without Krishna. It was her biggest wake up call. Her feelings took off like a ferrari from 0 to 90 in less than 30 secs. It's just a matter of time before they are both on the same page.😃

Originally posted by: MERARAI

Arey wah! Very nicely written post about the power and endurance of love.👏👏👏👏👏👏

Thank you, my dear. Nice reply! =)

Love by it's very definition is selfless. One cannot demand or ask someone to love a person. That scene of the worker betrayed by his wife was shown to send a message to Krishna when the man said love cannot be forced. That resonated with Krishna. Agreed, it struck a chord in his own heart that love is an offering, not an obligation.

Today he doubts she loves him bec' if she is doing things for him out of guilt it is not love. Compassion and duty are by products of love. Love is accepting a person just the way they are, no if, and or buts about it. Krishna did just that when he loved Prats. But he also got a body blow when he realized that the person he had put on a pedestal in his own mind was human and just as fallible as he is. He now has to adjust to his new understanding of love. That takes time. It's not easy to turn 180 degrees when the course has already been set, it takes patience and time to achieve that. For Krishna even a llittle separation from her when she moved to her maike was enough for him to realize her worth to him. Right now he is defending himself from feeling vulnerable bec' of his love for her. . Yes, Krishna realized the object of his devotion was not infallible like he imagined, she is very real and has flaws too. And love is about embracing imperfections, marks on the surface and being able to look beyond them. It isn't about forcing the other person to live up to a code of one's own morals.

Prats is now ready to give him that same unconditional love with no demands for friendships or otherwise that she once demanded even after she knew the truth. The road to love and marriage as she knew it were all tossed out the window once she was faced with the threat of a life without Krishna. It was her biggest wake up call. Her feelings took off like a ferrari from 0 to 90 in less than 30 secs. It's just a matter of time before they are both on the same page.😃 So true! Krishna's initial separation from her when he slapped her, made him realize he can't even live a second without thinking of her, dreaming of her, looking at his arm and being reminded of her imprint on his heart. Even the threat of separation, on top of his already changed ethics compelled him to accept Prats after the trial and save her life. Then, the threat of being apart from him compelled her in turn to see her feelings were indeed love.

trins

I like this thread. it is turning out to be a very philosophical and psychological study of love in the context of Krishna and Prats.

But what about Adarsh and Komal? Adarsh doesn't sneeze without first getting the go ahead from mummy or Papa. It's ironic that when it came to selecting his bride he went solo and picked a bride with the intent to protect his sister.

He once told Komal as shown on TV here in the last few days when he explained Prats did not cheat on Krishna bec' no one touched her during the kidnapping, he said he was cheated too. Wonder what he was referring to? Was it his love for Rolli? Does he have a problem being expressive or intimate?

I used to get the feeling that Prats was a bit of a cold fish with Krishna but recently she is warming up rather nicely.

None of the Saxsena siblings are equipped to handle the realities of marriage right off the bat. They are so caught up in their own saanskaric knowledge to see the reality of their situation. I feel sad for Komal who is trying her best starting from where she is at and what she knows. No one seems to want to teach her anything worth a penny at that green house about what really matters. No lectures to Adarsh to treat his wife right, .

yes what is c of l? in another topic someone was talking about C of M. anyone care to explain??

Originally posted by: pomegranate

yes what is c of l? in another topic someone was talking about C of M. anyone care to explain??

Originally posted by: kriya2010

what is C of L???????

Originally posted by: MERARAI

trins

I like this thread. it is turning out to be a very philosophical and psychological study of love in the context of Krishna and Prats.

But what about Adarsh and Komal? Adarsh doesn't sneeze without first getting the go ahead from mummy or Papa. It's ironic that when it came to selecting his bride he went solo and picked a bride with the intent to protect his sister.

He once told Komal as shown on TV here in the last few days when he explained Prats did not cheat on Krishna bec' no one touched her during the kidnapping, he said he was cheated too. Wonder what he was referring to? Was it his love for Rolli? Does he have a problem being expressive or intimate?

I used to get the feeling that Prats was a bit of a cold fish with Krishna but recently she is warming up rather nicely.

None of the Saxsena siblings are equipped to handle the realities of marriage right off the bat. They are so caught up in their own saanskaric knowledge to see the reality of their situation. I feel sad for Komal who is trying her best starting from where she is at and what she knows. No one seems to want to teach her anything worth a penny at that green house about what really matters. No lectures to Adarsh to treat his wife right, .

Originally posted by: MERARAI

Arey wah! Very nicely written post about the power and endurance of love.👏👏👏👏👏👏

Love by it's very definition is selfless. One cannot demand or ask someone to love a person. That scene of the worker betrayed by his wife was shown to send a message to Krishna when the man said love cannot be forced. That resonated with Krishna.

Today he doubts she loves him bec' if she is doing things for him out of guilt it is not love. Compassion and duty are by products of love. Love is accepting a person just the way they are, no if, and or buts about it. Krishna did just that when he loved Prats. But he also got a body blow when he realized that the person he had put on a pedestal in his own mind was human and just as fallible as he is. He now has to adjust to his new understanding of love. That takes time. It's not easy to turn 180 degrees when the course has already been set, it takes patience and time to achieve that. For Krishna even a llittle separation from her when she moved to her maike was enough for him to realize her worth to him. Right now he is defending himself from feeling vulnerable bec' of his love for her. .

Prats is now ready to give him that same unconditional love with no demands for friendships or otherwise that she once demanded even after she knew the truth. The road to love and marriage as she knew it were all tossed out the window once she was faced with the threat of a life without Krishna. It was her biggest wake up call. Her feelings took off like a ferrari from 0 to 90 in less than 30 secs. It's just a matter of time before they are both on the same page.😃

both of you have wrote this really well.