lesson convey to us all

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Posted: 15 years ago
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hi friends how are you all,
sooo i want to share my thinking with you guys . i watch pratigya regularly
This drama is base on the behaviour of our society toward women & how women face difficult in our society i read many article in which pooja often said that pratigya tell women how they treat eve teaser &how they standup for themself bt in drama 'pratigya' she is facing all this present satuition because she slap agand soo am little confuse about the lesson of this drama if we slap someone who tease us what is the result ? plsssss coment guys

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Posted: 15 years ago
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on a lighter note............................lesson is pratigya ban jayeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee🤣
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I wouldn't take anything on the show being as gospel truth. For anyone thinking, yeah I will slap a guy and then will have someone like Krishna enter my life.............well it's a load of toss!
My personal view is:
Do not attempt to slap a guy, like angad or anyone else, no matter the provocation. Even if you are with group of friends and in a public place. It is always best to ignore them, report them to the police. To do otherwise is to invite attention and the 'eve teasing' Pratigya endured. You won't lose face by ignoring them, just avoiding trouble in future.
You never know when you will encounter this guy again.....one day in the dark...... somewhere you are out and about like a shopping mall.....relatives place....this guys retribution could extend to your family and friends..
Secondly, the sad truth is men are physically stronger and your life can change in an heartbeat. Do not take that risk. No matter how conversant you are in self defence. Carry some sort of alarm with you like a personal alarm, pepper spray and so on.
If you feel the need to so something, join groups which support women who face this and do everything to change the perceptions of low level lifes who go around terrorising women like this.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: nisha2010

on a lighter note............................lesson is pratigya ban jayeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee🤣

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Posted: 15 years ago
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I wouldn't take anything on the show being as gospel truth. For anyone thinking, yeah I will slap a guy and then will have someone like Krishna enter my life.............well it's a load of toss!
My personal view is:
Do not attempt to slap a guy, like angad or anyone else, no matter the provocation. Even if you are with group of friends and in a public place. It is always best to ignore them, report them to the police. To do otherwise is to invite attention and the 'eve teasing' Pratigya endured. You won't lose face by ignoring them, just avoiding trouble in future.
You never know when you will encounter this guy again.....one day in the dark...... somewhere you are out and about like a shopping mall.....relatives place....this guys retribution could extend to your family and friends..
Secondly, the sad truth is men are physically stronger and your life can change in an heartbeat. Do not take that risk. No matter how conversant you are in self defence. Carry some sort of alarm with you like a personal alarm, pepper spray and so on.
If you feel the need to so something, join groups which support women who face this and do everything to change the perceptions of low level lifes who go around terrorising women like this.
very nice dude ur right just ignore them
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Posted: 15 years ago
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It's very different, in the different countries how you handle eve teasing. in other places you get reallly cheap eve teasing the sort that we seen in pratigya, in this type of case i would say the best thing was not to have slapped angad. knowing such hooligans were on the train she should have gone to the washroom taking one of her friends with her rather than going by herself as there may have been safety in numbers....
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dreamygal301

I wouldn't take anything on the show being as gospel truth. For anyone thinking, yeah I will slap a guy and then will have someone like Krishna enter my life.............well it's a load of toss!

My personal view is:
Do not attempt to slap a guy, like angad or anyone else, no matter the provocation. Even if you are with group of friends and in a public place. It is always best to ignore them, report them to the police. To do otherwise is to invite attention and the 'eve teasing' Pratigya endured. You won't lose face by ignoring them, just avoiding trouble in future.
You never know when you will encounter this guy again.....one day in the dark...... somewhere you are out and about like a shopping mall.....relatives place....this guys retribution could extend to your family and friends..
Secondly, the sad truth is men are physically stronger and your life can change in an heartbeat. Do not take that risk. No matter how conversant you are in self defence. Carry some sort of alarm with you like a personal alarm, pepper spray and so on.
If you feel the need to so something, join groups which support women who face this and do everything to change the perceptions of low level lifes who go around terrorising women like this.



I have harped this point several times for the young girls on this forum. Women's emotional games wont' make a difference if confronted by physical strength unless one is a martial arts black belt level expert.. I posted in April/May about some very dire consequences for girls who are not equipped to handle such situations esp. when they least expect or a random incident occurs that could change their lives forever. This happens even in the most advanced countries.

Recently Pooj Gor said in an interview that she is applying the lessons she has learned from this show. 😲😕 It's one thing to stand up and speak up for your self-respect. But when she actually slapped a guy for eve-teasing her and made it public through the media, is she aware of what she is courting? One never knows when and how this person will react down the road, can she ever be so sure that she will never encounter this person in her life ever again? It's a risk one takes by humiliating a man in public, a gender known for their fragile egos.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i will suggest u not to slap. our life isnt drama so be careful.
i have been a victim of eave teasing too and i tell u i just threw the guys number away and he started to follow me. luckiy police arrived there and i got saved but u know not everyone is lucky so u better ignore them
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Posted: 15 years ago
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As long as it doesn't become Pratigya bandh jayeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee before the Krishna/Prats love story comes to the happily ever after finish.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: steffroc

i will suggest u not to slap. our life isnt drama so be careful.

i have been a victim of eave teasing too and i tell u i just throw the guys number away and he started to follow me. luckiy police arrived there and i got saved but u know not everyone is lucky so u better ignore them



You should have told him that Krishna baba was on his way to meet you there. Just kidding!😉 This is no joke. Why fan the flames by giving any attention at all. Most of them will behave like Sakthi does with Arushi, they get even more turned on by the anger and attention, bec' that is all they are craving initially. They feel they have provoked the girl into reacting.😲

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