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Posted: 15 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: sana.malik

What I despise the most in any given relation is tryng to hide the truth so that the other person doesn't get hurt.. But as a matter of fact it hurts the other person even more later. Hence I believe everyone should be like an open book with their husbands at least. This way at least they are not out of the loophole later when someone blurts something out or tries to stir things.

Having the trust in that person that too blindly is important too. I fail to understand how Pratigya is more educated than Krishna when she fails to understand the simplest of things. Nobody knows how to maintain relations after marriage but you naturally learn no matter how horrible your in laws are. Pratigya confuses me at times



In a sense I can empathyize with Pratigya (OMG I am going to have to and flog myself just for that statement😆😆😆). sometimes when the secret is impactful enought there is a natural sense of self preservation that prevents us from confiding. However, what she has to realize her is that when she landed the punch she did so publicly and there was no cushion to reduce the impact. he was blindsided becasue he found out about it with the rest of Allahabad.

The problem Sana is that she has only ever confided in one man in her entire life - her dad - and he is of a very mild tempermanent. She did not know how Krishna would react.

That beign said, he gave her several opportunities to speak up when he was in a listening mood, she waited too long. for all her boldness she is a little girl at heart and does not know how to talk to one's partner maturely. Krishna for all his foolhardiness is a very mature and down to eart individual. he wants the blunt truth not the packaged version.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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At least Krishna will understand the plightful situation Pratigya was in!! smth happens yaar
Its just that I wanna see Krishna n Pratigya mutually in love :-)
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Posted: 15 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: Aeryn

Hi Hope! your post had me 🤣 Really what was she thinking?? Poor girl, she's trying but she has it all wrong.... feel kind of sorry for her (just a tiny bit though😆) And that bib....🤣🤣

I agree with what you said about him feeling caged. I was thinking so too..... even after saving prats' life from that snake's bite and seeing her in pain he didn't want to come back ....he wasn't prepared for it, wasn't prepared to face anyone or/and his new life..... he had gone with them because he was too exhausted to fight.
I think he's feeling hurt, anger at himself and at her, and kind of lost/confused/infuriated in the sense that he doesn't know how to proceed from there......before he was living to make his marriage work, he would seek all his happiness in hers but now he firmly believes all was/ is still a farce, that all she's doing right now is out of guilt and what she feels is her duty......seeing her hurt him but living without her is no better as he still very much loves her.......
Being in this state, it's no wonder he greatly feels unnerved seeing her around acting as if nothing life shattering has happened plus her babying him when the only think he wants is to be left alone.......




Aeryn:

she did everything wrong in the book where dealing with a ANGRY husband is concerned.

look at the first scene:

he came in - lion style - his body language screamt Old Krishna - yet she came and spoke to him in a Mother Knows Best tone when he was minding his own business - all she had to do was leave the milk and go

she tells him you are looking weak, gaunt, rundown 😲- ok well meaning but illtimed and tactless. here is a man who has had his intellect and his capacity for understanding doubted and challenged by you recently and now you are telling him that PHYSICALLY he is also weak? 😲OMG woman can you not see that he just GROOMED himself? 😲 peopLe don't go grooming themselves when they are weak - they do it when they are strong and feeling refreshed.

then she wants to end tHe milk issue with a declaration of love. really let me give you groceries and you give me an epic declaration of love???? Uh no way missee. I was a fool once baring my heart ain't going to fall for that dimestore trick twice. nope I saved you out of humanity. oh really she keeps at it. OH seriously woman back off. drop of tHe mlk and move out. So he gets up and lashes out. he says your Angad. Touche. that was not a low blow that was A DARE in true Krishna style. In the past she would have taken the bait and shut himd right down. she did not. Of course he thinks she had a thing with Angad. She TOOK ON SS AND SHAKTI for angad's life. her family tried to pay off angad to hide the INCIDENT in prats past so that krishna would not findout. You don;t do these things when the person is your perpetrator or you were a victim. you do it when there is fire to go with the smoke and you are trying to put it off in a hurry before the park rangers get there. he HAS THE QUESTIONS AND SHE HAS THE ANSWERS - how else can he get it out of her without appearing needy??????? he can only dare her into a confrontation.


The problem here is that he thinks the incident was an elopment not a kidnapping and he gave his reasons why - he said two weeks ago if it was a kidnapping she would not have been left unharmed and if she was a victim her hda dwould nto feel the need to pay of the blackmailer by mortgaging his house and endangering his younger daughter's life

2nd scene

he is very pensive and a little self pitying????????

she comes in and starts with arushi - ok his second least favourite topic after angad

then she moves to aman - ok seriously not helping
then she says aman is a good man - oops really and in his state of mind he is thinkign as opposed to your own loser husband??????

he will make her happy - as opposed to your own miserable existence????

then she is asks him for his opinion?

Ok woman in his mood do you really want ot know what he thinks about a bratty SIL, a smug to be damaad and a very very sore topic???? really. ok he says exactly what I expected him to say - you are all birds of a feather so of course you will be happy.

he loses no opportunity to hint at the past incident and the fact that hiding it reeked of duplicitiy and screams of infidelity

Ok again every every conversation of his yesterday ended with right and wrong - all I can deduce is he wants to have a defintie answer on whether angad was her flame or not. he has ample reason to be believe she lied about the version of events. her body language speaks guilt not defiance. His pratigya was always defiant. So he is asking himself WHY???? WHAT???


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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: HamiSky

Hey gr8 discussion, frenz!!

Hope, the post was incredibly hilarious!! :-))))))))))))))))))))
My take on this is....
Arushi brot in here at Thakurs...Shakti trying to act bad on her..but smhow she is saved.......
then they decide (or Krishna himself suggesting this ) not to tell this to anyone..esp Aman...after nothing bad ahs happened..they have avoided it...
a situation similar to that of Pratgiya wen she was kidnapped...
and thus Krishna gets quite convinced about Pratigya's past... circumstances make him understand wat cud be the truth about Pratigya??



Hami I think you have some high potential prediction there. yup that might be why

reconciliation and C of M will not happen at least for another two weeks. lots of damage repair needs to be done first
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Posted: 15 years ago
#35

Originally posted by: mushirox


hami i hope that hidding truth prediction of yours doesnt turn up to be true. as much as krish is straight-forward i hope he tells arushi not to hide it (from aman atleast)




Mushi:

krish is not pratigya. he is not supposed to be a symbol of truth. he is a symbol of pragmatism.

he is a wordly man.

he uses common sense.

if nothing happened and no one knows he will advise to stay mum on the issue. This is not a society where u bare all and hope for understanding from the listener. this is a traditional uber conservative and almost regressive society.

had prats confided him about angad and he believed her he would have told her to stay mum on the issue (from his family to protect her) and then he would have dealt with the issue in a non conventional alternative manner
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Posted: 15 years ago
#36

Originally posted by: HamiSky

At least Krishna will understand the plightful situation Pratigya was in!! smth happens yaar

Its just that I wanna see Krishna n Pratigya mutually in love :-)



yes everyne wants romance😃😃😃😃
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Posted: 15 years ago
#37

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

He Told her I WUD HAVE EVEN SAVED YOUR ANGADWA .

If she was half a woman .............she wud have listened to this meaningful statement and the look in his eyes . . Its not about her virginity at all .Its about him thinking there was a liason between her and Angad of some sorts .something he will nEVER know now as he is gone , and he is saddled with only HER version of the story ..........and she had LIED so he cant trust it . . He keeps throwing Angad in her face . He told her if ur sister had a lafda or secret [ he called it raaz] before marraige ..........plzz tell the dude she is marrying ...coz educated or bnot ....men r the same underneath .ALL of them . . Such meaningful statements and Pratigya doesnt get the whiff of it . How stupid can one be ? How dense ? . The Anpadh is a matured Man ...........she is Daddys little gal who never outgrew her Daddy . . And watz this of Arushi being sent to "HELP" . 4 people in the house and she cant manage the bloody cooking ? She is not even working in an office , just at home .Krishna is NOt an invalid ..she doesnt have to give him bedpans or something .And Where the hell was Arushi helping Naina in the house ? That she knows a great deal of cooking ?



Kools. Bulls eye. and I am getting goosebumps now from the telepathy😆😆😆😆😆😆
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Posted: 15 years ago
#38
the way I see it

they are both vulnerable and both have immediate overwhelming and dominant needs

he wants a convincing answer - it is the potion to his ail
she wants a declaration of love from him again - it is the balm to her soul

they want it but don;t know how to get it in their new dynamic so they are relying on their most powerful personality traits

he has gone full scale confrontational and she has gone full scale compassionate

THEY HAVE REACHED AN INVERITABLE AND MUCH EXPECTED STALEMATE

it is only Monday. so lets see how far he pushes and how much she withdraws before she finally pushes right back


guys this epi was intense and very realistically depicted turbulence in a mature relation. Very entertainign overall.

Ok memories of the bib are still killing me.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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he wants a convincing answer on the angad incident - it is a potion fo rhis ail
she wants a declaration of his love like before - it is a balm for her soul ------------- very well said, Hope!!!
She wud be elated and wud be on cloud 9 if he declares his love like before
and he wud give her anything under the sun if she convinces him...I liked it soooooooo much!! :-)
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: stillhopeful

Seriously a BIB😆!!!!!!!!! a BIB!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i AM PRACTICALLY SPEECHLESS - WELL ALMOST🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

What's next Prats????

Dress me up pretty, give me a paci (pacifier), braid me a braid and call me Daisy!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣


OMG OMG OMG Prats what can I say, OK, read my lips:

    He is not invalid, he told you that when you brought the milk Men are horrible patients - prickly, grumpy uncooperative - to begin with without the added complication of emotional issues
  1. You are the source of his aggravation and the cause of his hospitalization

Woman he is not an infant and neither is he a senior citizen. yeah that 's all healthy strapping 30 year old caged lion needs - a bib and some broth with a lullaby.

If you treat him like an infant he will act like an infant. what do irritable babies do??? they spit up and throw away the food that they do not want to eat, even if the mothers they adore are trying to feed it to them. he is not interfering with you woman take a hint.😲


What did you expect woman, that he would drink the soup like Amba Bhavani's prasad, sing you a serenade, declare his epic love and dance you a waltz?????????????😆😆😆😆😆😆😆 Ok Somebody forgot to send her the memo, the amnesia thing was hoax, Krishna REMEMBERS EVERYTHING. you cannot just act as if the last three weeks did not happen.


This poor girl is not only clueless in Seattle, she is tactless too boot. Its not her fault - she not very intuitive. His body language was so expressive, my 7 year old could read him better.😆 I can't believe I am going to say this but I felt bad for her today - for a millisecond😆😆😆

So I ask myself what are the two things that have always been sore topics with Krishna about Prats:

A) Angadwa - By virtue of the kidnapping gem that has been preying on his mind, angadwa has not been too far

B) Maika - well you just brightened his mood didn't you by telling him that the SIL who hates his guts, incites you against him and thinks he is a jahil is coming to visit and help him recuperate😆😆😆😆😆 and then the News he has been dying to hear - Aman Mathur (a man who already gets on his nerves) and is considered by prats to be a very good man has blessed them with his alliance.


Oh yeah, Baby you are on the right track. All you need to do now is hit another one and you have a HATTRICK, then there will definitely be an explosion and he will fly to the moon - Sorry prats did not mean the romantic Frankie Sinatra way more like the WWF Undertaker way.😆

When he needed her she wasn't there, now he wants space and she is forcing herself and her broth on him. OMG that scene was just too much. She had me at the bib.

As for those who think he does not love her, yeah I guess the hand grab at the bedside was a figment of some one's imagination?????? Really people, this girl needs to learn to tell the difference between smoke screens and the Real McCoy. SHE NEEDS TO GIVE HIM SPACE.

Hope

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ROFLROFLROFL
@stillhopeful......................the most humorous post i have read yaarROFL
Every line was humorous ROFLROFL
Frendz pls don't mistake me, but I feel Prats can be the best mom to Krish seeing the way she keeps his room clean and cot tidy, cooks food for him, eager to prepare aloo bujiyas, and puts the bib and feeds him soup.......😆
I think the Saxenas will at least accept this relation with a smile on their faces instead of the usual 😭 ones.

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