Precap - Measured Monday !! - Page 8

Originally posted by: stillhopeful

tanthya:

your precap was expressed as beautifully as the scene was enacted. thank you

krishna has gone through quite a patch hasn't he in the last few days? so intense that true comprehension is very difficult for most viewers.

I tried putting myself in his shoes today, can you imagine the inner turmoil of his emotions? the battle within himself?

here is a man who LOVES a woman he does not believe loves him back (in fact he has ample proof from her very own mouth) or even trust him; he NEEDS her proximity and her indulgence yet believes that any care she gives him is prompted by guilt and an inane compassion; he FEELS himself instinctively drawn to her but he believes that he holds no such attraction for her.

Who do you think disappoints him more right now? - her or himself. who do you think he is more angry with right now? - her or himself.

I think he is more angry with himself because he knows that HE misinterpreted all the signs and made him self so vulnerable by giving her this unconditional power over him. More than her he does not trust his own instincts. everytime he sees her he remembers what a fool he has been and gets angry which is why he is so curt with her. he has tried the self destructive route, it destroyed him and his family.

I read your comments about his mood and his behaviour to come over the next few epis and I thought you were spot on. the way I see it in the future epis:

• he will be guarded around her yet very aware of her
• he wil be purposefully doubtful of her but unconciously searching for answers/ hints through her gazes and actions
• he will want her proximity but will not trust himself with any interaction as he thinks it will open up old wounds and create unnecessary expectations on his part.

I think the dude is going through a very muddled phase. I don't envy him or her.

but as a wife that cares Pratigya is doing the following things right FINALLY

a) she is persevering in maintaining the most fragile of connections with him while giving him the space he needs

b) she is trying to engage him in conversation hoping to distract him away from something she cannot solve to something she believes she can handle

c) she is showing him that she can be trusted through actions more than words

Well I think I have said too much

have a great day and thanks again

Hope😃

Great Analysis , Hope.......

That One line in the hospital.."Farrak hai ,tumein aur humein "... how painful it must have been to finally acknowledge the truth, but he did acknowledge ...but what is even more heartening to note is that despite him being curt and all moody with her..he still feels responsible for her and he still protects her from his family ....and he has not taken out his anger in front of his family...he still is shielding her !!

Pratigya can work from this and gradually build their fortress which will be impregnable to his parent's taunts, Sax indifference, Amma's malice , jealousy ,Piyasiya's Nastiness..😊

Originally posted by: sanaya11

kirshna is soo..what ever happned to his so called love???? i think in marriage and love..u have to learn how to trust the other....have faith...psssshhhh krishna..*tisk tisk*

Sanaya,

In marriage and love ... faith and trust is important along with openness ..esp if the issue is such that it will have an impact on the marriage and on them ....And Pratigya breached that trust and faith !! ,,

whatever happened to whose love ...Sanaya ??


Had he listened to his Amma or his Bauji or some passerby and doubted his wife ...ur question is a valid one..but he heard this straight from the horse's mouth, not once but twice ...and naturally his faith and trust will be shaken to its roots ...A lesser man would have taken the easier route and thrown his wife out [A very realistic situation] ...but not Krishna...he still is maintaining his side of the bargain...

Despite his exhaustion and being on the verge of physical collapse ...he pulled up his final reserve of energy to suck the poison out ..what more shud he do to prove his love...Don't tell me that was Humanity ,,,There were 2 men who were content to stand around not doing anything ...

ought a hurt and demoralized man not allowed to lash out at his perceived sense of betrayal..shud he be like a dummy..taking it all in his chin and without reacting ??

Originally posted by: tanthya

Pooja ,

even I am wondering at the speed of Amarshi track ....right now lets give them the benefit of doubt and adopt a wait and watch attitude....later if we don't like thetrack..we can always tear it to shreds..


I genuinely hope that Kriya get closer during Thakur's Absence.. That Krishnwa has to stay put in the house ...what if he takes it into his head to have a outing and proceeds to stay the whole day at Adda or in that hilltop ...avoiding Pratigya ...😡

I quite like your attitude with the amarshi track...let's just wait and watch till we get to know more about aman and his intentions....
And as to kriya...yeah baba needs to stay at home and not bunk off outside the house....maybe tunna and chandu can come to meet him and give him some valuable insight at how much prats had to go through to find him

Originally posted by: Dyehard

Hello, Peepal trees!
Just my luck! to be out of town on work on the prettiest episode of them all! Missed being here on Tender Thursday. 😭 Chalbo koi baat nahi, at least there is Friday.

Amma SS were unbearably wicked. Unke baare mein nahi baat kareinge, muh ka swaad kharaab ho jata hai!🤢😡
Prats was sweet and very pathetic, poor thing. Her love has made her very vulnerable. Earlier she had a hypothetical choice. In her mind the Thakur household could be abandoned anytime if things got unbearable. But now because she has no choice but to stay for Krishna her state is like a hunted deer. I can't even imagine what it must feel like to stay under the shadow of such unveiled malvolence!😲 To be asked to never show your face, to be reviled and abused, shunted and locked up. God!
Poor thing! all she was living was in hope of a few half smiles or acceptance from Krishna.
Now, I did not expect Baba to fall into her arms; he is quite ziddi and used to throwing tanturms and his weight around. While a few nakhras would have been perfectly acceptable, to taunt her on that raaz ki baat again! OUch, Indeed! That too meanly when she was genuinely happy about something, to take out all her hawa in one flush blow. Krishna Krishna Krishna! ye kya kiya? 😭

I don't think I like to see Prats do any grovelling on this instance! It would be better if she maintained a hurt silence. Or even better if she had an almighty showdown with him. Then they can both say a lot of things and clear the air! Nothing better for those who love than a godawful fight! 😳
But I feel, after channeling his Amma like that, darling baba will be immediately contrite! 😊 At east I hope so.
The main thakur villians have gone for a day. So Kriya have a day to really sort out the tensions between them and get real cosy (C of M in the absence of the malevolents? Dunno, maybe, maybe not) But definitely have to come to a better understanding between them. Whether this is through a big row or with Prats becoming very hurt and then Krishna hearing all about her savirti act from TC or Kesar or both and then really melting and feeling awful about clawing at his darling... Dunno! but something's gotta give!
And whatever give's will definitely give us pleasure.

PS. Why is everybody finding AM fishy? I just think that it is in keeping with his character. He likes to shock and taking really dramatic decisions. Zara go-getting types hai na. Also I think the cv's don't want to do the regular bump into each other and courtship type thing. Just get them hitched and introduce the family! They have already started mentioning the family, so I supposed we will meet them before the week is out. Then the mystery about AM antecedents will be solved! 😆

Dye,

Great to read ur post ..

I do agree with you..Pratigya is vulnerable ,but she is also indestructible...So I don't give a damn about Thakur's and their Insinuation's ..

I perfectly understand Bab's reaction and it is quite natural and expected ...he has had mickey taken out of him !!naturally he is going to almighty angry and Royally miffed ... being a straight forward guy, he will deliver stinging blows directly to the concerned member...he will try hurt the person who gave him immeasurable hurt !!

Pratigya will not grovel, she will be gentle, understanding and reasonable..she has to give him some space to think and not crowd him ....and she is doing it .....he himself has said that "one day you do something that gets me hopping mad, and the very next instant you do something else that calms me instantly leaves me filled with love....well, we have to wait for that something else ...

Pratigya will not grovel, she will be gentle, understanding and reasonable..she has to give him some space to think and not crowd him ....and she is doing it .....he himself has said that "one day you do something that gets me hopping mad, and the very next instant you do something else that calms me instantly leaves me filled with love....well, we have to wait for that something else ...
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Originally posted by: SaacheeSyna

I quite like your attitude with the amarshi track...let's just wait and watch till we get to know more about aman and his intentions....
And as to kriya...yeah baba needs to stay at home and not bunk off outside the house....maybe tunna and chandu can come to meet him and give him some valuable insight at how much prats had to go through to find him

or even Kesar can come and narrate the whole ordeal to Krishna in her sing-song voice ...He pays attention to her too ...

Infact all three can come along and sing Pratigya Bhajan and G.Dadi can ring the bell---leaving Krishna no other option but to make up with Pratigya .....😆..

on the other hand ,

Pratigya can make use of this opportunity to get closer to Krishna or both can discuss it out threadbare or have a showdown ...My only horrified thought is , She does not insist on going to maika now that her behen is betrothed😲..this will drive Krishna further away from her ...😕

Originally posted by: Dyehard

Hello, Peepal trees!
Just my luck! to be out of town on work on the prettiest episode of them all! Missed being here on Tender Thursday. 😭 Chalbo koi baat nahi, at least there is Friday.

Amma SS were unbearably wicked. Unke baare mein nahi baat kareinge, muh ka swaad kharaab ho jata hai!🤢😡
Prats was sweet and very pathetic, poor thing. Her love has made her very vulnerable. Earlier she had a hypothetical choice. In her mind the Thakur household could be abandoned anytime if things got unbearable. But now because she has no choice but to stay for Krishna her state is like a hunted deer. I can't even imagine what it must feel like to stay under the shadow of such unveiled malvolence!😲 To be asked to never show your face, to be reviled and abused, shunted and locked up. God!
Poor thing! all she was living was in hope of a few half smiles or acceptance from Krishna.
Now, I did not expect Baba to fall into her arms; he is quite ziddi and used to throwing tanturms and his weight around. While a few nakhras would have been perfectly acceptable, to taunt her on that raaz ki baat again! OUch, Indeed! That too meanly when she was genuinely happy about something, to take out all her hawa in one flush blow. Krishna Krishna Krishna! ye kya kiya? 😭

I don't think I like to see Prats do any grovelling on this instance! It would be better if she maintained a hurt silence. Or even better if she had an almighty showdown with him. Then they can both say a lot of things and clear the air! Nothing better for those who love than a godawful fight! 😳
But I feel, after channeling his Amma like that, darling baba will be immediately contrite! 😊 At east I hope so.
The main thakur villians have gone for a day. So Kriya have a day to really sort out the tensions between them and get real cosy (C of M in the absence of the malevolents? Dunno, maybe, maybe not) But definitely have to come to a better understanding between them. Whether this is through a big row or with Prats becoming very hurt and then Krishna hearing all about her savirti act from TC or Kesar or both and then really melting and feeling awful about clawing at his darling... Dunno! but something's gotta give!
And whatever give's will definitely give us pleasure.

PS. Why is everybody finding AM fishy? I just think that it is in keeping with his character. He likes to shock and taking really dramatic decisions. Zara go-getting types hai na. Also I think the cv's don't want to do the regular bump into each other and courtship type thing. Just get them hitched and introduce the family! They have already started mentioning the family, so I supposed we will meet them before the week is out. Then the mystery about AM antecedents will be solved! 😆

Dyehard 🤗

Very plausible and beautifully written, you know so much about the plot, how how 😉

Why is Aman's marriage so rushed ??

is it bec ..Aman's has some ulterior design in pushing thru the marriage ...after all he is a sanskaari man, he would have been knowing that approach thru the elders is appropriate and respectable way os seeking an alliance ..

or

will Amarshi Marriage be the podium where Pratigya declares her love openly ..[If we are following the tit for tat approach..Krishna did come out openly during Nitin's Engagement ] ..Is that the reason for this hurry ??

Originally posted by: tanthya

Why is Aman's marriage so rushed ??

is it bec ..Aman's has some ulterior design in pushing thru the marriage ...after all he is a sanskaari man, he would have been knowing that approach thru the elders is appropriate and respectable way os seeking an alliance ..

or

will Amarshi Marriage be the podium where Pratigya declares her love openly ..[If we are following the tit for tat approach..Krishna did come out openly during Nitin's Engagement ] ..Is that the reason for this hurry ??

It amy be just coz of the smiple fact that we fans wudnt have had patience to watch Aman - Arushi in love ..such a track wud ahve been a no-no from us n CVs know this..

Originally posted by: HamiSky

It amy be just coz of the smiple fact that we fans wudnt have had patience to watch Aman - Arushi in love ..such a track wud ahve been a no-no from us n CVs know this..

and so may be they just brot in the track driectly marriage directly so that the pace doesnt love in the story...

its highly possible that this marriage gonna affect Kriya also...n they just came to the point in stead of dragging a few weeks on Aman n Arushi seing each other!

Hami,

That Is equally possible..Hami...

hence my wait and watch attitude ...I would like to clarify myself regarding this point..whether the plot line is such that Aman is in a Haste or whether the CV's are in a tearing hurry ...