Originally posted by: krishna_chalbo
Welcome Rahm. Great Post
I cldn't have agreed any less. They both have wronged.
Both of them are very immature to handle a complex relation like marriage.
Krishna is a child in a man's body who gets angry or starts throwing tantrums when things don't go his way. I wldn't agree with that he didn't try hard to find out why she hates him. In the beginning of the marriage he did try but Prats wld either choose to ignore him or would have a go at him but never tell him. But I guess u can say the cvs wanted it that way.
I was hoping that distance between them gives them time to think abt their marriage and make nec=cessary changes but then this drama so things won't happen so quickly
Welcome Rahm! Excellent Post!
Krishna_chalbo, you and I are on the same page. Krishna is clearly lost in finding a way out of the environment he grew up in. We all only live what we know from our experiences and it's a surprise he didn't turn out as bad or worse than his bro and Dad living in that paagalkhana.
Today was clearly a turning point in the relationship between father and son. It was clear that Krishna had lost some if not all respect for his bauji when he said "he is only my father". Tomorrow's preview of him grabbing SS by the hand shows that he is ready to stand against his bauji for Pratigya's sake.
Why would Prats marry a man whom she believes had kidnapped her? Once married and living in his house how didn't she figure out that some of his behavior was a product of his environment? She saw the way he was taunted and ridiculed and still it didn't seem to bother or matter to her.
Other than the foot massage incident she never once talked to him above the right way to behave.
What good can come out of punishing someone for their behavior when they don't know otherwise? She never attempted to explain the incidents that caused her to hate him.
You are absolutely right that both of them have made mistakes. Neither of them have the maturity to handle a marriage esp. one with saas-sasur like SS and Amma. This separation is an opportunity for both of them to look a good look at their marriage. She could have saved herself a lot of grief by teaching him the appropriate way to behave in little ways for a start. Remember there were times when he couldn't understand why anything he did for her was never appreciated?
She could have thanked him for the rabri later even if she didn't want to before she opened it.
It was a simple and meaningful gesture to her and her thanks could have gone a long way to giving him positive feedback. He was after all willing to do anything for Prats even go against the world for her.
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