Originally posted by: MERARAI
interesting topic - merarai👏👏👏
Why does Prats have a hard time talking about her problems with Krishna in a calm and rational manner? it's because of the misunderstaninf between them. Krishna is always interested in romance while pratigya is always fuming with angry or helplessness. She has no1 to scream and vent out her frustration so krishna is always a punching bag till he loses his kool and get's offensive
secondly, they never got time to talk, as either one of them always used to be upset with the other.
Why does she expect him to understand everything she is going through without telling him about it? cause she thinks she is in this jungle family bacause of him so it's his responsibility to understand her!!🥱 Why does she refuse to answer his questions and just stare at him? her way of showing attitude!😆
Why does she always go for theatrics in proving her point? The havans seem to do it. May be the fire or smoke makes her speak up?She loves the attention, probably the holy fire gives her the strength to stand her ground!!
Krishna tried to say she won't go anywhere and will stay at the house and they will talk it out. Even Nainaji and Prof. wanted her to work things out with Krishna until SS began his tirade.
Why did Krishna back off when SS ranted about Prats wanting to leave the house? Was it bec' he didn't want to be humiliated by his father any further or humiliate his father in front of his sasural?Krishna himself was going through a lot, he was no less humiliated and insulted by his own father infront of the whole family, questions were raised on his mardhangi and even his love for pratigya!!
He never expected in his worst nightmare that pratigya will EVER think about leaving let alone say it.
He was shocked and dumbfounded, he thought it's best keeping quite
She played along with the lie and then turned around and blamed Krishna for her incapacity to speak up when the lie started? Why didn't she out the lie earlier on? She has a pattern for lying in the past. So how is it Krishna's fault that she couldn't stand up and speak? More like her character flaw. Frankly speaking Pratigya unknowly is used to Krishna support and hence going against him and telling the truth was difficult task for her. Moreover she was scared of him and knew that he is the only one who will stand by her infront of her inlaws so pursuing Krishna to tell the truth seemed the best option for her!!
She had many opportunities to speak the truth but she was just waiting for the d-day!😲
She outright lied about him supporting his family and not supporting her? Either she has amnesia or she doesn't want to acknowledge he has stood by her. Why would she have a problem with admitting he has stood by her in the past in very dramatic ways, at the name change havan, when Sakthi came to hit her twice, etc. Again i think she belives it was his duty to stand by her and it is no big deal compared to the problems she and her family faced because of him!!! she only finds his faults and never hers! strange woman, i tell you!
Why is Krishna so needy of Pratigya?Krishna loves pratigya and he was in love with the girl he had created in his mind! HE never actually met her before her engagement day with Nitin. From the very beginning Krishna had wrongly interpreted pratigya's reactions, he always saw pratigya in the light he wanted to see her. That's the reason he got a shock of his life when pratigya slapped him and even failed to recognise on her engagement day!!! Heloves her but he doen't know how best to take care of her and praigya does not help by her silence either!
He loves her but does it make sense to live with someone who hates him with a passion?He never really made an efforts to understand the reason behind her hatred, he always wanted to believe she is just hiding her love! Why did he say "mei sab ko chod saktha hoon, but Pratigyaji ko nahi chod saktha?" What was it about her that has himwilling to be tortured by her behavior towards him yet not able to let her go? there can be many reasons to this firstly his love for pratigya secondly his ego how can he let of the trophy he acquired with so much of difficult. Thirdly it raises questions on his "true love" for pratigya!
krishna is very naive when it comes to matters of heart, his upbringing never taught him to love, respect and appreciate a woman! He does what his heart tells him to. He never thinks twice before hitting her because he was not taught it was ever wrong to hit a woman!
Inspite of being married both Krishna and pratigya hardly know anything about the other, they need time to reflect back on their actions and acknowledge that they both have been wrong! Pratigya going to her maykaa is the best time for this!!
cheers
Kai