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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: -athena-



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Welcome to the club....Exactly 3 weeks back when I first came to this forum this was my reaction too and it still is....There are posts saying 'so what if he R's she is wife only na😲'There were people who wanted Prat to be R-ed by Shakti so that she will know the difference between the mahaan Krishna and Shakti...there are posts about how Aarushi should be R-ed by Angad or Shakti so that she will come to her real aukaat...and umpteen other posts in the similar lines...However, don't worry...all hope is not lost YET...Just come around more and try to participate in the discussions more...😃



Hiii!!! Thanks for replying! I have read a few of ur posts and I loved them.. ur like one of the few sane voices out here 😃

Tell me about it!!! I am shocked I am angry and I didn't know what to do so I wrote this post LOL
I am a feminist and its really hard for me to accept all this 😕 I read a post in which some girl wanted Arushi to be kidnapped by angad just because she is unhappy about the whole situation Pratigya is in and is not dancing with joy about the baby news. How can girls be so cruel towards another girl yar 😕 it just makes me soo sad and depressed that our society is still so regressive and ppl especially women still feel that if a woman opens her mouth she'll be abused or raped and the husband will be perfectly justified 😒 I know its just a show but its still sad

I'll surely try and particiapte more if there are more ppl like u here 😊


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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: kaasshh

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each and evry wrd is correct.....😳
we need to be patient and watch it...
i thnk that television had made us so saturated with the same types of thngs...and we cnt evn judge besides only right and only wrong.....if krishna is taken to a psychologist......😆 he/she wud nvr call him U R BAD......bt the doctyor will try to make him realise that wat he did was wrong.....
in other wrds.....noone is evil frm birth....except few like angad,shakti.....
krishna has some good points in him.....the CVS hva shown it to us......and we all want to wait for him to become a PERFECT HUMAN BEING IN DUE TIME...dATS WHY WE R STILL THERE FOR HIM.....😳
OF COURSE NT SUPPORTING HIS ACTs......😳



Kaash...if you are not supporting his acts...then what are you supporting???😕

And if so much criticism is there against Krishna...what do you think they are against???His acts ONLY....Any person is judged by his acts and not by looks....

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Posted: 15 years ago
#23

Originally posted by: -athena-



Beyond what is shown???😲...Haven't you seen the disgusting scene on Friday and today???😲

I don't even know what you were laughing about...Which kidnapping are you talking about??😕

pratigya's kidnapping......wich was done by angad....
actually i dnt understand.....one thng....
if a person is SICK...mentally....for his upbringing and his way of seeing the wrld.....krishna is PSYCHOLOGICALLY SICK..... bt instead of just pointing out his flaws.....we shud try and wait for him to improve...... the gud qualities he has in him....u wudnt deny it also......maybe are nt too much for pratigya...whu comes frm a sophisticated society bt......for the thakurs...IT QUITE A LOT.........
why do u thnk SS and amma get so angry with krishna if they hear him or see him doing somethng good for pratigya?
becoz they had nvr SEEN such thngs in their whole life.....Shocked A MAN TRYING TO DO SUMTHNG FOR HIS WIFE.....
they had always witnessed...beating,marital rape,etc etc.....
so krishna being frm SUCH a family has somethng in him WICH IS OF COURSE DISTINGUISHABLE....
if we point out those good qualities...then maybe this person may have a chance to improve😳
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: tanthya



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Athena :

I really was not trying to be rude ...I was genuinely puzzled by her post ...she posed a question ,and seemed to provide an adequate answer herself .... My reply was in highlighting this very fact.. there was no malicious intent behind hit ...


@ Almost Honest : 🤗





@Allahabadi dialects: lol...but how can you learn those in the shock expression threads???😛😆

@Arhaan: Yes he is a wonderful actor...A complete natural.....And can I take it as all your support for Krishna is because you see Arhaan in him???😉


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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: kaasshh

pratigya's kidnapping......wich was done by angad....

actually i dnt understand.....one thng....
if a person is SICK...mentally....for his upbringing and his way of seeing the wrld.....krishna is PSYCHOLOGICALLY SICK..... bt instead of just pointing out his flaws.....we shud try and wait for him to improve...... the gud qualities he has in him....u wudnt deny it also......maybe are nt too much for pratigya...whu comes frm a sophisticated society bt......for the thakurs...IT QUITE A LOT.........
why do u thnk SS and amma get so angry with krishna if they hear him or see him doing somethng good for pratigya?
becoz they had nvr SEEN such thngs in their whole life.....😲 A MAN TRYING TO DO SUMTHNG FOR HIS WIFE.....
they had always witnessed...beating,marital rape,etc etc.....
so krishna being frm SUCH a family has somethng in him WICH IS OF COURSE DISTINGUISHABLE....
if we point out those good qualities...then maybe this person may have a chance to improve😳



Ummm Kaash you are confusing between the real and reel...Why should 'WE' support Krishna for him to improve and become good???We are the audience/viewers and our thing is to discuss the show with what is being shown....How can a fictional character change just because his audiences are really understanding???

We all know where Krishna is coming from...and so are Angad and Shakti...then why are people hating on Angad and Shakti???Why can't they love on them as well and wait for them to change???How is Krishna any different from Shakti in 'raping' and 'woman abuse'???😕

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Posted: 15 years ago
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well...i cn say one thng....those whu r against prats and saying nasty thngs..i guess most of them are under the age grup 15..or so....am sympathetic to both the characters.....i thnk that its nt only pratigya whu shud be sympathised bt krishna too.......😕 if i try to say anythng abt krishna's background u people will say that am trying to justify his actions...bt NOOOOOOOOOO....am NOOOOOOOTTTt..... noone cn evr justify a rape attempt...if it was really shown i wud have left the show ryt then.....
bt...they didnt show krishna doing it....wich dus nt imply that he is a saint...bt it implies that he HVE got a point to return.....
another reason for wich i thnk people cannot support pratigya is becoz of the negligence the CVs show to her character....😕


Why do you feel sympathy for Krishna? I don't think Krishna's background can be blamed yar 😕 If that's the case than Pratigya and even Aadarsh are perfectly justified if they don't like their respective spouses.. since they are from an educated family and are not used to living with such ppl ... but still ppl expect Pratigya to forget her background and fall for Krishna


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Posted: 15 years ago
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@ athena and 2almosthonest...
maybe i am a fan of arhaan...bt i dont love krishna for arhaan......
theres a history to it....i thnk u have seen films like darr,anjam....of shahrukh?
it always used to prick me to see the endings of such people....... these people are mentally sick....and they do not require the jail....they require....DOCTORS.......
HUMAN BEING'S LIVES are nt somethng vry cheap.......each and evry life has its own importance...... that is why for evn murderers we in india undergo psychological analysis.....
krishna IS a distinguishable guy....... if pratigya stops her BADLA thng and try to look into the matter more carefully...well i thnk she alredy knows the reason WHY krishna IS like this.......
i wud love to see her changing this krishna...with her love,her care and her mental strength........THATS WAT I WANT FRM THE SHOW.....
NT REVENGE.........
u cn take revenge frm a person whu knows that he is wrong and does those thngas deliberately....bt U CANNOT TAKE REVENGE FRM A PERSON WHU DOES NT EVN REALISE HIS MISTAKES......there r other ways to deal with such people.......one has to be vry strong enuf......
I DNT THNK THAT BEING A WOMAN MEANS THAT WE ONLY SHUD SHOUT FOR OUR RIGHTS AND TAKE REVENGE WEN IT IS NT GIVEN......a woman shud have these qualities in her too
sympathetic,understanding,caring,lovable......and most important..STRONG.....
if i wud have been in pratigya's place...i wud have slapped him back and say-------just becoz i am ur wife..u dnt have a ryt to do this to me.......U SHUD UNDERSTAND THAT I AM FRST A HUMAN BEING..THEN UR WIFE.......
it wud have had some impact on krishna....rather than repeating the same dialogue of ----I HATE U KRISHNA.......😊
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Posted: 15 years ago
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well...i cn say one thng....those whu r against prats and saying nasty thngs..i guess most of them are under the age grup 15..or so....am sympathetic to both the characters.....i thnk that its nt only pratigya whu shud be sympathised bt krishna too.......😕 if i try to say anythng abt krishna's background u people will say that am trying to justify his actions...bt NOOOOOOOOOO....am NOOOOOOOTTTt..... noone cn evr justify a rape attempt...if it was really shown i wud have left the show ryt then.....
bt...they didnt show krishna doing it....wich dus nt imply that he is a saint...bt it implies that he HVE got a point to return.....
another reason for wich i thnk people cannot support pratigya is becoz of the negligence the CVs show to her character....😕


Why do you feel sympathy for Krishna? I don't think Krishna's background can be blamed yar 😕 If that's the case than Pratigya and even Aadarsh are perfectly justified if they don't like their respective spouses.. since they are from an educated family and are not used to living with such ppl ... but still ppl expect Pratigya to forget her background and fall for Krishna


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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: tanthya




Almost Honest ;

Krishna supported Pratigya without undergoing any changes himself ...,he did not support her out any conviction or in sympathy of her cause ..,He supported her only b'cos he was attracted to her ...The need of the hour is for him to change first ...and for him to change we need to know his negative traits ,his grey shades .....and I think the CV"s are busy depicting this ...before long ,he will hit rock bottom [has he hit already ??] and then slowly ,painfully he will change ...Pratigya can be there for him ,to guide,to provide solace and support etc,etc, but true change should come within ...that can only happen when you acknowledge your faults ...and Krishna is very far from that ...I think I am deviating ...😳

You can hate/dislike a person when you know that the character who is committing this crime realises that it is a wrong thing to do ....but here the thakurs think ,it is their God given right to abuse ...one can only shake our head in bewiderment , empathize with females ,loose of some swears and pray for the best 😕



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Almost dishonest ji😉....@the underline: NOT really...There are so many terrorists, thieves and other criminals who totally justify themselves and NEVER realize their crimes....you mean to say people are supposed to love them???


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Posted: 15 years ago
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well...i cn say one thng....those whu r against prats and saying nasty thngs..i guess most of them are under the age grup 15..or so....am sympathetic to both the characters.....i thnk that its nt only pratigya whu shud be sympathised bt krishna too.......😕 if i try to say anythng abt krishna's background u people will say that am trying to justify his actions...bt NOOOOOOOOOO....am NOOOOOOOTTTt..... noone cn evr justify a rape attempt...if it was really shown i wud have left the show ryt then.....
bt...they didnt show krishna doing it....wich dus nt imply that he is a saint...bt it implies that he HVE got a point to return.....
another reason for wich i thnk people cannot support pratigya is becoz of the negligence the CVs show to her character....😕


Why do you feel sympathy for Krishna? I don't think Krishna's background can be blamed yar 😕 If that's the case than Pratigya and even Aadarsh are perfectly justified if they don't like their respective spouses.. since they are from an educated family and are not used to living with such ppl ... but still ppl expect Pratigya to forget her background and fall for Krishna


becoz they only said in the story that IT IS A UNIQUE LOVE STORY WITH TWO UNMATCHED PEOPLE FALLING FOR EACH OTHER.....so that is wat we r expecting nah? so where r we wrong?Confused
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