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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: teddyrumi

WOW!!!!!

Thank you for opening a thread which condemns these behaviours rather the promoting it...
I stopped coming to this forums when I started reading abour Arushi and how she needs to be slapped or abused by Angad and Shakti or she should just get married to Angad.
It is sickening to read that us Women actually support these behaviour, forgetting that these behaviour is infact really horrifying.
I remember reading a comment on youtube regarding arushi's behaviour when Krishna beat Angad up, i admit Arushi's behaviour was wrong but the reason behind the reaction is expected since Krishna did the same thing to Pratigya and the only reason why Prags married him was to stop him doing that.
Also that Article on FB, OMG i am so distrubed right now.... i can not imagine the pain that poor child went through and in the end such a horrofying death.
I hope, what you wanted to achive with this thread is achieved and people open their eyes and mind and actually think twice in what they are saying.
If they cant do that then i hope they can explain to me, how is rape or abuse EVER justified?



Thank you dear! 😊 I am also glad there are some people still on this forum whom understands that it's wrong to treat a woman like that! The only reason I remain in this forum is because of the friends here, otherwise I would have long left this forum!

Although truth to be told, I am not a fan of Arushi as she seriously gets on my last nerves. It doesn't mean that it's right to make a joke out of her by hoping for her to get kidnapped by Shakti and Angad.

The FB article is so disturbing! I know 🤢
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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: Mightymouse

To the creater of this post words cant describe how much I appreciate you posting this fragile issue which is plaguing our women everyday !! And yeah its a damn shame when people esp girls justify his actions when it comes to beating or close to raping emotionally threatening or abusing someone else or claiming them as his properties .. I am a DIE HARD BABA FAN and it doesnt make me any less of a fan if what I see he is doing as wrong when it clearly is wrong !!!

Thank you so much! 😛 Exactly my point! I mean I also really like Krishna but then in situations when he is wrong, I will admit he is. It doesn't make me any less of a fan. It just shows that I am not biased! = ]
Its sad na when its mostly women that support ANY situation in which a man puts his hands on a woman? I dont care if it even is her fault u dont ever raise your hands on a woman! HECK, You never raise your hand on anyone! I dont care if its patrigya u dont hit another human being if they r giving u enuff respect and not hitting you themselves !!!

Yeah! I don't understand how its possible for a woman to support such fragile actions. Instead of being more passionate towards Pratigya, people are justifying his actions and blindly supporting him!
This is of topic but I remb when the salman-aish issue broke out alot of his fans esp girls were completely blindly saying no he couldnt and IF he did she probably did something to anger him ...I dont know who was right or if it happened but to straight up say he can never do that how do u know? and to stright up say i support him no matter what thats crazinesss !!!

Yeah I don't know the true story of their background. But it's wrong to assume both ways. To say he did that without evidence is wrong and to say that he didn't without evidence is also wrong. Oh well that's in the passed. LOL I love Salman Khan! 😳
It makes me wonder if girls who say stuff like tht will even stay in a relationship if a guy hits them? I mean its easier said than done if u say yea but srsly no man can ever put his hands on me and abuse me like that ...



Hm some girls who find abuse and etc 'hot' usually say that because they have also been in an abusive relationship. Some girls tend to get used to the violence and therefore even if they break up, the girl would look for relationships with men who are abusive!

Thank you for your lovely comment! 😛
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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: halifax004

I actually have no words to describe this post you said it all 👏 All these posts that were favoring Krishna made me really mad, I was thinking how can people as in girls/women be so blind Thank you for at least opening their eyes. I remember last year in my school I had to do public speeches in class and I did mine on "Women rights" therefore I completely support you on this. Cheers for creating such a beautiful post 🥳👏

PS: I loved the poem and I also joined the group on face book.





Thank you dear! 😳😛

Yes those people who were blidnly accepting all of Krishna's flaws infuriated me! And thus i made this thread in strict opposition to their thoughts. Although looking at various new threads and comments, i'm still quite upset to see that some people have still not changed.

Yes, I've also done a speech on domestic violence and since I love doing speeches, my one was so passionate! 😆 I have a soft spot for domestic violence, and get easily angry and fired up when the topic arises!

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: siinnce.09



<font color="#330066">Thank you dear! 😳😛</font>

<font color="#330066">Yes those people who were blidnly accepting all of Krishna's flaws infuriated me! And thus i made this thread in strict opposition to their thoughts. Although looking at various new threads and comments, i'm still quite upset to see that some people have still not changed.

Yes, I've also done a speech on domestic violence and since I love doing speeches, my one was so passionate! 😆 I have a soft spot for domestic violence, and get easily angry and fired up when the topic arises! </font>



even i got mad but instead of fighting it. i jsut went away.. i know we shouldnt do that and u no what.. i learned my lesson.. one person can make a difference to ATLEAST one person
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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: siinnce.09


I have seriously had enough with the biased posts being created in this forum! Reading such threads that promote violence against women has horrified me beyond words! I am currently ashamed of being a woman!

This show is portraying the violation and abuse of a woman's rights! And instead of voicing out your concern, individuals are supporting it! If your going to tell me to 'relax' and that it's just a 'show' then save your voice because I'm not interested! A show it may indeed be but how is it fictional?

Physically abusing a woman! is that fiction or fact?
Verbally abusing a woman! is that fiction or fact?
Dominating a woman! is that fiction or fact?
Mentally violating a woman with threats! is that fiction or fact?
Portraying women as sexual objects! is that fiction or fact?
Raping a woman because they are seen as inferior! fiction or fact!?

You tell me! All those mentioned above is not fiction, it's fact! So stop supporting such actions! The irony of it all is the people who are justifying Krishna's actions actually hate Shakti and Angad! Funny isn't it? If Angad kidnaps a woman then 'oh my god he is a monster!' But if Krishna mistreats a woman then 'oh my god my krishuuu is not bad, Pratigya and so what are to blame!'If Shakti hits his wife or rapes her, 'oh my god I hate Shakti etc' but if Krishna 'attempts' to force himself upon Pratigya then 'it's not his fault! '

A question i'd really like to ask. To what extent should Krishna go to before you guys admit that he is bad? Because all of the bad things his done, everyone still justifies it! How unfair is that! Krishna actually has to rape Pratigya or murder her, for someone to admit that his actions are wrong! The fact that the actual deed is not done, makes him good? The mitigating factors are not taken into consideration? This is similar to the cops! They won't do anything until the deed has been done. What a corrupted justice system!

Us girls should sit there and wait for someone to actually completely hurt us in order for people to stand up and support us?

Why are we being biased and overlooking a characters flaws? I understand some may love him but c'mon when something is wrong, it's damn wrong!

Fight for women's rights and say no to domestic violence! Your input may help to motivate abused women to stand up on their own feet and fight against it!

Read this poem people! 😭 Do not justify acts like these.

I Got Flowers Today



I got flowers today.
It wasn't my birthday or any other special day.
We had our first argument last night,
And he said a lot of cruel things that really hurt me.
I know he is sorry and didn't mean the things he said.
Because he sent me flowers today.

I got flowers today.
It wasn't our anniversary any other special day.
Last night, he threw me into a wall and started to choke me.
It seemed like a nightmare.
I couldn't believe it was real.
I woke up this morning sore and bruised all over.
I know he must be sorry.
Because he sent me flowers today.

I got flowers today,
and it wasn't Mother's Day or any other special day.
Last night, he beat me up again.
And it was much worse than all the other times.
If I leave him, what will I do?
How will I take care of my kids?
What about money?
I'm afraid of him and scared to leave.
But I know he must be sorry.
Because he sent me flowers today.

I got flowers today.
Today was a very special day.
It was the day of my funeral.
Last night, he finally killed me.
He beat me to death.
If only I had gathered enough courage and strength to leave him,
I would not have gotten flowers...today.

By Paulette Kelly


It happens guys, and this show is proving it. I'm not telling you to stop loving Krishna. Love him all you want but stop justifying his acts. And stop blaming the women! And if you continue to support Krishna's actions after reading this, then i'm just going to go and hit my head against the wall!

edited - also I have an article for you people, so if you have facebook you can see the page. Press the 'read more' button and actually read what happened to her on day 1, day 11 etc.

http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=104786470334&v=info

Warning - this is 'not' for people who have fragile hearts. This is the most sickest case I have ever read in the history of my whole life. And me being quite strong at will broke down when I read it.




OMG, i can't believe i missed this post!!! i have nothing more to say, accept:
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GREATEST POST I HAVE EVER READ ON THE INTERNET!!!!!! NOW CAN I PLEASE REACH OUT, AND HUG YOU??? 🤗🤗 lol.
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Posted: 15 years ago
Pricey, that's what I felt like too when I read this post...😃

@Samira: I have nothing to add to what you and everyone else wrote here in this thread...and just like Pricey I too want to hug you for such an awesome post and thread...haha....That poem tugged at my heart and needless to say, I couldn't bring myself to clicking on that link after reading your disclaimer for it...I am really really weak at heart about certain things....

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Posted: 15 years ago
You better love loving you better behave
You better love loving you better behave
Woman in Chains
Woman in Chains

Calls her man the Great White Hope
Says she's fine, she'll always cope
Woman in Chains
Woman in Chains

Well I fell lying and waiting is a poor man's deal
And I feel hopelessly weighed down by your eyes of steel
It's a world gone crazy
Keeps Woman in Chains

Trades her soul as skin and bone
Sells the only thing she owns
Woman in Chains
Woman in Chains

Men of Stone Men of Stone

Well I feel deep in your heart there are wounds Time can't heal
And I feel somebody somewhere is trying to breathe
Well you know what I mean
It's a world gone crazy
Keeps Woman in Chains

It's under my skin but out of my hands
I'll tear it apart but I won't understand
I will not accept the Greatness of Man

It's a world gone crazy
Keeps Woman in Chains

So Free Her So Free Her
-By Tears For Fears

-Samira I think you will like these song lyrics.
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Posted: 15 years ago
its plain sad. PERIOD.
never posted in this forum...but ur post made me CRY. Couldn't bear to read bout tht girl...my heart will like tear apart...but heard bout it from my frnd & i still get shaken when i think bout it. All i can say is now can i give u a hug?🤗
Edited by _-sHoNaa-_ - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago

Hey Samira...since every1 read ur post..obs its way too good to miss..

did u perhaps read the book "Beloved" ? I think for all those who love krishna shud read the book "Beloved" The pains she goes thru..i cant even imagine. Rape or attempt of rape is horrible..same happened to the lady..but worse...n i was surprised in today epi...Prats didnt do anything..she didnt take any action..she just looked tensed for the havan...(the Pooja). I didnt have any words..the lady who supports womens rights cud not give herself justice? n even when she speaks..she sounds like shes lecturing him..there a way to tackle these things..apart from tackling it w/ a monotonic voice..(its easy for me to say cuz im not her position..) but...idk. The show for me is losing its interest esp w/ the whole pregnancy thing.
Edited by sanaya11 - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
Kiran...THANK YOU so much for making this thread into a sticky....Looks like the good days are here for the Pratigya forum..🤗

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