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Are you honestly trying to equate a girl slapping a gate-crashing hooligan who has come to ravage her engagement day to a husband slapping a law-fully wedded wife in front of the whole family for trying to keep a lie alive?
I mean really?? There is no diffference in the way you treat an antisocial trying to disrupt your life and your wife? Wow.
I have not picking sides here about this issues with who is right or wrong. Hitting a gareeb goonda is what started a spiral in Prats's life. She can't pin that on anyone else. The law of nature.....actions have consequences. Life is all about choices and living with the consequences that arise out of those choices. As humans we err and we learn from it and move on.
I am saying that abuse of any form dealt by man or woman cannot be justified except in extreme cases of life or death. In this drama, in both cases, the situation was not extreme to justify either one of them slapping the other. There were other options available. There were a room full of people to support and defend her. Strength of character does mean slapping a stranger at an engagement party publicly, nor does it mean publicly humiliating one's spouse in public. Both of them need to examine their own behaviors and figure out why they are pushing each other's buttons and why they are reacting to each other the way they do.
Only then do they have a chance to forgive each other for past mistakes and misunderstandings, and rebuild their relationship or go their separate ways. It's up to them to figure out if they matter to each other at all enough to build a healthy marriage.
Cricket
