Originally posted by: cimba
well, girls it is not even about the books a person studies. I understand that it is not only hard to be nice to a person you despise ,but it is close to impossible. That motto in life that common sense tells you will not work in this case. One has to bend first and make the other one understand the bigger picture.->assuming 'the other one' is NOT Krishna, this can definitely work! Coz for Krishna, no matter how small or big the picture is, it doesnt matter if its something he DOES NOT WANT to SEE or HEAR - HE WONT SEE IT even if its dancing naked in front of him 🤣
Hoping that Prats has seen world outside Alhabad and seen what some what normal life is all about so she is a candidate to take charge of their life and make it work. -> SURE, Pratigya has been all AROUND THE WORLD for all I care, BUT, Yaarrr!!! HOW many unique 'bandas' like Krishna nd his family has she ever seen in her so-called tour around the world??? If they were nything like Pratigya has seen before, we wouldnt have the drama to begin with, quoting a certain someone 😆😆😆
As we know that Krishna is willing to almost anything to make Prats happy -> I used to think so too 😍, but now a days, Krishna gives me the feeling that He is willing to do almost NYTHING to make himself happy and believe that Pratigya is in love with him 🤣
Hoping she is wiser and smarter so will put her ego aside and make things work for her. Otherwise she can be miserable and make everyone around her miserable with her. Her parents who she did this big sacrifice will not be happy watching her suffer so if not for anything else she should compromise for them. -> DISAGREE here...I think more than Krishna being illiterate and uncivilized, Krishna's egoistic and naive thinkings like HE-the KING/Prince-Charming of Elahabad 🤣-loves her so she should feel herself as THE LUCKY ONE and MUST love him back ; doing her a favor by marrying her being a lower-cast and going against his family (never saw Pratigya asking u to do so, dear Krishna 😛); him being her husband, she MUST respect and love him back ...when he can continue to ruin her self-respect every now and then 😒 and etc. etc...are clouding his mind to see why she doesnt love him or thinks of his love as illusion and even though he is illiterate and uncivilized - and he knows that himself too!- I think he needs to start changing his own naive/wrong/egoistic thinkings and then change Pratigya's views of him and his love, which I think will happen automatically once he starts to understand his wrongs...😍
AND if Pratigya (she IS definitely the wiser and smarter one 😃) was really being egoistic, I think she would have done her BESTEST 😆 to show how much of an illiterate and uncivilized people Krishna and his family are whenever she spoke to him/them (I think, she only talked against his family members personalities when she asked him y couldnt he marry some-one like himself etc.) ...instead she chose to give him silent-treatment and confront him (speak her true feelings for him)a few times and u call that ego! hmmmmm...quite interesting! 🤪
SHE wont be miserable ONLY if Krishna didnt insult her with short breaks of forcing his love on her and that hardly helps her to want to talk to him about nything at all!!!
I also think that Pratigya has done enough of compromising, be it for her family or Krishna and his family - if ny one needs to compromise now, its Krishna... and PLZ! Protecting her from the wrongs of his own family and NOT hitting her or touching her or forcing himself on her DOES NOT count as compromise - coz, those are all the proofs that he loves her and his love is not an obsession or lust! Not a proof that he understands where he went wrong in expressing his love for Pratigya... Yeah, its a compromise with himself - given his nasty temper... BUT he needs to compromise for Pratigya. exactly like Varun said in today's episode - He shouldnt touch her bcoz he doesnt WANT to do nything she doesnt want him to do NOT bcoz he is angry at her and is thinking that he could have done much worse etc...
Don't take me wrong i completely understand and have been in a situation in my life that i rather die than see certain person's face. Thinking all in the past and with another perspective in life ,it is a small price to pay for her own sake. She will be stressed and unhappy -> Yup! I thought thats why she was giving him silent-treatment, wasnt she ? ie.for her own sake - coz talking to Krishna makes her stressed and unhappy and after a few tries she also learned that it doesnt have ny effect on that guy - Krishna only sees and hears what he wants to, then why talk and waste ur breath when u dont even want to...I know u might be talking about long-term ie she has her whole future ahead, BUT I think Pratigya considered her future as ruined when she decided to marry Krishna ie. for her there is no future at all and Krishna's physical violence and insults and Amma - only makes it soo easy for her to change her mind and dream of a new future 😔.....
I would say take it one day at a time and move it forward from this point on. Only challange for her would be how much she can transform Krishna to her own likings. He is willing to do a lot for her and her happiness -> as long as it makes him believe that she is in love with him ie makes him the happy one...I used to think that Pratigya will change Krishna but not nymore...Now, Me thinks ONLY BABA himself is capable of waking himself up from his denials and changing himself IF he WANTS to do so, of course! 😆...and Pratigya will definitely be the REASON for whom he will WANT to change himself...coz, so far, Pratigya's professorayi didnt work on Krishna 🤣
Make it work baby..... and further it is not like she has too many choices left unless she wants a divorce. -> Yeah RIGHT!!! Like Krishna will ever let her do THAT 😆...And I think even if Pratigya doesnt understand/believe in Krishna's soo innocent love for her, SHE knows and understands very well atleast one of Krishna's characteristics - his stubbornness and one-way thinking!!!! PLUS, Me dont wants to see ny divorce in this serial 😛...SO, KriYa will definitely work out sometime in the FAAAAAAARRRRR future . Until then, lets enjoy the way the two of them get to that FAAAAAAARRRRRRRRR future.... 😍
PS: Hope I didnt offend ny member while expressing my opinions...ThAnX for reading!!!😃