Whose grief do you identify more? - Page 2

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Ofcourse it is DV my dear. In this context I would say, "People should love those who deserved to be loved." For Saanchi, it was never DV in first place, but for DV it was always Saanchi. What a dumb Saanchi!!
Edited by aparna37 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Given the kind of person I am I more associate with Saachi's way of grieving. It is not that her way is better or not. But just to answer your question.
I am a person who cannot be very loud and outwardly when it comes to expressions. I generally keep things to myself unless and until it gets impossible to contain in me.
Though I have seen people who will take to drinking and screaming and abusing and not being in their senses when they are hurt.
The bottom line is that they both are suffering and it needs to end (as I always want happy ending so their reunion)😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I voted for Saachi coz both is not an option but I agree both are suffering one is very vocal about it and the other is subdued. But the pain is there for everyone to feel.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Its not mutually exclusive... Basically you cannot love only saachi and leave DV or vice versa... both are the two important wheels of this love story... So I do not see why one has to identify only with one character...

The way one feels or shows differs from character to character and both DV and Saachi are very much in their characters while expressing this grief...
DV due to the rich back ground he has, has the luxury of sitting without doing any work and grief whole day... Though his dad and bro are taking his work load... previously also he did not associate or take work or family business that seriously...
where as Saachi is the bread winner so she has to keep her day to day work going on and being the lead of the family she cannot tumble and sit and cry - it effects the morale of the other members of the family.
eg: my maid when her hubby passed away was back to work after 15 days because then only she can feed her kids.. she did not have luxury to sit and mourn for ages.
Edited by ApoorvaFan - 11 years ago

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