SamRAT is what he is and to expect him to change overnight is expecting the Sun to rise from the West.
His character is and has been consistent from the very beginning. He is a RAT and he will stay that way.
It is too early for Urmi to realize the true ugly side of SamRAT because she is still in her honeymoon stage where she feels that her love and understanding will change him.
She is too easily placated by gifts and little attention to really comprehend that SamRAT is going to be a tough nut to crack.
She did question him today and was told off pretty brutally and she was hurt but as soon as she saw the Honeymoon papers she was happy again.
Her naivete and his extreme nature will clash as soon as Urmi takes off her rose coloured glasses and sees him for what he really is. Till then she will be on this emotional roller coaster where he hurts her by his arrogance and harsh words and pacifies her with a few trinkets and physical closeness.
Lets hope the CV's of this show take this story line to it's proper conclusion and do not sugar coat it in the end like most other shows where the saying goes ...
"Alls Well That Ends Well"