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TitanFan

@TitansFan

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Posted: 11 years ago

Hello Folks,

Well this is the second time, I am making post on same topic, first when sandhya looked down at suraj in initial days, well wow back to square one are we now...

Oh man, what was his old alliance was so proud of her independence and being partial successful? haye rabba, Suraj being a calm person would never utter a word and he would never dig up past as thats him, but the again i loved bhaboo for superbly using surf in washing that gal...even suraj has done amazingly well than her and bhaboo showed the gal same, but suraj isnt flashing around, and said see i am uneducated and did this and that , though why her?

why is that one always tend to look down at people who are uneducated? while there are many examples in recent days, where every one knows some uneducated ones being more intelligent and full of ideas and successful than educated ones, and not every of them flash their success and are down to humble in nature.

only as one is not educated makes them no body and others right to look them down? will one ever stop this looking down on uneducated people? I say Never, as i see it happen daily

wow i rem many words being used in before same topic too...

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shruthiravi

@shruthiravi

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Posted: 11 years ago

@chillmaaryaar Kavitha didnt humilate Sooraj in anyway. She just told she had a dream and she wanted to pursue it. Maybe she didnt feel she could do that marrying Sooraj and she admitted her method was wrong. She was just trying to give the reason for running away from marriage mandap. Maybe she felt she owed him an explanation. She said she wanted to call him, but then was apprehensive. She told her decision not to marry him was right and if you look from her POV she is right indeed. We can say Sandhya has gone for IPS training, but how far she will have the career within Bhabo's clutches. Already in training she looks lost and under pressure. Post IPS she will leave a pressure cooker life which she has led for 2 yrs. Even Sandhya was agitated when she knew about Sooraj. She cried out in frustration and she didnt accept him and it was a very very slow acceptance from her. Kavitha instead opted out for her dream. She had every right for the same.

And what Bhabo did was wrong. She had no right to publicly humiliate the girl. It is time DABH showed a girl also has right to reject and her rejection does not make her guilty. But should not reject the way Kavitha did running away on marriage day.

And one more thing for all the respect I have for Sooraj I havent forgiven him for drowning himself on Bhabo's order without thinking a minute about Sandhya. Yes if you assess Sooraj from that incident a woman can very well do without a husband who is willing to die for his mother without thinking about the 7 vows given to his wife.

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HalleNJ

@HalleNJ

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Posted: 11 years ago

nice post, agree with you...

shruthi what kavitha did is wrong...you can't compare what she did to suraj and her very own parents with suraj's drowning incident...one is deliberate and selfish, another is pure stupidity...also one did not bother about parents, another overly cared for them...

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UMDU

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Posted: 11 years ago

Excellent post. I totally agree with you. While Kavita has a right to decide what she wants to do with her life, she did that at the cost of causing distress to her family and the RP. On the top of it she embarks upon an unwarranted explanation for her actions where Suraj was clearly not interested. While Bhabo may be faulted for a lot of things, this was clearly not wrong. Being loud is a part of her DNA. Kavita needed some lessons in home truths and be told that while she is much better off running away from the mandap to pursue her dreams, Suraj also is doing extremely well in his life be it his profession or having got a golden hearted girl like Sandhya as a life partner. Regarding Bhabo's other actions, she is from an old school of thought and that got reinforced because of SurYa kowtowing before her most of the times. When Suraj refused he did get his way and Sandhya is IPS now. If a person becomes unreasonable the person committing injustice is as guilty as the person tolerating it especially when they are financially independent. The hallmark of today's outburst was Bhabo praising Sandhya, clearly indicating no matter what her harshness may be outwardly in her heart Sandhya has definitely made a special place.

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shruthiravi

@shruthiravi

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Posted: 11 years ago

Kavitha's gesture look wrong from the perspective people look at it. Most people are trying to look at it from the perspective of she over emphasiszing on her achievements. No she was not doing that. She was guilty of taking the decision the way she took. She tells her method was not right. Maybe from that day she wanted to give Sooraj an explanation for her decision.Maybe she felt she owed him one. She said she wanted to call him , but didnt know what to say when she called him. She had not expected to meet him in the train, and when she met she tried to give explanation which was unplanned one which became animated and didnt turn out right.

Did she talk anything about his education. Did she talk anything about he is not good or anything. She just wanted to take a burden of her heart that she didnt gave him an explanation. But yes train was not appropriate place to do it and she tried it in a wrong way.

RP didnt had any faults they suffered. If there was some fault it would have been on Kavitha's parents who might have pressurized her for the marriage. She might have agreed and somehow couldnt accept it and at last minute did what she believed was good for her.

In Kavitha's case it might not be Sooraj alone, she might not have wanted to marry at young age for pursuing her ambition. And the girl had courage to admit her method was wrong. She said it clearly her method was wrong.

The matter would have been closed if Sooraj instead of silence just replied it's fine. You have a life and I am a happily married man and let us not discuss past further. But he was silent, a little shocked and once again that scene playing in his mind bring back hurtful memories and Bhabo came and lashed out.

@niruba what Kavitha did was not wrong, her method was wrong. We have to clearly differentiate both. She took a decision not to marry Sooraj, but the way she did it was not at all appropriate.

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cherrypansy

@cherrypansy

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Posted: 11 years ago

I don't think kavita has guroor...if that was the case then she hd not thought of calling Suraj ...to me she seemed sorry for what she did with Suraj..her only fault is she tried to pursue her dreams at the cost of others trust in her...so I give her a benefit of doubt as it is sure her father completely ignored her wishes and went against her. Second, may be seeing Rathis she guessed that she could not achieve what she aims after being married in their family..

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